Hamachi:
How exactly do you guys manage marriage pressure from family members?

I and a family members had a function together some weeks back and out of the blues my elder sis asked if men don't want to get married.
I told her they want to, but they need to have a confirmed source of income....That how does she expect them to get married when some are still struggling to even feed.

My in-laws (brother's wife, sister's husband) joined in the discussion. They said I'm coming of age and I need to get married and start having kids so i can train them when I'm still strong and agile, not when I'm much older and weak!
They even opted to support financially when I'm ready! They said marriage brings good things....that i will surely get a job or business when I marry.

They said a whole lot.........like telling me marriage is not when you have it all. My elder brother even said he had nothing when he married his wife.

All talks from left to right was just ringing in my head and making me feel bad, like I purposely don't want to marry. I have no job nor business, not even a gf! The thoughts alone is just tearing me apart! The worse of it all is the pressure from my mom!

So bachelors in the house, how do you suggest I handle this?

Matured responses pls.

Cutehector:
Never believe any human being even your brothers when they tell you they will support you in marriage.

donbachi:
Naija pastors added to it too.
With their

"Dont marry any with no source of income"

"Dont marry any man whose income is below 50k"

U see where the problem dey..u no get,dem complain and u come get..dem say e no go reach.

Cutehector:
Never believe any human being even your brothers when they tell you they will support you in marriage.

Hamachi:
Why?

Favfables1:
Even if they will assist you with the whole wedding/marriage expenditure, will they also assist you in your family expenditure? Will they also assist you in paying your bills? Getting diapers?

OP...
Have a stable source of income first before you think of marriage ....

Cause no matter how much a couple love each other, if there's no money, that love will fly out the window faster than the speed of light ...

So chill awk?
And besides, marriage is not a do or die affair, it's not a child's play, so don't allow anyone to guilt trip you into doing something you're not ready for...

abbeYhart:
Marriage bring good things...but I noticed there are more people from the married folks begging for financial assistance today.

Proudpolygamist:
Life is sweet when you're chopping from different calabash at the same time.
Never commit to one vagina whether married or single
Just get a girl pregnant when you're ready to have a child, anyother thing can follow after

talk2hb1:
Wedding Is Just a Day,
Marriage is Forever!

Hamachi:
How exactly do you guys manage marriage pressure from family members?

I and a family members had a function together some weeks back and out of the blues my elder sis asked if men don't want to get married.
I told her they want to, but they need to have a confirmed source of income....That how does she expect them to get married when some are still struggling to even feed.

My in-laws (brother's wife, sister's husband) joined in the discussion. They said I'm coming of age and I need to get married and start having kids so i can train them when I'm still strong and agile, not when I'm much older and weak!
They even opted to support financially when I'm ready! They said marriage brings good things....that i will surely get a job or business when I marry.

They said a whole lot.........like telling me marriage is not when you have it all. My elder brother even said he had nothing when he married his wife.

All talks from left to right was just ringing in my head and making me feel bad, like I purposely don't want to marry. I have no job nor business, not even a gf! The thoughts alone is just tearing me apart! The worse of it all is the pressure from my mom!

So bachelors in the house, how do you suggest I handle this?

Matured responses pls.

Kaido:
Are you up to 40 years old?

Boogyman557:
. Holly Gram


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