Please hide my id, I am a very beautiful and good girl of 18 years. I have been dating one guy for a year he his my first and only boyfriend I had, now I am pregnant he has denied the pregnancy and ran away. I have tried abortion, it has refused to go many times now I have told my sisters I can't tell my people. I don't know if there is any man who is willing to father a child that isn't his and we will be together and I will also have his own kids please this my only option before I kill myself am very frustrated and ashamed please
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Well, because of the society we live in, it's very difficult for one to decode to father a child that isn't his. I'm not saying it's impossible, I'm just saying it's going to be hard.

How are you supposed to know his real intentions if he's actually going to stay with you every step of the way or if he just want to pass the time with you.

Getting pregnant isn't a shameful thing at all. The only logical thing I'd suggest you do after you've birthed the baby is to do a DNA test and take him to a paternity court for child support.

I believe the guy should be in his early 20's and has no sense of responsibility. It's why he denied the pregnancy. Don't terminate the pregnancy and don't even think about committing suicide.

I know for sure it's gonna seem like there's no way out but you'll figure it all out as times goes on and the guy will wish he wasn't such a sh*thead later.

I know lots of peeps are gonna call you out and diss you on here because of this, just shrug 'em off..
***** Send that to her*****

Tried abortion, it has refused to go many times

Stupid story...

So another man should pity you because you're pregnant and then put a ring on it? Really?

Story for the gods

Shey this one dey whine me ni...?? This one honestly thought this is Nollywood where Bolanle Ninolowo will appear from nowhere...

Things I read and see online. God will help this wonderful generation ooooh

I don't know if there is any man who is willing to father a child

I guess her hand break. What is the use of being a mother then? If there’s nobody to father her child she should look at one already tried and tested; her father.

Omo

Am ready pm let's talk

Gentino:
Please hide my id, I am a very beautiful and good girl of 18 years. I have been dating one guy for a year he his my first and only boyfriend I had, now I am pregnant he has denied the pregnancy and ran away. I have tried abortion, it has refused to go many times now I have told my sisters I can't tell my people. I don't know if there is any man who is willing to father a child that isn't his and we will be together and I will also have his own kids please this my only option before I kill myself am very frustrated and ashamed please
I am a seamstress
please no insults
please also notify me when posted

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You are looking for a man to accept your pregnancy from another man and you also hope to have children for him

That means you just want marriage, at this your teenage age

Do you even have any future plans for yourself at all

Child bearing is not part of future plans because you cannot birth a child that you don't have plan for

I think you should go to motherless or orphanage homes and register your self that you don't want to keep the child and wishes to give away the child after birth

But it's like you just want to marry and have a home probably to be cared for by another man

It doesn't work that way

Chaiii......Girlchild.

Girlchild.....No matter how you try to inculcate sense in them as a parent or guardian, they 'd still find a way to open leg for one inscrupulous element.

God pls forbid me and a girlchild in this generation abeg.


Lastweek, one came here to create a thread, crying foul how her boyfriend whom she really loved has refused to marry her upon discovery that she already has a child.....Who will want to marry a fairly used or tokumbo lady??.....naso the guy japa.

3 days later, she cancel the thread after receiving the bashing of her life from some elders on the forum.. The topic of the thread suddenly became."Case closed"

Girls will continue to eat their cake, and they can never have it.

Raspberries:
Stupid story...

some fetus will never go away no matter how you try aborting it

MufasaLion:
So another man should pity you because you're pregnant and then put a ring on it? Really?

a beg help my sister by marrying her.she is just too naive to have fallen prey to bad boy

Southernigbo:
a beg help my sister by marrying her.she is just too naive to have fallen prey to bad boy

So you want men to marry her out of pity? Pathetic!

MufasaLion:


So you want men to marry her out of pity? Pathetic!

I only want u to help pls just out of ur own little mercy

Beautiful good girl who got pregnant out of wedlock.

Do you have her contact

go to African magic epic page, tell them your story and request for Ken Eric's number

Nicepoker:
Beautiful good girl who got pregnant out of wedlock.

having sex is not a criminal offence the last time checked

bigjackass:
having sex is not a criminal offence the last time checked

My emphasis is based on morals here.

Nicepoker:
My emphasis is based on morals here.

. Which morals. You can't judge every one according to your Muslim or Christian beliefs. Anything that is not against the law is perfectly okay, including sex.

bigjackass:
. Which morals. You can't judge every one according to your Muslim or Christian beliefs. Anything that is not against the law is perfectly okay, including sex.

well if that's your own ideology about life generally stick to it. I am on a different lane. Morals and laws goes hand in hand in my own case.

Gentino:
Please hide my id, I am a very beautiful and good girl of 18 years. I have been dating one guy for a year he his my first and only boyfriend I had, now I am pregnant he has denied the pregnancy and ran away. I have tried abortion, it has refused to go many times now I have told my sisters I can't tell my people. I don't know if there is any man who is willing to father a child that isn't his and we will be together and I will also have his own kids please this my only option before I kill myself am very frustrated and ashamed please
I am a seamstress
please no insults
please also notify me when posted

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Can only help u to get Job to mother ur child.

Southernigbo:
a beg help my sister by marrying her.she is just too naive to have fallen prey to bad boy

Both you and your sister are mad, when the good guys comes ona go friendzone am and open leg for the bad boy, and u still want the good guys to come and carry problem they do not caused, na God go punish both you

ORIAYO70:


Can only help u to get Job to mother ur child.

Do not give her a job, make she suffer there, they friendzone the good guys and open legs for the bad guys, let her carry her load

Tony142:



Do not give her a job, make she suffer there, they friendzone the good guys and open legs for the bad guys, let her carry her load

Where's your conscience? If you can't help, don't deprive her from being helped by someone else.

if she is based in lagos and the story is true, get to her. i can be giving her monthly stipend and she go stay with mumsy or stay in one of the room in my apartment till she gives birth, under the permission of her people or elder sister, also known by the police authorities. pls she should not abort that child.