Have been visiting a very close friend since five years now at his shop, close by they are families around.

But theys this particular married woman who always squeeze face when I come to meet my friend in his store.
Gossiping me with her husband who also stare.

Almost everything I do, she observes...
I don't greet her since 2017 come, I always dey my dey.


Recently I noticed her children all girls teenagers following suit... whenever I come they rushed out to come see me...one after the other.
Some spitting... squeezing face.
Some laughing uncesseraly

And trying to find my eye contacts.
When we coincidentally stare, they withdraws their eyes.

Honestly, but when I get close to where my friend is and they are there...they immediately leave.


I Just tire.

I don't know what their mom has fed them..


Honestly I don't have any better place to go, if not I for give that place a big chance.

Talking about age I senior them by far, they are just like a younger sibling I never had.


I for say na greenlight's....but no


This one all 5 of them just doing the same thing.


It's like whenever am at my friend's shop, they all feel uncomfortable.

Because I don't relate much

I don't talk much, just that my friend and few other people

Some people are stupid... Some families are stupid... Don't mind them...

I already know the type of family and environment it would be. Well, you can avoid the place for sometime.

Damn them dey catch your cruise ni
If you manage greet them once like this, omo na free puna you go dey chop anyhow and everyday.

You mean to tell us that because of the actions of 5 tennage girls, you almost gave us migraine while reading your writeup?
Seun abeg add option of voicenote for people that want to create thread. No be by force to write English.

silverlinen:
Damn them dey catch your cruise ni
If you manage greet them once like this, omo na free puna you go dey chop anyhow and everyday.

I reason am like that, but this one nor be greenlight's.

Na their influence of their mum when started it..I can sense it.

They must have tabled my matter severally at their parlours to be acting this way.
All the same



Am a very quiet and kept personality so I notice things easily.

Small children go come dey make me when dey approach 30 to reason somehow.

Na wa

Tonero5200:

I reason am like that, but this one nor be greenlight's.

Na their influence of their mum.

They must have tabled my matter severally at their parlours to be acting this way.

Am a very quiet and kept personality so I noticed things easily.

Small children go come dey make me when dey approach 30 to reason somehow

Then their mother is either interested in you, or she has something against you.
Whichever way, just dey waka your own jeje.

silverlinen:

Then their mother is either interested in you, or she has something against you.
Whichever way, just dey waka your own jeje.

But why person go get something against you, when you never talk to the person once for life.



I just tire

Check if you carry shit for body

writetopoker:
Check if you carry shit for body

I fresh die


Infact whenever I step out, people dey hail.

Dey wonder who I be

I just don't migle alot


I don't have friends just ther my guy close by.




Bros once again, I fresh die

Lol U even get time notice them... maybe dem dey extend beef when dem get with ur friend.

killmods:
Lol U even get time notice them... maybe dem dey extend beef when dem get with ur friend.

no beef with my friend boss,them dey enter the store 24/7 but whenever I come...they go waka.


Start to hiss.


Squeeze face.



Giggling.

And so many things, you as a quiet person go quick understand.


It's like my present dey disturb them for their house.


I vex one-day complain give my friend.

Even him self don dey notice sm

Tonero5200:

But why person go get something against you, when you never talk to the person once for life.



I just tire

Such is life man..the heart of man is naturally wicked.

Ignore the evil woman and her kids... I'm sure she poisoned their minds towards you, reason they are acting that way.
When their madness gets out of hand, then it;s best you treat their fvckup, all six of them. Don't take shit!

flokii:
Ignore the evil woman and her kids... I'm sure she poisoned their minds towards you, reason they are acting that way.
When their madness gets out of hand, then it;s best you treat their fvckup, all six of them. Don't take shit!

Thanks bro,


I can't just stop to visit my friend because he has been a great help to me since we were young childhood friend ...if that guy nor see my break light in a day he go call me.. because I live in another street close to his shop.


If not I for just give that place chance this year.


God....I dey reason am sometimes...I know something is wrong somewhere.


Me and this woman never talk once for life, neither with her children.

Tonero5200:

But why person go get something against you, when you never talk to the person once for life.



I just tire

It's busybody and very common with women.. attimes the pill they need to cure their madness is vawulence.

Tonero5200:
no beef with my friend boss,them dey enter the store 24/7 but whenever I come...they go waka.


Start to hiss.


Squeeze face.



Giggling.

And so many things, you as a quiet person go quick understand.


It's like my present dey disturb them for their house.


I vex one-day complain give my friend.

Even him self don dey notice sm

Hm the matter dey one kind... maybe na as u dey blank them dem dey vex put. Abi e get wetin dem dey find for us body again? Na to distance from the place small oo.. e nor mean say u must go there.

Na bad bele dem.

killmods:

Hm the matter dey one kind... maybe na as u dey blank them dem dey vex put. Abi e get wetin dem dey find for us body again? Na to distance from the place small oo.. e nor mean say u must go there.

na so I dey reason am, whenever I close from work or not get anything doing...I nor go fit just dey house.
Na make me dey go there since 2017 come...till the place don even dey use to me.


I go try

Tonero5200:


Thanks bro,


I can't just stop to visit my friend because he has been a great help to me since we were young childhood friend ...if that guy nor see my break light in a day he go call me.. because I live in another street close to his shop.


If not I for just give that place chance this year.


God....I dey reason am sometimes...I know something is wrong somewhere.


Me and this woman never talk once for life, neither with her children.

It's either she is a flirt or just stvpid.. one almost crossed my lane till she saw the kind of person she was messing with. The witch ran away from her shop for weeks, even me come dey pity am.
Not with what my eyes have seen in life that someone will now want to oppress me, woman for that matter.

Your friend is feeding them with your life story give that your friend a break, be wise my guy ....no paddy for jungle..


See that my friend weh dey come here ,na me thy feed erm every day, that is why e thy always come here . So any time you arrive thy will all want to see the ultimate beggar.

.

KiNg0G:


I doubt so.

He doesn't relate with the said woman, just greetings from 2017 have been going to meet him


I never see am sit down dey discuss story with that woman.


Besides they all know am comfortable and don't rely on anyone talkless a friend who hustle money till night.

No way ..this is far from it.



But I do know she must have heard something, maybe from other sources

That is why you need to figure out the reason why they are steering at you all the time . Before them implicate you o

So many things would die a natural death if we choose not to pay attention into it/ behave as if it doesn't exist, but here in naija, we pay attention and fight in all circumstances, even the ones that are not directed at us.

No wonder a naija man called us lazy youth.

Please am not trying to sow discord here. Maybe she asked about you from your friend and he gave her a little rundown about you to her that might be generating this or your going there might un-intentionally spoiling her mission she wants to carry out with her daughters on your friend. Another thing that i noticed,might be she wished she had a son like you and she is channeling that wish in a wrong that led to that display of character or she might think you are after her girls. So to protect them from you,she had to make you a monster or a cheapstake to her girls. That's my own little observation to your story.

Emmawhite91:
Please am not trying to sow discord here. Maybe she asked about you from your friend and he gave her a little rundown about you to her that might be generating this or your going there might un-intentionally spoiling her mission she wants to carry out with her daughters on your friend. Another thing that i noticed,might be she wished she had a son like you and she is channeling that wish in a wrong that led to that display of character or she might think you are after her girls. So to protect them from you,she had to make you a monster or a cheapstake to her girls. That's my own little observation to your story.

My friend is not womanizer, pastor kind.

Yes I believe she must have heard some awful things about me from other mutual friends around...
And me not greeting her since 2017 come, not one word said, just minding my business who I came to visit.

Almost like people around don't exist, this particular woman getting upsets.

And yes maybe she thinks am after her teenage girls, who I see as kids 14 to 17 the oldest I think..... while am am going 28.


No, that woman cant wish am her son, lol .. she can't born me...too young for that.


All your point you stated are somehow valid.

Now tell me bro.....HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE THIS SITUATION FROM THE POINTS I PICKED.... especially making me a monster towards her kids maybe thinks after them or staring at them.



Should I stop going to that my friend place because of all this thing.


Or I should go and ignore..as in total ignore

Tonero5200

lemme give you a simple advice, if it doesn't work, call me Mumu.....



I been get those kinds of neighbors before, me sef no dey greet anybody, I dey mind my business die....


but then the eyes and snicker remarks became so uncomfortable that even to comot from my house sef na problem cause them go look me like say their eyes go kill me.


what did I do? simple...


pay them back in their own coins....


bruh, fuvking look at them back, don't show fear.


infact as you dey near your guy place, begin dey look at the direction of the woman's room or shop or wherever them dey look you from...


shebi you say if you look them, them dey trowey face.


alaye continue looking at them, show no fear. bask in the euphoria of their torment.

Infact make your own stare so obvious that they'll shit their pants. I don't know if you're getting me.


once them realise say you sef get eyes to look at them, they'll backtrack.


Asin everything dey do to you, do am back. if you sight any of them, hiss and spit and stare disgustingly at them. No body has monopoly of looking ohhh, your continuous fear of them is feeding their strength.



use your head bruh, use your head...


last point, still don't greet any of them, cause doing that would make you lose that fear factor...



for more advice.... lemme hang here. come pay your tithe later Sha...

Therock5555:
Tonero5200

lemme give you a simple advice, if it doesn't work, call me Mumu.....



I been get those kinds of neighbors before, me sef no dey greet anybody, I dey mind my business die....


but then the eyes and snicker remarks became so uncomfortable that even to comot from my house sef na problem cause them go look me like say their eyes go kill me.


what did I do? simple...


pay them back in their own coins....


bruh, fuvking look at them back, don't show fear.


infact as you dey near your guy place, begin dey look at the direction of the woman's room or shop or wherever them dey look you from...


shebi you say if you look them, them dey trowey face.


alaye continue looking at them, show no fear. bask in the euphoria of their torment.

Infact make your own stare so obvious that they'll shit their pants. I don't know if you're getting me.


once them realise say you sef get eyes to look at them, they'll backtrack.


Asin everything dey do to you, do am back. if you sight any of them, hiss and spit and stare disgustingly at them. No body has monopoly of looking ohhh, your continuous fear of them is feeding their strength.



use your head bruh, use your head...


last point, still don't greet any of them, cause doing that would make you lose that fear factor...



for more advice.... lemme hang here. come pay your tithe later Sha...

Hahahaha.

I get you bros, I understand you perfectly well

FO WHAT NA?
ARE YU MICHAEL JACKSON?

Nope,that should not stop you from visiting your friend. Well to me,try to make peace with her through that pastor friend of yours maybe she might tell him why she is behaving that way. By the way you carried yourself out at your friends place might be giving out a wrong message. I once had that exp. that they thought am a monster or being possesed by a spirit of unfriendliness. You might be an introvert but there are times you need to socialise with people out of your circle of friends.