My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were siblings.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

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Use mummy

Dating an older lady can be so lovely. They won't really stress you, They won't ask you for money rather she will be the one giving you sef. The reverse is just like how mature men (probably 55 yrs old) do take care of their young wife (24 yrs).

I will advise you give her a chance, honestly you're gonna enjoy true love and care.

You are not a real niqqa,but since you don't wanna be in the relationship,tell her bluntly you ain't interested,,,,I hate it when Young niqqas keep asking questions like this,and na akwaibom babe,we go use reverse cowgirl finish you,

VOsimhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were brothers.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

Aunty is just desperate and wants to hook boyfriend by force....
Tell her you thought you guys are just friends
That you like her as a person but you have a long way to go with school and career and not ready for relationship....being in a relationship with her will not be fair on her..it will be like using her

Abeg drop her number make I help u pass d message

advanceDNA:


Aunty is just desperate and wants to hook boyfriend by force....
Tell her you thought you guys are just friends
That you like her as a person but you have a long way to go with school and career and not ready for relationship....being in a relationship with her will not be fair on her..it will be like using her

I'm done with school, I finished nysc last year. I just wanna focus on business right now.

VOsimhen144:
I'm done with school, I finished nysc last year. I just wanna focus on business right now.

I know..
.u are 27 naa...
just tell her that...
27 no dey do masters

chiefolododo:
Use mummy

Mummy wa to be precise

Oga just say it. It must hurt anyway u say it. So just clear her doubt now now.

VOsimhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were brothers.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

Exkandayee:
You are not a real niqqa,but since you don't wanna be in the relationship,tell her bluntly you ain't interested,,,,I hate it when Young niqqas keep asking questions like this,and na akwaibom babe,we go use reverse cowgirl finish you,

Do real niggas just hurt people feelings like that?? Mind you I'm not even after sex, Infact she has showed me green light to off her pants but I'm not in for sex. What if she gets pregnant for me? Don't you think she will keep.

I don't want to have anything to do with a lady way older than me. Atleast a year or two is okay not 10 years.

VOsimhen144:
Do real niggas just hurt people feelings like that?? Mind you I'm not even after sex, Infact she has showed me green light to off her pants but I'm not in for sex. What if she gets pregnant for me? Don't you think she will keep.

I don't want to have anything to do with a lady way older than me. Atleast a year or two is okay not 10 years.

That's why I said, you ain't a real niqqa,if she got pregnant is win win for you cos she'll take care of the baby and will never disturb you about diapers and shit,bro I'll advice you to bang and get her pregnant ASAP, you sound like a pussy ass

you're wise from your responses. just don't start what you can't finish

advanceDNA:


I know..
.u are 27 naa...
just tell her that...
27 no dey do masters

Yeah, you're right. I hope she listens, honestly you don't know what I'm going through in the hand of this lady. She's just too emotionally.

...
Na now day break for her side.
I doubt if she would have been this nice to you in her early ages.



ask her what she wants, and feel free to tell her your mind.

you can also add to penile mileage though..

VOsimhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were siblings.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

She wants to have a baby. That's what she is after fertility clock is ticking. If you really are not interested then ignore her calls, keep dodging her till she gets the message.

Exkandayee:

That's why I said, you ain't a real niqqa,if she got pregnant is win win for you cos she'll take care of the baby and will never disturb you about diapers and shit,bro I'll advice you to bang and get her pregnant ASAP, you sound like a pussy ass

Lol...Aswear you no well

It's so funny how you think it's that easy
Op, use your brain, don't fall into the trap of a strange lady...Let her off and follow your brain here

Bros, why don't you date her?

Whatever you do, please don't aunty zone her.

Daniel7543:
Dating an older lady can be so lovely. They won't really stress you, They won't ask you for money rather she will be the one giving you sef. The reverse is just like how mature men (probably 55 yrs old) to take care of their young wife (24 yrs).

I will advise you give her a chance, honestly you're gonna enjoy true love and care.

Jigolo !!! Longer throat!

The lady has suddenly realized that she has turned into an evening newspaper and she's desperately looking for a simp guy to hook and manipulate him for marriage!!

OP, dump her asap and move on with ur life. This is exactly how Nigeria girls behaves once they've turned into old newspapers

Karleb:
Bros, why don't you date her?

Whatever you do, please don't aunty zone her.

Another Jigolo spotted.

VOsimhen144:
Do real niggas just hurt people feelings like that?? Mind you I'm not even after sex, Infact she has showed me green light to off her pants but I'm not in for sex. What if she gets pregnant for me? Don't you think she will keep.

I don't want to have anything to do with a lady way older than me. Atleast a year or two is okay not 10 years.

Since you know what you want, tell her whichever way you choose. No is No, she may hurt now but it is better.

Don't allow anybody dump emotional baggage on you.

Exkandayee:

That's why I said, you ain't a real niqqa,if she got pregnant is win win for you cos she'll take care of the baby and will never disturb you about diapers and shit,bro I'll advice you to bang and get her pregnant ASAP, you sound like a pussy ass

You are nothing but an opportunist, a branded Jigolo. How can you advise a fellow brother enter pit because of intercontinental dishes and few stipends . Nawa ooooo.

An emotional manipulative woman as such can seem weak but very dangerous. Well it's none of my business sha. Later they will come here to call women names .

Palema007:
Another Jigolo spotted.

It's Gigolo.

Karleb:


It's Gigolo.

Gigolo !!!

VOsimhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were siblings.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

Give me her number. I am also in Benin

Palema007:
Gigolo !!!

Oshey omo 'ya mi!

VOsimhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were siblings.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

U like her too but u are only worried abt her age. Yes or yes?

Ask her to tell you exactly what she wants....
Mind wetin you dey put for mouth in the guise of "intercontinental dishes" Akwa ibom girls no get joy o. A lot of them belong to olumba obu

Ignore her bro. Dem wan guilt trip you. [right][/right]

VO simhen144:
My elder brother owns a boutique here in forestry Benin city, I manage the boutique business for him because he has other businesses to take care of.

Jaunary 15 this year, a guy came with a lady to my store to buy some clothes and shoe, they love what they saw, they spent over 70k that day at my store.

They even bought a Jean for someone who was at home, so I told them to feel free to return the Jean if it wasn't the person's size and I also promised to look for the person's size, I even gave them my number.

The lady called me that evening to informed me the Jean was okay, it was the person's actual size, she even said her both brothers love the clothes they bought. I politely told her to tell her brothers to also refer their friends to my shop. Infact that was when I knew they were siblings.

Ever since then, this lady has been calling to check up on me, she chat me up on Whatsapp everyday, I got to know she's from Akwa-ibom, she 37 yrs old (10 years way older than me), she's not married, she's a chef, she work in a culinary school where she teaches people how to cook intercontinental dishes. Those her brothers are based in Akwa-ibom.

Sometimes, she comes to my store whenever she close from work, she comes along with her intercontinental dishes she prepared, sometimes I find it difficult to eat it, I will jokely tell her that I'm used to Akpu.. We'll just laugh it off..

So yesterday night, When I came back from the shop I was tired, so she called me and I told her I was on bed, I had an hectic day I want to rest, then she was like who's the girl with me that I don't want to talk to her. She said a lot of things, she said I don't really care about her bla bla bla, she almost started crying.

I was just confused, I don't even know the right words to use to tell her to stop crying or acting up, whether I should use baby girl or my dear or aunty or babe stop crying.. I was just confused

Please how do I tell I'm not interested in the relationship without hurting her feelings? please note, she is a pretty lady, she speak fluently but she is way older than I am. And I'm also not in a relationship currently.

Truvelisback:
U like her too but u are only worried abt her age. Yes or yes?

Yeah, but that age difference is huge. What would my people say if I present her to them as my wife.