What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Mark 10:9. So for this reason divorce should be discouraged.

But do you know that it is only what God joined together that must not be put asunder.
Not when you join yourself together or family join you together. Is it really God that joined you together? And this does not indicate being joined together in church. You can be joined in church and not joined by God.

Marriage has enough challenges but if it is God that joined you together He will find a way. Also know that God can join you together and you still refuse to play your role and hence lead to divorce.

The devil also joins people together to mess up their future. Should that marriage continue?

Divorce is allowed..Jesus gave the condition. It’s unfaithfulness... it doesn’t matter how you got married. Whether, family joined you, or your parents are dead and you joined yourself

Unfaithfulness can be cheating,
Denying your spouse of sex for long
Being unfaithful can also be not maintaining your side of peace in the union...

nobody has to suffer in marriage..there is limits to human tolerance...

Dumping one’s spouse for selfish reasons or becos one has seen a new sexy guy/girl is what is not permitted.....