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HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 2:21pm On Mar 22, 2022
Good day Fam

This is from a female friend, she is really troubled because she believes she is not okay, kindly provide advice, she will be reading this

Whenever she gets into a relationship with someone it's all fun and bliss until they have sex, she will automatically lose interest in that guy irrespective of whether the sex is good or not


This has happened to her a couple of times and she is worried, please is this a normal occurrence or is there something wrong?

Please she needs advice
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by valdes00(m): 2:24pm On Mar 22, 2022
Maybe she was an olosho in her past life

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Chiraq77(m): 2:35pm On Mar 22, 2022
How Old is She,Does she have a Porn Addition?
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by dawnomike(m): 2:39pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Good day Fam

This is from a female friend, she is really troubled because she believes she is not okay, kindly provide advice, she will be reading this

Whenever she gets into a relationship with someone it's all fun and bliss until they have sex, she will automatically lose interest in that guy irrespective of whether the sex is good or not


This has happened to her a couple of times and she is worried, please is this a normal occurrence or is there something wrong?

Please she needs advice
In that case, she should avoid pre-marital sex.
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 2:42pm On Mar 22, 2022
valdes00:
Maybe she was an olosho in her past life


Nah she isnt
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 2:43pm On Mar 22, 2022
Chiraq77:
How Old is She,Does she have a Porn Addition?

In her early 20s


And I'm not sure she does
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 2:43pm On Mar 22, 2022
dawnomike:
In that case, she should avoid pre-marital sex.

Told her that, but then, you know how the things goes
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Nostring: 2:48pm On Mar 22, 2022
Lol for a lady ...otida , and I no think u get any problem..your problem is that u Mumu small ,u dey quick open yansh fr every dick and Harry wey ask u out without u actually liking Dem for real cool

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by tillaman(m): 3:03pm On Mar 22, 2022
Let her come my way and have sex with me first let’s experiment
We will decide what the problem is after series of rigorous tongue lashing she will end up loving me
I hope she’s fine af

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by princeemmma(m): 3:03pm On Mar 22, 2022
then stop having s*x now, she s*x na food nii

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ekejoestar(m): 3:06pm On Mar 22, 2022
Make she try me, she will get hooked
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Chiraq77(m): 3:06pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:


In her early 20s


And I'm not sure she does

If She Doesn't have any Porn addiction or sexual disorders then it's obvious she's just going through a phase of Her Life Which I refer to as the H*E Phase,There's nothing to be worried about,it's going to reduce as she gets Older.

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Goldbw122(m): 3:08pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Good day Fam

This is from a female friend, she is really troubled because she believes she is not okay, kindly provide advice, she will be reading this

Whenever she gets into a relationship with someone it's all fun and bliss until they have sex, she will automatically lose interest in that guy irrespective of whether the sex is good or not


This has happened to her a couple of times and she is worried, please is this a normal occurrence or is there something wrong?

Please she needs advice
There is something wrong, and she is hiding something.
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Cardealer2021(m): 3:08pm On Mar 22, 2022
Nawa every thread for nairaland dey all about sex these days undecided

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Uzomacharles: 3:24pm On Mar 22, 2022
Truth Be Told..
SHE WAS ONCE A HOE

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Qatar2022: 3:25pm On Mar 22, 2022
You're still a kid
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by pansophist(m): 3:32pm On Mar 22, 2022
It's not sex that determines if a person is suitable long term. Firstly, you determine if a people is suitable for long term, then sex becomes an integral part in the bonding process. She is doing it wrong, hence she lost interest quickly. She is just like the men that visit prostitutes, since they don't care about thes3 women, but just the sex.

Her problem is internal. Before the world becomes interesting to you, you'll first have to be interested in yourself. To know yourself, your virtues, so that others that embodies such will become infinitely attractive, that sex with them transcends the physical. She should undergo an intensive internal restructuring, or else this would continue. She attracts empty men like her, hence she loose interest after sex, because there is nothing more to these men that she revere after sex.

Right now she is like a wind, she stands for nothing and will fall for anything. Attracting her is cheap, anybody can do that, probably just be sexy and have money. Life for her is external, with no deep sense of internal self, her sense of worth doesnt arise from the inside base on her experience and persoanl growth, and she is probably a followers to the dictate of the mainstream. This is a sure path to feeling empty, and life will never make sense to such a person.

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 3:52pm On Mar 22, 2022
pansophist:
It's not sex that determines if a person is suitable long term. Firstly, you determine if a people is suitable for long term, then sex becomes an integral part in the bonding process. She is doing it wrong, hence she lost interest quickly. She is just like the men that visit prostitutes, since they don't care about thes3 women, but just the sex.

Her problem is internal. Before the world becomes interesting to you, you'll first have to be interested in yourself. To know yourself, your virtues, so that others that embodies such will become infinitely attractive, that sex with them transcends the physical. She should undergo an intensive internal restructuring, or else this would continue. She attracts empty men like her, hence she loose interest after sex, because there is nothing more to these men that she revere after sex.

Right now she is like a wind, she stands for nothing and will fall for anything. Attracting her is cheap, anybody can do that, probably just be sexy and have money. Life for her is external, with no deep sense of internal self, her sense of worth doesnt arise from the inside base on her experience and persoanl growth, and she is probably a followers to the dictate of the mainstream. This is a sure path to feeling empty, and life will never make sense to such a person.


Thanks alot for this
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 3:52pm On Mar 22, 2022
Qatar2022:
You're still a kid

What's your definition of a kid?
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 3:53pm On Mar 22, 2022
Goldbw122:

There is something wrong, and she is hiding something.

I think so as well, tried to talk to her, from the replies, it's obvious she's hiding something
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Jeon(f): 4:05pm On Mar 22, 2022
Mtchewwwww

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Qatar2022: 4:07pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:


What's your definition of a kid?
When you come of age you will understand, no among of explanation you will understand
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Danisaint112(m): 4:12pm On Mar 22, 2022
Op don't want to admit it's her. As of the time of writing this guys this account was created at exactly 1 hour, 18 minutes ago grin grin
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Blunttruth: 4:15pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:
Good day Fam

This is from a female friend, she is really troubled because she believes she is not okay, kindly provide advice, she will be reading this

Whenever she gets into a relationship with someone it's all fun and bliss until they have sex, she will automatically lose interest in that guy irrespective of whether the sex is good or not


This has happened to her a couple of times and she is worried, please is this a normal occurrence or is there something wrong?

Please she needs advice
She is a guy in a girl's Body. Let her date someone she is really into. Someone she enjoys his company and have lots of interests. Sex should come last.

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Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Ink4Hope: 4:29pm On Mar 22, 2022
Danisaint112:
Op don't want to admit it's her. As of the time of writing this guys this account was created at exactly 1 hour, 18 minutes ago grin grin

You obviously have comprehension issues
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Nobody: 4:47pm On Mar 22, 2022
Hope the losing of interest is not an excuse to justify the random sampling of various joysticks, sad on a second taught I think she might be possess with probably the spirit of dog which makes most ladies to loss interest and not to be satisfy with a single partner. She need urgent delivarance

Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by CruiseCity: 4:51pm On Mar 22, 2022
Danisaint112:
Op don't want to admit it's her. As of the time of writing this guys this account was created at exactly 1 hour, 18 minutes ago grin grin
Don't mind her.... grin
OP you're a thief. You're the one grin
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Nicepoker(m): 5:13pm On Mar 22, 2022
Op stop having pre Marital sex.
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Danisaint112(m): 5:18pm On Mar 22, 2022
CruiseCity:

Don't mind her.... grin
OP you're a thief. You're the one grin

Comrade be calming down grin grin

Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Danisaint112(m): 5:23pm On Mar 22, 2022
Ink4Hope:


You obviously have comprehension issues

No I don't. I am sure of what I'm saying. You are not the first to use different monikers on NL to seek for unending advice.

Thousands have done and more are still doing and will continue to do. grin

Can you kindly tell us why you have to create a new account to out up this?

Without even mentioning you are new to NL or letting us know this is your first post? cool
Re: HELP,I Lose Interest In A Person After Having Sex With Them by Nobody: 5:30pm On Mar 22, 2022
princeemmma:
then stop having s*x now, she s*x na food nii

Ah seat down there.....sex na correct food o. Chai

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