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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by maticar: 1:12pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MAGG0T:who would text a maggot as your moniker says it all |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 1:12pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
maticar:lol |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 1:13pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
My post enter front page pussy...hope dey |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by MAGG0T(m): 1:13pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
maticar: Go brush your teeth, before quoting me to spew trash next time, bye son! |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by RightToReject(m): 1:14pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Foremost, literally, ghosting can only be said to happen where one of two people who are, or seem to be, an item - mutually/officially or one-sided/unofficially - becomes incommunicado where the bonding/interaction moment before that was so refreshing and while he/she is still visibly around and healthy in the cause of being incommunicado often going into a long time and after being reaching out to at least more than twice by the other party. That said, not everyone can feel hurtful when being ghosted, just as one can ghost another just for the benefits of the person being ghosted, thus: - You can never feel hurt if you have a mentality that is strongly rooted in standard rather than expectation and/or entitlement. It takes one whose mentality is strongly rooted in libertarian and altruism to make this possible. - Also, one whose mentality is strongly rooted in libertarian and altruism can ghost someone whom he/she holds dear when he observes that she has fallen in love with him and wants something serious and long-lasting even when there's nothing defining between them, while he is not ready for such. So, in this instance, it isn't a case of him taking delight in evil; instead, it's a case of him not wanting to be a stumbling block to her. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Rahkman: 1:14pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Me as a fine guy I dey use am tire for babes any good looking guy here will understand where I am coming from. All this mumu girls go dey form nonsense I go just ghost dem na dem go dey beg me later...when I don already get another babe I dey lash...if the babe sexy to ignore I fit begin chat on a normal level so I go lash. Some girls u go ghost them ,dem go block you,I no dey even notice,later them go unblock you...begin chat you up say you bin forget them,some go delete your number after 1 month , them go come back especially if you Don drop one fresh pic for ig...dem go begin message you make you give them back your number ...mumu girls 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by BigBashiru: 1:16pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
The western European savages convinced africans to think less of urself and it has worked on your mind. That's the same thing they did to the native Indians. There are 190 countries in the world many of who have more inventions than the 5 imperialists of western europe. Is it really possible that out of 190 nations of the world that it's only 5 from western Europe that God blessed with "superior brains".... can't you smell that it's a lie?? Even many African countries are more technologically advanced than the 5 western European countries. Iraq, Qatar, Jordan, all hv finer scientists than the western European ones 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by cornerstonee: 1:18pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by s3nn2x708: 1:22pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by omoiyamayor(m): 1:22pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Karleb:what you guys actually call maturity is watching Grams and emulating your gram star this days, when you talk about issues and you get that response of being a cry baby, I think ghosting makes you look like I tried to be a better person but I got to do this. First you have to protect your mental health before looking out for another persons feelings. 14 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bigcee(m): 1:24pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
iamkelvincent:
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by IamGreen1(f): 1:24pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Double0h7: Hmmmmm marsman: Reckon that! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by nukky77(f): 1:24pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
worldclass68:Na man you be. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by olola4(m): 1:24pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MNDY: Thank you very much for this! I started ghosting a very close female friend at the beginning of this year and it's almost two months now, none of us reach out to each other. She is a very foolish person and I think she is crazy kinda, I miss her though but I enjoy the peace of mind I have now. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Lifewasgood: 1:26pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Sammy101111: Why will you call me 4 times a day? |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by KingDash: 1:26pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Rahkman:rakhman you sabi |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by OneKinGuy(m): 1:28pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by bigcee(m): 1:30pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Rahkman: 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Sammy101111(m): 1:31pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
You are not my girlfriend Am just trying to explain Lifewasgood: |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by omoiyamayor(m): 1:31pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
crazy thing is like our ladies are more aware of ghosting than guys, it’s like a trend, for me I see it as been cold which I make people close to me aware of, I don’t like being call drama king or a cry baby when I see wrongs and I try to speak out, i believe in speaking out or speaking up, if I don’t like a doctrine in Christianity I speak up, you can call me a rebel but well I guess I just made you see what you refused to see, my point is I am this guy that can do things on my own but if you render to help you are also welcome so I can be very cold when you push me to that angle of evaluating you and trust me I might even freeze you out when I see your true value I have always ignored all while long, I believe in mutual respect and being on the same page makes it more healthier, not someone pretending to like me when you are not feeling me, be honest with yourself first, if you don’t want to be ghosted be mutual. I don’t even exchange contacts with people I don’t want to talk to and if we meet before we go too far I will see if you are my kind of person, if you are not I will avoid you to make you understand I’m not feeling you, keep family family, friends as friends, colleagues as colleagues, so that when you message me in middle of the night I can answer you in the morning and you won’t get it wrong or feel ghosted. 8 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Freemasonry: 1:31pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
People dey make simple things difficult. If you ghost me, I ghost you. If you get my time, I get your time. No hard feelings. Even if na babe wey I like, I go just reprogram my head. I can't come and kill myself for people wey no even send me. 15 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Lifewasgood: 1:34pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Sammy101111: Why will you call your girlfriend 4times a day, it’s being clingy and insecure. The day is divided into 2 parts at extreme 3 parts so why d Bleep will you fucking will call your girl 4 times a day if you ain’t simping! |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Cognitivereason: 1:35pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Jmichael1: Nothing dey special inside...we don't dey used to am |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
danietohbadt: 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Sammy101111(m): 1:44pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Bro i can call her anytime i want and some days i may not call like the other day so I did say i was going to be calling her 4 times It just explaination If you don't get it then leave it Lifewasgood: |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Kingosytex(m): 1:46pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Polynek: I no dey block people, na you go use your hand block yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Bayoibee: 1:48pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
valdes00: E pepper am for body na why� |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Bayoibee: 1:50pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Anobella: You be Weyrey o�, you even upgrade d ghosting like d one you were doing before wasn’t enough already �. I like people like you hahaha 1 Like |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by valdes00(m): 1:51pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
Bayoibee:You knw women like make guy dey pursue them mak them dey use u do shakara, the day u gt sense free her, e go pain her pass wetin u no xpect 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Kingosytex(m): 1:51pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
MrLondonder: Wetin you dey even talk about sef? Na this matter wey dey dis thread or another matter? |
Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Baniremi11: 1:52pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
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Re: Why Is Ghosting So Hurtful? by Adsexpert: 1:56pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
danietohbadt: lol this guy sef 1 Like |
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