Guys,

The only duty you owe your girlfriend is courtesy. You dont owe her maintenance, or footing her bills. Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister!

“‪It is a sign of mental laziness to allow any girlfriend manipulate you to the extent that you think you are are being responsible by looking after her. You are not. Think with your head, not your reproductive organ ”. A girlfriend you maintain is a liability. She yields bills. You don't need a parasite. Chase success the world will chase after you.

GoodHardDick:
“Dear boyfriend

The only duty you owe your girlfriend is courtesy. You dont owe her maintenance, or footing her bills. Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister!

“‪It is a sign of mental laziness to allow any girlfriend manipulate you to the extent that you think you are are being responsible by looking after her. You are not. Think with your head, not your reproductive organ ”. A girlfriend you maintain is a liability. She yields bills. You don't need a parasite. Chase success the world will chase after you.

Dem dey hear word? Even Reno Omokri don advise tire.

Truvelisback:
Dem dey hear word? Even Reno Omokri don advise tire.

Comrade , honestly we keep advising them everyday, but dem no dey hear word

GoodHardDick:


Comrade , honestly we keep advising them everyday, but dem no dey hear word

Na Adam cause all these. The mumu just too much.

My brother's gf once asked him why he didn't send her money first before thinking of sending to his mum.....and that very minute was when he ended everything with the girl, me sef I vex when I heard it.

blue01:
My brother's gf once asked him why he didn't send her money first before thinking of sending to his mum.....and that very minute was when he ended everything with the girl, me sef I vex when I heard it.

What nonsense!! Is that girl mad or what?
What an audacity? What an entitlement mentality?

It is a good thing your brother dumped her Ass asap. What rubbish

Truvelisback:
Na Adam cause all these. The mumu just too much.

Adam na chief SIMP!!!

The evening newspapers will come for your head.

Nicepoker:
The evening newspapers will come for your head.

You mean those broke, frustrated, pained and entitlement hoes?

GoodHardDick:


What nonsense!! Is that girl mad or what?
What an audacity? What an entitlement mentality?

It is a good thing your brother dumped her Ass asap. What rubbish

Me gan I once told one yeye girl I was dating far back that I want to travel to go see my mum and the next thing she said was how many times have I made plans to come see her cos she stays in another city, guy I weak.

GoodHardDick:


You mean those broke, frustrated, pained and entitlement hoes?

Guy take it easy on them na haba.....

"Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister''

Op, I don't understand. Will you just grab a lady and marry her like that without providing some form of support while courting

tommy589:
"Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister''

Op, I don't understand. Will you just grab a lady and marry her like that without providing some form of support while courting

Make I no Tok wetin de my mind shaa
But ur comment de some how

Keep on saying the truth sir

GoodHardDick:
Guys,

The only duty you owe your girlfriend is courtesy. You dont owe her maintenance, or footing her bills. Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister!

“‪It is a sign of mental laziness to allow any girlfriend manipulate you to the extent that you think you are are being responsible by looking after her. You are not. Think with your head, not your reproductive organ ”. A girlfriend you maintain is a liability. She yields bills. You don't need a parasite. Chase success the world will chase after you.

SIMPs must hear word by fire by force.

Comrade you're doing a great job, leeches and Parasites will soon come for you but keep on hitting the nail comrade.

God bless you.

tommy589:
"Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister''

Op, I don't understand. Will you just grab a lady and marry her like that without providing some form of support while courting

Until you marry a girlfriend. she's not your responsibility at all. If you're looking for a woman to provide financial support to, render it your wife, mother and sister.

Polynek:
Make I no Tok wetin de my mind shaa
But ur comment de some how

Abeg Neva talk wetin dey your mind o but show me the way to avoid becoming a simp @goodhardick too.
Mind you I have gone through marriages, practiced monogamy, polygamy and visited ashawo places before settling down

Let's say I am a sex before marriage guy that don't know it all,and I come to seek your guidance.How can I avoid commiting a dime and be getting regular sex from my girlfriend

Yea comrades, we own dem a GoodhardDick

tommy589:
"Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister''

Op, I don't understand. Will you just grab a lady and marry her like that without providing some form of support while courting

Be praying for her..that is support,stop paying them salary and buying phones or training them in school...

Dey won't listen ooo

Some guys go even send vagina people to school


Haba!

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind just like me

I no go ever mumu for love again for this life i swear...

May God punish any babe where go open mouth all in the name of relationship to chop my money
Apart from my sisters and mama

Amen

blue01:
My brother's gf once asked him why he didn't send her money first before thinking of sending to his mum.....and that very minute was when he ended everything with the girl, me sef I vex when I heard it.

See audacity?!!!!!
Likeeee....
A leach thinking she should be considered first before mother, what nonsense!
Does she know the sacrifices your mother made for your brother?!!!
If your mother didn't make such sacrifice, I doubt your brother would've been "good enough" in her eyes....


See as I dey vex like say na me be your brother ... Maybe it's because of the sacrifices my mum made on my behalf over the years ...

Either ways Sha....
I'm glad your brother ended that parasitic relationship ....

GoodHardDick:
Guys,

The only duty you owe your girlfriend is courtesy. You dont owe her maintenance, or footing her bills. Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister!

“‪It is a sign of mental laziness to allow any girlfriend manipulate you to the extent that you think you are are being responsible by looking after her. You are not. Think with your head, not your reproductive organ ”. A girlfriend you maintain is a liability. She yields bills. You don't need a parasite. Chase success the world will chase after you.

Ride on, Sir.

GoodHardDick:
Guys,

The only duty you owe your girlfriend is courtesy. You dont owe her maintenance, or footing her bills. Emancipate yourself from that slavery. If you want to look after a woman, look after your wife, mother and sister!

“‪It is a sign of mental laziness to allow any girlfriend manipulate you to the extent that you think you are are being responsible by looking after her. You are not. Think with your head, not your reproductive organ ”. A girlfriend you maintain is a liability. She yields bills. You don't need a parasite. Chase success the world will chase after you.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you

tommy589:


Abeg Neva talk wetin dey your mind o but show me the way to avoid becoming a simp @goodhardick too.
Mind you I have gone through marriages, practiced monogamy, polygamy and visited ashawo places before settling down

Let's say I am a sex before marriage guy that don't know it all,and I come to seek your guidance.How can I avoid commiting a dime and be getting regular sex from my girlfriend

Comrade, the answer you seek is right here

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

Theboy21:
Yea comrades, we own dem a GoodhardDick

increase the volume comrade

stacyadams:



Be praying for her..that is support,stop paying them salary and buying phones or training them in school...

Louder comrade!! Increase the volume!!!!

Fmlao:
Dey won't listen ooo

Some guys go even send vagina people to school


Haba!

Guys wey no get girlfriend get peace of mind just like me

Comrade. simps will never learn, but we'll keep on preaching it loud!!!

goshikid:
I no go ever mumu for love again for this life i swear...

May God punish any babe where go open mouth all in the name of relationship to chop my money
Apart from my sisters and mama

Amen

Way to go comrade!!! Guys are now waking up to the reality!!!

englishmart:
That's how one useless Edo girl wan use love dissipate my brain.

Comrade, She was trying to emotionally manipulate you. That's how a typical Nigerian girl behaves.

But thank God you have now seen the light!! If she says she needs money, tell her to get a job. Don't spend on any girl, except your wife, mother and sisters

GoodHardDick:



Comrade, the answer you seek is right here

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

:
"All past sacrifice is null and void if your continued association does not provide her with a tangible benefit. To simplify: if you cannot help her now, she does not care if you helped her before.[See Briffault’s Law]"

The above quote came from GLYCOLYSISS in the link you sent ànd it really makes sense

The link from my own understanding is about women construct/behavior etc. It is a bit confusing for someone like me that is not a book person. Sometimes belle sense (common sense) is better than book sense in certain situations.

We go through phases and needs in life that changes our perspectives. Girl changes with age and needs. Even the most handsome man in mid 20s will realise girls no longer swoon over like in the past if he continues to depend on his look. If he so decides,his good look may pave way for a flourishing career as a gigolo

I prefer a practicable answer from you to below questions

1) Why do we have girlfriend/s

2)How do we show our girls that we care about them

3) When in mid 20s how can we be getting regular sex from our girlfriends without any commitment