Nicepoker:
Direct pass for her to hoe around. The one above me has keyed into the ideology already.

The one you dey monitor like hawk no dey hoe abi?

What if it's your wife? Will do all that?

Hmm, una just dey mislead ppl anyhow. In the very first place, if your lady no do some funny moves wey u no understand, I bet u many guys naturally won't start monitoring as guys naturally are trusting being by default until they now see d need to be otherwise.

Girls naturally are silly beings by default and they put up all sorts of drama to a guy's face expecting him to overlook their cheating cos they believe they are smarter than guys.

Conclusion: if a woman does not act funny, guys generally do not have time monitoring their partner's phone or movement. So if you now notice funny moves from a lady, do you as the guy keep a blind eye to it or you will just expect her to change until one day they will tell you that your 30 y.o boy u laboured all the years for to make sure turns out good that you are not the real father?

Op is a confused personality with not much woman experience.

Op well done, let the wise learn, let fools continue wasting their energy on stupid things.

AlphaAlex:
sorry to burst your bubble but there’s no girl that’s not hoeing around bro wake up to reality no one even the one you think is pure she’s a hoe bro , stop being pained about women getting much more sex than you .

The most foolish post I have read since on Thursday last week. Puke

Guys still get all this time to dey monitor women at this time of our life ?




but honestly, some women love attention.

Look, somebody that’s billing you like mad. That’s collecting a lot of money and stuff from you. Someone you’re investing on heavily with the hope that you have a future together. Will you be happy to know that she’s cheating? You’re naturally prone to always check up on your “Investment”
You might say you don’t give women money or all that. But someone you actually have feelings for. Someone you really like and would like to keep. Tell me, would you not check up on that person?

Look at it that way.

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

Firstly, the OP is not into any relationship. It is not hard to know, they are majorly brothel candidates.

Secondly, these are rules for fork boys and forks girls. Not for those who wants to take their relationship to the next level.

Lastly, the post made zero sense to matured mind. Surely for kids who walk around with erect joysticks.

Na who dey take hoes serious ,I blame.. If you didn't meet her a tear rubber,nigga forget about it. You can't be the only one swimming there.. S6 will still join.. Even new real niggas will also join. The "Your" girl ,is actually Y(our) girl,when you remove the Y

justscorchone:
Oddly as this may sound to some people this is actually FACT.

No just for ladies though, it goes both ways, when a girl is throwing herself on you too you will lose interest.

I won't lose interest.
Different strokes for different folks.
Some people like attention like that.

If a girl is bent on seeing wether you are "secured" or "insecured" tell her to get out of your life. You don't need someone shit testing in order to see how powerful she is on your emotions. And if she can't seat in one place and respect that there are boundaries not to cross when you are in a relationship with someone, tell her to get out! Don't pretend you are secured and be going through unecesary stress because a girl still feels she's a hoe, cutlass, and plough.

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

I feel You jur

ajailer:
Hmm, una just dey mislead ppl anyhow. In the very first place, if your lady no do some funny moves wey u no understand, I bet u many guys naturally won't start monitoring as guys naturally are trusting being by default until they now see d need to be otherwise.

Girls naturally are silly beings by default and they put up all sorts of drama to a guy's face expecting him to overlook their cheating cos they believe they are smarter than guys.

Conclusion: if a woman does not act funny, guys generally do not have time monitoring their partner's phone or movement. So if you now notice funny moves from a lady, do you as the guy keep a blind eye to it or you will just expect her to change until one day they will tell you that your 30 y.o boy u laboured all the years for to make sure turns out good that you are not the real father?

Op is a confused personality with not much woman experience.

MadeINchenzen2:
That's best for ur sanity... you can't be mirroring her around, you are not her guardian angel !

But he is her pocket angel okwaya? �

Qatar2022:

It favoured her to hoe around

Exactly bro ����

I can't agree less with the oP, shes on point!

I don't think this post is aimed at a girl you love and wanna settle down with.
Can you apply same strategy with your wife?
Bearing in mind that even in marriage, people still cheat?
I mean not caring and letting her "explore her fantasies"?

Are these fantasies sexual? Why go into serious relationships or even marry when you still have sexual fantasies to explore?

Getting married or going into serious relationship implies both parties have observed and concluded that they want to be 1 single person hence, understanding and trust.

People process information differently, so this really isn't a gender thing. While some people respect people who shower them with attention and genuine interest for their daily activities, others see it as disturbance, thus, it is imperative to find the right person.

Showing you love or care about someone, man or woman, doesn't in anyway portray you as weak, unless you have some personality problems and you're simply projecting your problems on other people.

Please note that, different strokes work for different folks. With that being said, perhaps what you're proposing works very well with friendship with benefits and not serious relationships or marriages.

You can't love someone and not care about what goes on in their lives. Perhaps you're one of those weak ass men who girls have dumped countless times and you've adopted these ideologies as some defensive mechanism for your pains but, a real man is a man who knows how and when to show his emotions and also ensure his emotions don't get the best of him.

Women don't see you as weak when you show emotion, concern and care, they see you as weak when you cannot put them in their place when they err. A real and healthy man is one who's caring, emotional and also very ruthless when his woman errs, the man who puts her in her place is the man she comes to respect.

Unlearn.

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

But when a man doesn't give a lady this said attention you will still be the first to come post it here.... You are a joke like your president

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

But when a man doesn't give a lady this said attention you will still be the first to come post it here.. You are a joke like your president

Until your eye open sha .

NOwazobia:
The most foolish post I have read since on Thursday last week. Puke

The OP made sense. Only an insecure man wastes time and energy in monitoring a lady's activities. Once a lady feels you are insecure and cannot do without her, she starts feeling like the boss. Broke, ugly, short or fat, guys can feel insecure and cause them to mess themselves up in a relationship. Even if you have money and start spending excessively on a lady, a time will come when she might get used to it and start thinking of how she can get more elsewhere. A guy in a relationship should be mysterious and unpredictable. Give her the necessary attention but don't make her feel that you can't do without her.

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Qatar2022:

It favoured her to hoe around

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Blessings follow you OP

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

Forget all these spellings. Just get the money and you will be fine. You can not please any woman without Ben. I will take the money... take the good guy

Nigerian youths are so much obsessed with matters of relationship and sex.

AlphaAlex:
Until your eye open sha .

I have been around for a while now to know what eye opening entails. You are still a kid who is still wandering with an erect penis. Those eyes you think are actually open, you will wish they close later on. Mark this post.

We now have more single guys and girls than ever, not because they want to but because of the type of the OP post occupying the media space, which you are brain wash with.

Until you get into a real relationship, I won't take you serious.

Just pray you get a good girl all these doesn't work

I dey really wonder how guys dey carry relationship for head.

Me wey be say I dey forget say I dey relationship until them remind me at times, excluding the recent one that I was a bit serious with.

I remember one of my exes that told me I give more attention to my business than I give to her, and I make her feel like she is dragging my attention with my business.

The bitter truth is, this kind of posts are not good for relationships, I mean serious relationship or marriage because it doesn't give the lady that feeling of being wanted and as such will lead to unhealthy/shaky relationship/foundation.

How many lady here will be happy if their guys care less or don't give a fvck about them or is nonchalant towards them?

Note: I don't do that(what I said in my second and third lines) on purpose but it is just me focusing on life just to avoid relationship wahala.

Lalami3232:
You just settle down write nonsense and you dey happy because the ladies dey validate your baseless opinion.
Anyways, I no get time for long talk sha. But weather you follow our 9ja babes or you give them freedom ooooo, dem go still fvck around as usual. My only advise be say make una wey marry nonvirgins aka boreholes go for DNA sha.

I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "if no be you deflower your wife, oga go for DNA test ooooo. The pikin resemble me no be 100% guarantee say na your own"

that your baby meme will be useful for mouth action when she grows up, dis I have seen.

You made 50% sense. Don't ask, but secretly investigate her on a regular for fear of infections (if you do it raw with her), not because you love her. Not all insecurities stem from love or fear of losing her — some are fear of infection.

Oga shut up. Please guys read the previous topic and judge thus topic. Below is the link.


https://www.nairaland.com/7046131/suspect-fiancee-cheating-me-bestie

MadeINchenzen2:
Guys that will always be in control of a ladys attention, respect and loyalty are the ones that does not give half a concern about what she does, where she goes, or who she's flirting with.

You can both be dating... but try to give her as much space to explore all her fantasies. Stop asking her useless questions that gives her the impression you are insecure...

when a lady knows you are insecure, you give her the impression that indicates she deserves a better guy than u !!! And trust me, it's a matter of time before she abandons that relationship.

Perhaps she thought she was dating the hottest guy in campus, but your insecurities has explained to her that you actually do not have the guile and guts to carry yourselves as the number one trending guy in campus... your insecurity will automatically put her on a mission to find the coolest and hottest lady's guy in campus and date him after dumping you.

She loves the fact that you feel insecure, she enjoys seeing you miserable like that... sweating on your balls to keep her all for yourself... you are the newest clown in the circus

You always call her phone to ask her whereabouts, you always want to know where she went and who was the guy she was talking to, you want to see who she's chatting with on Facebook or WhatsApp.

My guy stop all that and give her space... focus on other things and give yourself more attention. The less questions u ask, the less attention you give her... the more respect you command, the more attractive u will appear to her.


Be wise

Op go and marry, marriage is the greatest investment for any guy especially when blessed with sweet children. Be here and be training someones future wife all in the name of girlfriend.