I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

Mods, a little help for somebody's son here

She is a leech and does not love you...a true relationship should be transparent and giving should be mutual.

By the way, she is still broke if all she has in her account is 150k.

You should not even contemplate of breaking up with her, you should do that immediately. She's a Parasitic animal. She's a type that even if you get married to her, she won't change ,she won't contribute anything in the marriage...and you'll die before your time.

Fake parasitic girls everywhere, disgracing us everywhere.

Let us all gather and fry beans

Send her to Ukraine...simple

She open office on top your head, and so?!?


Nigerian babes and Gold digging are 5 and 6.


Someone quote me with that Zuma meme

Op it is like you ve forgot the mantra of a housewife or a married woman.


The mantra of a married woman is..."His money is our money but my money is my money alone"

Op remember the above Mantra??

move on bro..you don't need manipulative woman,you will regret it...thank your stars you found out on time before any deeper commitment,count your loses and move on...her lost,not yours... getting honest people when it comes to MAN MADE PAPER(MONEY) is hard these days..sorry bro,no need to be angry,be happy you have been saved...na this kin babe go use your money dey feed another guy for naija.all the best bro

Some girls will always think they are wise but still allow Yahoo guys do be using their head back to back.

So you mean you have traveled out of the country and you still find 150k as something worth breaking up over?

By the way, the money you found in her account, is it yours?

Don't let her find out you know her balance, then try act broke and in need of financial help and see if she can help you with money if she do
Then she's a good wife material who knows how to save for rainy days



Ask most married people they don't know their wives balance oh
And their wives always claim broke

When there's real issues they step in to help

You don't expect her to tell you how much she have


Just beg her for money and see if she can help
NOTE: at first she might say No, continue to beg and see
But if she no agree just end am

MadamVanessa:



You should not even contemplate of breaking up with her, you should do that immediately. She's a Parasitic animal. She's a type that even if you get married to her, she won't change ,she will won't contribute anything in the marriage...and you'll die before your time.

Fake parasitic girls everywhere, disgracing us everywhere.

You are absolutely correct in all your conclusion especially @ the bolded. You should have also included that she is a potential cheat if he eventually gets married to her.

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

You have already decided.


Wetin you want us to say again

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

You fall maga. Move on


We wey dey inside with these ladies open our eyes.. talkless of you wey dey outside..

Move on OR confront her and hear her out

Some people are like this, their account statements can't be less than a specific amount of money. They prefer to starve than touch it!

Turn the tables and try asking her for money and she if she’d send to you. That’s the only way to know if she’s really a leach

Don't breakup, you'll lose.

Payback is a bitvh.

qekng40:
Some people are like this, their account statements can't be less than a specific amount of money. They prefer to starve than touch it!

they are foolish people

Your aboard must be Togo if you think her having $359 in her account is a lot of money. She's broke and she has an aboard boyfriend so allow her or let her go so she can find a better man

Year 2022 is really a bad one for simps. Too many cries lately.

qekng40:
Some people are like this, their account statements can't be less than a specific amount of money. They prefer to starve than touch it!

Na dem. Leech don drop motivational quote

MadamVanessa:



You should not even contemplate of breaking up with her, you should do that immediately. She's a Parasitic animal. She's a type that even if you get married to her, she won't change ,she will won't contribute anything in the marriage...and you'll die before your time.

Fake parasitic girls everywhere, disgracing us everywhere.

Where is Ibibio?

You're talking as if you gave her the money at gun point.
By now you should know that an average Nigerian woman/lady/girl complain about not having money even if they have millions in their account.
The older women are even worst. They can sing it...

Let's be realistic its the mind set that needs to be change in her nothing else..
Talk to her about your displeasure and your sacrifices then (no smile oo).

And her reaction will tell your the next step to follow. Make sure you read beyond the words of her mouth.

OP I Dumped my Ex cos of these Reason.Babe will buy sometin of 100 Naira and still wait for me to come back from work and pay it.Was holding her Phone one day when i saw an alert displaying her Account balance,i cud nt endure it again,had to question her.The Dumb lie she put to me was that its for her Dads Medicals.
After that day my mind spoilt towards her,jst had to lt her go.I cnt date a stingy lady and will neva advice any Man to date a stingy lady no mata hw Rich you are.Ladies Were made to support their Man and nt to be Parasites.

Moony45:
I'm just gonna make this quick cos i'm angry right now.

I met this girl back in 2019 before the pandemic in what started as a beautiful relationship. I have always supported her financially with every penny i had (even when she gained admission into HND in 2020) while i managed with the little i had. She always complain of wanting to use money to settle school stuffs and blah blah which i reasoned and i always found a means to give her cos she claimed she was always broke and acted like she was. Sometimes i even screenshot my account balance to her to let her know i was broke sometimes. Even though i'm out of the country, i still manage to send money to her with all the struggles one faces abroad.

Fast forward to today, i was able to access her bank application only for me to find over 150,000naira there and i checked the account history up from 2020 and this girl have always had above that amount.

I'm so angry right cos i feel betrayed by the kind heard and true love i have shown to her cos she has consistently lied for more than 2 years and i'm contemplating on breaking up with her, doing worse or making her pay cos there were days i only manage to find 3000naira and i still sent everything to her.

What should i do?

Mature advice only pls

Good morning Mr Simpson

Nonexisting:
Year 2022 is really a bad one for simps. Too many cries lately.

In this case,what makes him a simp?

But if a woman gives her man money is love abi?

resend her to Ukraine

How you access her bank app from the abroad

Skyfornia:
She is a leech and does not love you...a true relationship should be transparent and giving should be mutual.

By the way, she is still broke if all she has in her account is 150k.

I wonder O

How person wey get 150k not say she's broke