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Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 9:52pm On Mar 20, 2022
DANGER! WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WON’T LAST 3 MONTHS


1. GOSSIPING/KISS AND TELL
Gossiping is not limited to females alone, guys gossip too, but most times it’s a female thing. If you gossip people will find it easy to get secrets out of you. You will end up saying things that you are not meant to say, you will end up talking about your sex life with your partner or talking about his financial capacity just because he told you. Some girls are fond of discussing how they had sex with their partners or emphasizing on private issues that should not be emphasized in public.
Gossiping can become quite addictive, you know you are addicted to gossip when you can hardly sit quietly for 30 mins without mentioning somebody’s name and what happened to them. Gossiping or back biting can cause you to lose a relationship, there have been situations where women lost their men to friends because they opened their mouth too much and revealed too much.
Kiss and tell is a common attitude amongst guys, guys would sleep with a girl and tell his friends that he just did, some would go on taking pictures of her when she is naked and share with friends. Guys would tell his friends that he finally got to date that hot chick and they had sex through the night. Women feel like they have been stripped naked in public when they discover that you let the cat out of the bag… it can hurt your relationship with her and future relationships with other girls she may know.

2. ADDICTION
Addiction can be gaming, soccer, drugs, gambling, porn, and so on. An addiction has the ability to ruin not just your relationship but your career and entire life and honor. This is because addictions usually take you away from the real world and put you in a world that sucks you from reality and you begin to feel like without it you are not satisfied or complete.
Some years back there was news about a man who gambled not just his house but his wife and kids; she had to file for a divorce. I have seen gambling make men become wretched and poor after losing millions, I have seen gambling make men commit suicide.
Pornography addiction will automatically give birth to masturbation and masturbation addiction will ruin your erection strength and your feelings to actual sex. Once your brain is adapted to your hand as pleasure it could make you lose erection when having sex with a woman.
A girl complained of her boyfriend who was addicted to masturbation, she said she felt said because she was ready to give him sex whenever he wanted but he still went on masturbating, she had no option than to end the relationship, she literally told him to go on dating his hand.

3. CARELESS SPENDING
One of the effects of careless spending is that, you go broke faster than you imagine, another effect is that you cannot even clearly state what exactly you used the money for.
Either you are male or female, careless spending is dangerous, if you have a girlfriend who doesn’t care about your savings or who doesn’t care about spending wisely and she wants is you spending on her then break off that relationship now because she is going to tear you to pieces of poverty and move on to her next victim. Before she wastes you, you have to do away with her as quickly as possible. Such girls will be quick to see you as stingy and selfish if you refuse her requests, please dump her ass now.
If you are dating a guy who spends on you too much, he doesn’t save, he has no investments, no plans to make better use of money then you should run away. I know some people are going to say, which girl is going to run away from a guy who spoils her with money? The truth is, if it’s too good to be true then you need to quite because he is either preparing you for a diabolic ritual or he is preparing you for a future of poverty.

4. SELFISHNESS
Generally, you should avoid people who are always about themselves, talk about themselves, praise themselves, spend on themselves, care only for themselves, basically they feel it’s all about them. You should stay away from because they will ruin you, they have nothing to offer, and waiting on them is like waiting for a train that never left the station.
I was read about a man who was complaining about his wife, she doesn’t spend her money on the family just herself, she doesn’t even buy things for her kids, whenever the kids come to her for anything she referred them to their father, she only spent her money on herself, her makeup and accessories. Such partners are very dangerous and you don’t need them and if you are part of such kind of people you need to change that else you could be losing a lot from people.

5. PITY DATING
This is simply dating people out of pity, don’t you ever do that. If you do it’s all going to back fire on you heavily and you would wish you never did. If you don’t love somebody don’t jump in a relationship with them out of pity, you will find yourself cheating on them, hurt them even more and probably not even regretting it but feeling pity, people will see you as a horrible person because that is what you will be.
Relationships are not born out of pity, they are born from honest attraction for each other.


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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 9:52pm On Mar 20, 2022
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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by BirtherOfKings(f): 9:55pm On Mar 20, 2022
Your relationship won't last three months if
- u and the partner don't share same values
- constant arguing and no headway to resolve issues
- if sex is involved
- little or no communication

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Goldbw122(m): 10:06pm On Mar 20, 2022
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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Nobody: 10:10pm On Mar 20, 2022
Wahala for who dey do relationship for this generation.
I don wash my hand commot from any word way get 'MEN' and any word way start with 'R' con end with 'P'.
I can't kill myself. tongue

Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Danielkelly: 11:14pm On Mar 20, 2022
Beebah2000:
Wahala for who dey do relationship for this generation.
I don wash my hand commot from any word way get 'MEN' and any word way start with 'R' con end with 'P'.
I can't kill myself. tongue
!Lol
Chai grin
The_Grid_Red_pill why?!
Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 9:33am On Mar 21, 2022
BirtherOfKings:
Your relationship won't last three months if
- u and the partner don't share same values
- constant arguing and no headway to resolve issues
- if sex is involved
- little or no communication
I disagree with your third point...


Where did you hear that sex wont make a relationship last...

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 9:36am On Mar 21, 2022
Beebah2000:
Wahala for who dey do relationship for this generation.
I don wash my hand commot from any word way get 'MEN' and any word way start with 'R' con end with 'P'.
I can't kill myself. tongue
look, relationships may be failing these days but trust me, there are still lots of great persons out there that would make you feel like they are too good to be true... it's just that they are scattered around the world.

Relationship is works... relationships are failing today because it's about sex and money.

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Nobody: 10:09am On Mar 21, 2022
Danielkelly:
!Lol
Chai grin
The_Grid_Red_pill why?!
abeg no mention that mumu boy for here ooo cheesy grin grin

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Vinnie2000(m): 12:10pm On Mar 21, 2022
Beebah2000:
Wahala for who dey do relationship for this generation.
I don wash my hand commot from any word way get 'MEN' and any word way start with 'R' con end with 'P'.
I can't kill myself. tongue
Lolss! But laslas, you will need a Guy! Body nor be firewood!

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Danielkelly: 12:55pm On Mar 21, 2022
Beebah2000:
abeg no mention that mumu boy for here ooo cheesy grin grin
I don gret.? undecided
Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Boogyman557: 2:00pm On Mar 21, 2022
Holly Gram cool Na ENERGY DRINK u go buy give me to READ all dis matterz wey u TYPE 4 here ooo..



As 4 me... I No get RELATIONSHIP!



WEED is my RELATIONSHIP and MOTIVATION!


WEED is my LOCATION and RELOCATION!


WEED is my EXAMINATION and CALCULATION!


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN!
Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 7:09pm On Mar 21, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool Na ENERGY DRINK u go buy give me to READ all dis matterz wey u TYPE 4 here ooo..



As 4 me... I No get RELATIONSHIP!



WEED is my RELATIONSHIP and MOTIVATION!


WEED is my LOCATION and RELOCATION!


WEED is my EXAMINATION and CALCULATION!


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN!
what Kind of satisfaction does weed give you exactly

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Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Boogyman557: 7:25pm On Mar 21, 2022
Elianawalker:
what Kind of satisfaction does weed give you exactly
Holly Gram cool

the SATISFACTION plenty NAA..


Dem no de talk am finish but I go try CAPRISUN some of Dem 4 u..


Na WEED make me PASS all my exams... Even if u no READ JAZZ in exam Hall, u go STILL write better tin.. so far as u don BLA ENOUGH WEED.. u go just de write all d exam like PESIN wey READ plenty book..


WEED go GIVE u better O.T ORIENTATION, U go de COORDINATE TINZ WELL..


WEED go make u get SWAG, Abi u No de SEE Dem davido and wizkid..


WEED go make u de tink or REASON mature like a man or woman..


IF u check am WELL.. 4 dis Life na mostly people wey de BLA WEED de make MONEY fast..


WEED go MOTIVATE u...


my BLODA d matterz plenty ooo..


LITE UP my WEED in peace...


WTF MAN!
Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Elianawalker(f): 8:22pm On Mar 21, 2022
Boogyman557:
Holly Gram cool

the SATISFACTION plenty NAA..


Dem no de talk am finish but I go try CAPRISUN some of Dem 4 u..


Na WEED make me PASS all my exams... Even if u no READ JAZZ in exam Hall, u go STILL write better tin.. so far as u don BLA ENOUGH WEED.. u go just de write all d exam like PESIN wey READ plenty book..


WEED go GIVE u better O.T ORIENTATION, U go de COORDINATE TINZ WELL..


WEED go make u get SWAG, Abi u No de SEE Dem davido and wizkid..


WEED go make u de tink or REASON mature like a man or woman..


IF u check am WELL.. 4 dis Life na mostly people wey de BLA WEED de make MONEY fast..


WEED go MOTIVATE u...


my BLODA d matterz plenty ooo..


LITE UP my WEED in peace...


WTF MAN!
weed made you pass exams... are you trying to be funny?
Re: Danger! Why Your Relationship Won’t Last 3 Months by Boogyman557: 8:40pm On Mar 21, 2022
Elianawalker:
weed made you pass exams... are you trying to be funny?
Holly Gram cool my BLODA I de CAPRISUN u real matters on top real MATTERZ and u de ask me weda I de try to be funny!


Which kind Small PIKIN play be Dat!


I de Tell u something important HERE...


U no de WONDER for does guys wey be sey, Dem no de too READ book but Dem de PASS exam..


Na WEED de cus AM...


E get waiting de for dis WEED wey people no really understand or COMPRISUN..


During my school days, I no too READ book but I de PASS exam like PESIN wey get school.. even some others MANCHIS (guys) wey de go night class, Dem come de WONDER how I take de pass..


WEED is MAGICAL!


AMA Ganja Planter and am proud of it...


u JUST check am ur SELF.. just ON ur LITE and check dis matterz wey I one CAPRISUN (Tell) U..


Na mostly people wey de BLA WEED de make am fast 4 dis Life.. I don already tell u b4...


even 4 hospital Dem de use WEED treat people.. go and ask any BODY wey Sabi and EM go CAPRISUN (Tell) u..


my BLODA make I HOLD fire for here...


LITE UP my WEED in peace..


WTF MAN!

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