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Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:04am On Mar 29, 2022
Have You Realized This Scary Thing?

Part 1

This post is going to teach you how to handle people who love transferring aggression on innocent people online.

Your life may be good, but there are people who are going through hell. When they see you acting as if your life is perfect online, they won't be happy with you — they'll feel oppressed or jealous for indirectly mocking them of how imperfect their lives are and how perfect yours is. You may not know it, but this is what is going on behind the scene.

These people will become automatic haters. It wasn't your intention to make them feel bad, but because of the things they are going through in their private lives, they will have no choice than to attack you for using your so called "perfection and good life" to worsen their "imperfection and bad life."

So, don't blame haters — blame yourself for talking about how perfect your life is — directly or indirectly. Most people on Earth are poor or going through difficult times and anyone talking about good times is an outlier and gets abused or tagged arrogant or showoff.

HOW TO AVOID HATERS

You can NEVER avoid having haters as long as you're outspoken and

1. Struggling to be successful or
2. Moderately successful or
3. Astonishingly successful

Even if you're poor and not any of the three above, the moment what's on your mind is documented on a video, post, audio, book, etc. for public consumption, you MUST have haters or critics.

So, the only way to escape hate or criticism online is to

1. Never use a phone (to write a post/comment online)
2. Never use a camera (to record and post online)
3. Never use a computer (to create digital content that requires feedback from people around the world)

Can you do that for the rest of your life? If the answer is no, then don't worry about haters or criticism.

SOLUTION

Hatred or critism is power and wisdom tussle, but most people will never know it because it's always hidden in plain sight.

Find a way to co-habit with them and overcome them by giving them 20% of the power while you keep 80%. How do you give a hater 20% of the power? You will know about it later.

Warning: If you're greedy and refuse to give a hater or a critic 20% of the power, he/she will make your stay online miserable. Fact!

Also, whoever can't give out at least, 20% of the power to someone else is a tyrant and does not deserve to be called great leader.

If you want the be a great leader, know that human interaction is a hidden power tussle, so be ready to give out at least, 20% of the power to someone else, even if the person is your enemy, hater, or critic. If you try to keep 100% of the power, you will be called arrogant, dictator, and wicked.

If you share the power, you'll be perceived as somewhat humble and kind and one day, this critic or hater will become a diehard fan without you trying to please him/her or convince them to like you.

They'll get an epiphany and realize you're too strong for them to demoralize and finally give up. It may take years, but they will surely give up either alive or at death. Some days ago, I...

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:04am On Mar 29, 2022
Part 2

Some days ago, I created a thread and had a chat with a Nairalander about haters and what happened to him.

He said I'm strong and I smiled, because I know I am. I have a strategy and that was what made me strong — not because I'm a superman. I have emotions too.

He told me how he deactivated his first Nairaland account because of bullies and haters and one of the bullies is the moniker Ikillbrokehoes.

I'm creating this post as a blueprint to handling haters, bullies, and criticism online.

NOTE: Critics or haters always feel they're smarter than you and if you disagree, they will abuse you. This is why I said it's a wisdom and power tussle.

Ninety nine percent or more of critics always want to win an argument and failure to let them win, you're in trouble.

Also, 99% of your haters or critics are always people you're better than in money or fame. The ones better than you are busy with important things — they don't care about you in the first place.

They can only care about you if two of you are in a competitive market and he/she wants to bully you out of business to conquer. "Power tussle."

Have you seen Bill Gate, Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk making a comment in Justin Bieber's YouTube video's comment section by saying, "This song is trash — Drake's album is better"? No.

Okay, have you seen Justin Bieber or Drake drop negative comments in Burna Boy or WizKid's comment section on YouTube? No.

What about Burna and Wiz dropping negative comments in the comment section of Broda Shaggy's comedy skit video or Reno Omokri's YouTube videos? No.

Finally, have you seen Reno (someone some Nairalanders believe has an NL account) drop a negative comment on iLegend's posts? No. Why? He is bigger — he doesn't have the time. He is too busy to give iLegend attention.

The truth is, people better than you in money or fame don't have the time to attack or abuse you online first.

They're too busy for you. They can only manage to dignify you with a reply if you're the one abusing and attacking them and they finally want to notice you with a clap-back as Donald Trump, Reno, Burna, or 50 Cent does to there haters once in a while. Have you realized...

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:04am On Mar 29, 2022
Part 3

Have you realized you're f*cking going to die and nothing will save you? It's just a matter of 50, 70, or 90 years from now.

Now you've finally realized you'll surely die, it's just a matter of time and years, let's handle human and their behaviors.

Some of you are supposed to be wealthy or at least, rich by now, but you let critics or abusive people alter your emotions by ruining your confidence and at a point, you couldn't handle the negativity, so you quit. Are you happy they made you quit? No.

If you want to be successful in handling haters or critics, you must have a mixture of 4 attributes

1. Arrogance,
2. Humility,
3. Humor and
4. Kindness — (AKA philanthropy)

You can't have just one of them and win a hater or a critic. Maybe, kindness will help you win, but it comes off as weakness when not used appropriately.

1. Arrogance helps you in not giving up and in speaking up like a confident man/woman when they attack, criticise, or abuse you.

2. Humility helps you not to feel you're always right even though you know you're right. This is what helps you release 20% of the power I talked about earlier. Humility helps you in winning those on the edge (readers/viewers). These people don't hate you and they don't love you. They are just on the edge observing your conversation with your haters or critics.

3. Humor gives the middle men/women, the readers or viewers something to make them smile while making the hater or critic feel he or she isn't worth your seriousness or emotions.

Example: It's your birthday or graduation day and you invited a friend you've been wishing to talk to to come over and celebrate with you, but he/she is hesitant and unserious to come, how will you feel?

You'll feel he or she doesn't care about you. You'll feel unloved and inconsequential. This is exactly what humor does to a hater or critic. It makes them realize you don't value them and their seriousness as they await for a banter/reply or punchline so they can fire back, but you ended up not adding emotions, but humor to diffuse them from going further.

4. Kindness is when you help the hater or critic with something or better yet, when you help one of the newly converted fans with a gift or something tangible to put a smile on his/her face. The hater will be there watching you win fans through your kindness or humor. It hurts when the person you hate or criticize is getting loved and appreciated by lots of people who are better than you.

There was a lady who abuses Burna Boy everytime on Twitter, but he doesn't reply. She said he will never win a Grammy after Burna couldn't win his first Grammy the first time. She was so elated he lost — just the same way I'm elated when Man U loses to reduce noise pollution. #WickedSmiles

The next year, he won and she was almost drepressed and frustrated about it. She feels because she hates Burna, everybody should hate on him too. No, things don't work that way. Even though Putin, Osama, Buhari, Hitler, etc. are considered wicked, everyone can't hate them. Lots of great people also love them.

When a hater or critic realizes your fanbase is getting bigger or is big despite the abuses and hate, he/she becomes scared and starts praying for your fans not to be the violent type who love defending their boss. If your fans are the diehard teenage ones with lots of free time to be online, they'll defend, attack, and abuse the hater or critic. There are people who...

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:06am On Mar 29, 2022
Part 4


1. There are people who love you
2. There are people who are indifferent about you
3. There are people who hate you

Those who love you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

Those who are indifferent are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent silent ones.

Those who hate you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

So, it's not all yours fans that will let you know they are your fans or even defend you online. They don't have the time to open up — they are silent fans.

Also, it's not all your haters that will attack you, some are silent haters and they'll never attack you.

Finally, there are people who don't love or hate you. They are indifferent about you as long as you don't kill and you do legit business to survive.

FINAL TIP

Being too good is too bad — it arouses intimidation and oppression and it ends up as envy as the byproduct. When you find yourself in an environment you're to good, mask some of your great attributes with humility and humor to avoid arousing envy too early. Envy and jealousy will surely come, but don't let it come to you too early.

Too much charisma and confidence from you threatens others and arouses either

1. Admiration or
2. Admonition

When it arouses admiration, the person loves you and becomes a fan.

When it arouses admonition, the person dislikes you, gets jealous of you, envys you, and becomes a hater.

Note: He will never ever admit he dislikes you or envious. He will swear on his grandma's grave that he doesn't hate you or envy you, but just wants to advise you as someone who knows more than you. As I said, it power tussle — everyone conceals their intentions and missions.

So, your charisma and confidence could be the sole reason someone is loving you or hating you.

Whoever loves you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a strong personality and sees you as an inspiration and a motivator.

Whoever hates you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a weak personality and sees you as a direct threat and a conqueror. People hate to see others conquer them, so they'll have on you even before the invasion starts. Ask Ukraine.

A hater is always looking or a REACTION. Either you ignore, or you engage them and give them their 20% of power and with time, they'll give you back the power and become fans. Russia wants 20% of Ukraine's power, but Zelensky has refused — hence the war. Maybe, one day, he will.

Only reply a hater or a critic if he/she will generate you extra exposure and the exposure will lead to more money, else, ignore.

The more you excel, the more hate, critism, and envy you should expect.

The more you upgrade, the more hate and degrade.

Don't blame hater — if you're in there frustrated shoes, you may end up exhibiting the same character.

How will you feel if you live in an estate with other occupants and there is a man/woman you've being admiring, but this person has refused to cooperate?

Weeks later, a new tenant moved into one of the empty apartments and this new person is so beautiful/handsome with a great character — more than the other neighbor you've been admiring.

Luckily, two of you started bonding and became too close like partners.

How will you, the single woman or man who wasn't interested earlier feel? You'll surely feel jealous even though you'll try your best to hide it. At times, you may not be able to hide it — you'll meet the new neighbor and start gossiping terrible things about the other person just to ruin the new friendship so you can finally take over something you used to reject. This jealousy stems from two places

1. He/she found someone richer/fresher than you (jealous)
2. You feel left out because they are having so much fun without you (jealous)

Even on Nairaland, there are people who attack and hate on others for having more fun than them with the opposite gender. So, you see, no one wants you to to have more fun than them (especially with the opposite gender). If you must have more fun than them, they want you to do it behind them, not in front of them. Doing it in front of them is perceived as oppression.

A woman will hate on her fellow woman who's having more fun with lots of cute and rich guys — just the same way a man will hate on his fellow man for having lots of fun with different pretty big girls. The fun doesn't need to be sex — it could be ordinary conversation with lots of laughter, naughtiness, and humor, or dancing with lots of drinks and food.

There you have it. A critic or a hater will always hate — all he or she needs is a trigger of that emotional power tussle of having at least, 20% of the power, wisdom, or fun you're having. If you don't give it him/her, be ready to collect wotorwotor or be ready to ignore patapata.

In summary, haters and critics are always right — just give them their 20% of power or ignore them 100% and render them -100% powerless.

So, don't deactivate or delete your account because of them. If you must deactivate, let it be for other reasons — they are insignificant.

That, my friend, is the solution to handling haters/critics like a boss.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:08am On Mar 29, 2022
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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by SarutobiEky(m): 6:09am On Mar 29, 2022
This is nice. Keep doing your thang, G.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by adeoyekay(m): 6:19am On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
Part 4


1. There are people who love you
2. There are people who are indifferent about you
3. There are people who hate you

Those who love you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

Those who are indifferent are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent silent ones.

Those who hate you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

So, it's not all yours fans that will let you know they are your fans or even defend you online. They don't have the time to open up — they are silent fans.

Also, it's not all your haters that will attack you, some are silent haters and they'll never attack you.

Finally, there are people who don't love or hate you. They are indifferent about you as long as you don't kill and you do legit business to survive.

FINAL TIP

Being too good is too bad — it arouses intimidation and oppression and it ends up as envy as the byproduct. When you find yourself in an environment you're to good, mask some of your great attributes with humility and humor to avoid arousing envy too early. Envy and jealousy will surely come, but don't let it come to you too early.

Too much charisma and confidence from you threatens others and arouses either

1. Admiration or
2. Admonition

When it arouses admiration, the person loves you and becomes a fan.

When it arouses admonition, the person dislikes you, gets jealous of you, envys you, and becomes a hater.

Note: He will never ever admit he dislikes you or envious. He will swear on his grandma's grave that he doesn't hate you or envy you, but just wants to advise you as someone who knows more than you. As I said, it power tussle — everyone conceals their intentions and missions.

So, your charisma and confidence could be the sole reason someone is loving you or hating you.

Whoever loves you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a strong personality and sees you as an inspiration and a motivator.

Whoever hates you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a weak personality and sees you as a direct threat and a conqueror. People hate to see others conquer them, so they'll have on you even before the invasion starts. Ask Ukraine.

A hater is always looking or a REACTION. Either you ignore, or you engage them and give them their 20% of power and with time, they'll give you back the power and become fans. Russia wants 20% of Ukraine's power, but Zelensky has refused — hence the war. Maybe, one day, he will.

Only reply a hater or a critic if he/she will generate you extra exposure and the exposure will lead to more money, else, ignore.

The more you excel, the more hate, critism, and envy you should expect.

The more you upgrade, the more hate and degrade.

Don't blame hater — if you're in there frustrated shoes, you may end up exhibiting the same character.

How will you feel if you live in an estate with other occupants and there is a man/woman you've being admiring, but this person has refused to cooperate?

Weeks later, a new tenant moved into one of the empty apartments and this new person is so beautiful/handsome with a great character — more than the other neighbor you've been admiring.

Luckily, two of you started bonding and became too close like partners.

How will you, the single woman or man who wasn't interested earlier feel? You'll surely feel jealous even though you'll try your best to hide it. At times, you may not be able to hide it — you'll meet the new neighbor and start gossiping terrible things about the other person just to ruin the new friendship so you can finally take over something you used to reject. This jealousy stems from two places

1. He/she found someone richer/fresher than you (jealous)
2. You feel left out because they are having so much fun without you (jealous)

Even on Nairaland, there are people who attack and hate on others for having more fun than them with the opposite gender. So, you see, no one wants you to to have more fun than them (especially with the opposite gender). If you must have more fun than them, they want you to do it behind them, not in front of them. Doing it in front of them is perceived as oppression.

A woman will hate on her fellow woman who's having more fun with lots of cute and rich guys — just the same way a man will hate on his fellow man for having lots of fun with different pretty big girls. The fun doesn't need to be sex — it could be ordinary conversation with lots of laughter, naughtiness, and humor, or dancing with lots of drinks and food.

There you have it. A critic or a hater will always hate — all he or she needs is a trigger of that emotional power tussle of having at least, 20% of the power, wisdom, or fun you're having. If you don't give it him/her, be ready to collect wotorwotor or be ready to ignore patapata.

In summary, haters and critics are always right — just give them their 20% of power or ignore them 100% and render them -100% powerless.

So, don't deactivate or delete your account because of them. If you must deactivate, let it be for other reasons — they are insignificant.

That, my friend, is the solution to handling haters/critics like a boss.

nice one

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 6:27am On Mar 29, 2022
SarutobiEky:
This is nice. Keep doing your thang, G.
That's the spirit — I just wanted to expose the blueprint and behind the scene actions.

These haters have made lots of people give up on their dreams in life and it's not cool.

The truth is, everybody is a hater or a critic towards something or someone. Me self, I be hater or critics towards something.

It all depends on how invested I am in hating or criticising that thing. Most times, I'm not invested in it unlike frustrated trolls.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by SarutobiEky(m): 6:36am On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
That's the spirit — I just wanted to expose the blueprint and behind the scene actions.

These haters have made lots of people give up on their dreams in life and it's not cool.

The truth is, everybody is a hater or a critic towards something or someone. Me self, I be hater or critics towards something.

It all depends on how invested I am in hating or criticising that thing. Most times, I'm not invested in it unlike frustrated trolls.
G, I've been on NL for over Five years and you have been one of the few consistent persons here, respect you for that.

Its not easy to use your brains to get yourself out of a difficult situation. Big ups to you and your hustle. You should pay no mind to haters, btw....trolls will always be trolls. Youre doing well for yourself, that's all that matters here.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Suspect1: 6:39am On Mar 29, 2022
You made me read the whole noise you typed in....cheesy.

Sha the time i used in reading it is worth the noisy post.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 7:28am On Mar 29, 2022
To complete my wickedness, as I was about turning off my phone to sleep since I haven't slept since yesterday, I saw messages and smiled. That's what I'm talking about. Free money while you sleep as haters hate. cheesy

Abeg, make una no mind me o, but just know that whatever good news you post online is a direct or an indirect oppression and this triggers envy and hatred. At times, I'm intentionally wicked like that. It's called emotional torture.

The moral of this last post is: no matter the hate and abuse, don't give up until you start making hard currencies while you sleep. Since our Naira keeps falling, you'll be at advantage.

Trust me.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by papiilo(m): 8:35am On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
To complete my wickedness, as I was about turning off my phone to sleep since I haven't slept since yesterday, I saw messages and smiled. That's what I'm talking about. Free money while you sleep as haters hate. cheesy

Abeg, make una no mind me o, but just know that whatever good news you post online is a direct or an indirect oppression and this triggers envy and hatred. At times, I'm intentionally wicked like that. It's called emotional torture.

The moral of this last post is: no matter the hate and abuse, don't give up until you start making hard currencies while you sleep. Since our Naira keeps falling, you'll be at advantage.

Trust me.
fake alerts grin
Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 8:59am On Mar 29, 2022
Unfortunately, sleep no wan come. It's sad.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by MaxinRoland(f): 9:34am On Mar 29, 2022
grin I love to read this part 1 over and over again

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Aiel123: 9:59am On Mar 29, 2022
Nice points you got, legend.
Na only person wey don die na him no get haters

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by siofra(f): 10:24am On Mar 29, 2022
That ikillbrokehoes sha.

I don't think he has a job. Always trolling people online 24/7.

I ignore him no matter how much he mentions me. I don't have time for his foolishness.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 11:22am On Mar 29, 2022
siofra:
[s]That ikillbrokehoes sha.

I don't think he has a job. Always trolling people online 24/7.

I ignore him no matter how much he mentions me. I don't have time for his foolishness.[/s]
LMAO! Siofraud if I'm jobless what should we call you then? atleast I don't create useless threads all over the forum like you and that fraudster and empty vessel called Ilegendd.

Btw, I only trash f**lish people on this forum, people that don't have common sense and I won't stop doing that.
cool cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by siofra(f): 11:50am On Mar 29, 2022
I don't blame the idiot above me sha.

I blame the Coons following him and liking his posts. Making his flat head swell.

Incel.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Kingsize4eva(m): 11:51am On Mar 29, 2022
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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Myzubby(m): 12:45pm On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
To complete my wickedness, as I was about turning off my phone to sleep since I haven't slept since yesterday, I saw messages and smiled. That's what I'm talking about. Free money while you sleep as haters hate. cheesy

Abeg, make una no mind me o, but just know that whatever good news you post online is a direct or an indirect oppression and this triggers envy and hatred. At times, I'm intentionally wicked like that. It's called emotional torture.

The moral of this last post is: no matter the hate and abuse, don't give up until you start making hard currencies while you sleep. Since our Naira keeps falling, you'll be at advantage.

Trust me.
wow this one again , your posts are always interesting your write ups are furnished with simplicity and clarity , I never knew I could finish a whole lot of this since am not a fast reader . Thank you for this easy to read and easy to understand epistle. I'm saving this one in my browser in addition to many of your threads I have saved . Thank you Ilegendd

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by LogicBomb8: 1:09pm On Mar 29, 2022
Bottom line.
......collect wotowoto or ignor patapata

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by iLegendd(m): 2:23pm On Mar 29, 2022
siofra:
I don't blame the idiot above me sha.

I blame the Coons following him and liking his posts. Making his flat head swell.

Incel.
He uses his alternate accounts to share and like his own posts. He is frustrated. cheesy I don't always read his comments — just the same way I didn't read the one he made above.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Prettygirl200(f): 2:49pm On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
Part 4


1. There are people who love you
2. There are people who are indifferent about you
3. There are people who hate you

Those who love you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

Those who are indifferent are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent silent ones.

Those who hate you are in two kinds. The outspoken ones and the silent ones.

So, it's not all yours fans that will let you know they are your fans or even defend you online. They don't have the time to open up — they are silent fans.

Also, it's not all your haters that will attack you, some are silent haters and they'll never attack you.

Finally, there are people who don't love or hate you. They are indifferent about you as long as you don't kill and you do legit business to survive.

FINAL TIP

Being too good is too bad — it arouses intimidation and oppression and it ends up as envy as the byproduct. When you find yourself in an environment you're to good, mask some of your great attributes with humility and humor to avoid arousing envy too early. Envy and jealousy will surely come, but don't let it come to you too early.

Too much charisma and confidence from you threatens others and arouses either

1. Admiration or
2. Admonition

When it arouses admiration, the person loves you and becomes a fan.

When it arouses admonition, the person dislikes you, gets jealous of you, envys you, and becomes a hater.

Note: He will never ever admit he dislikes you or envious. He will swear on his grandma's grave that he doesn't hate you or envy you, but just wants to advise you as someone who knows more than you. As I said, it power tussle — everyone conceals their intentions and missions.

So, your charisma and confidence could be the sole reason someone is loving you or hating you.

Whoever loves you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a strong personality and sees you as an inspiration and a motivator.

Whoever hates you because of your admirable confidence and charisma has a weak personality and sees you as a direct threat and a conqueror. People hate to see others conquer them, so they'll have on you even before the invasion starts. Ask Ukraine.

A hater is always looking or a REACTION. Either you ignore, or you engage them and give them their 20% of power and with time, they'll give you back the power and become fans. Russia wants 20% of Ukraine's power, but Zelensky has refused — hence the war. Maybe, one day, he will.

Only reply a hater or a critic if he/she will generate you extra exposure and the exposure will lead to more money, else, ignore.

The more you excel, the more hate, critism, and envy you should expect.

The more you upgrade, the more hate and degrade.

Don't blame hater — if you're in there frustrated shoes, you may end up exhibiting the same character.

How will you feel if you live in an estate with other occupants and there is a man/woman you've being admiring, but this person has refused to cooperate?

Weeks later, a new tenant moved into one of the empty apartments and this new person is so beautiful/handsome with a great character — more than the other neighbor you've been admiring.

Luckily, two of you started bonding and became too close like partners.

How will you, the single woman or man who wasn't interested earlier feel? You'll surely feel jealous even though you'll try your best to hide it. At times, you may not be able to hide it — you'll meet the new neighbor and start gossiping terrible things about the other person just to ruin the new friendship so you can finally take over something you used to reject. This jealousy stems from two places

1. He/she found someone richer/fresher than you (jealous)
2. You feel left out because they are having so much fun without you (jealous)

Even on Nairaland, there are people who attack and hate on others for having more fun than them with the opposite gender. So, you see, no one wants you to to have more fun than them (especially with the opposite gender). If you must have more fun than them, they want you to do it behind them, not in front of them. Doing it in front of them is perceived as oppression.

A woman will hate on her fellow woman who's having more fun with lots of cute and rich guys — just the same way a man will hate on his fellow man for having lots of fun with different pretty big girls. The fun doesn't need to be sex — it could be ordinary conversation with lots of laughter, naughtiness, and humor, or dancing with lots of drinks and food.

There you have it. A critic or a hater will always hate — all he or she needs is a trigger of that emotional power tussle of having at least, 20% of the power, wisdom, or fun you're having. If you don't give it him/her, be ready to collect wotorwotor or be ready to ignore patapata.

In summary, haters and critics are always right — just give them their 20% of power or ignore them 100% and render them -100% powerless.

So, don't deactivate or delete your account because of them. If you must deactivate, let it be for other reasons — they are insignificant.

That, my friend, is the solution to handling haters/critics like a boss.

Hmmmmm my guy, what a wonderful write up, u know I just felt u wrote this post bc of me, Omo i just learnt from it. Keep it up, u are doing well!!!!!

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by siofra(f): 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2022
iLegendd:
He uses his alternate accounts to share and like his own posts. He is frustrated. cheesy I don't always read his comments — just the same way I didn't read the one he made above.

No wonder. I was wondering who is foolish enough to be liking his senseless, trollish posts.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Meedon: 11:49pm On Mar 29, 2022
I learnt a lot from this post. True haters can make someone not to become what he or she ought to be.
Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by christianjoy(m): 2:38am On Mar 30, 2022
siofra:


No wonder. I was wondering who is foolish enough to be liking his senseless, trollish posts.
actually I liked his post no deal

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by nora2018(m): 4:05am On Mar 30, 2022
Your writing skills and your diction is one of the 7 cyberwonders on nairaland,I read everything from top to bottom.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 7:15am On Mar 30, 2022
siofra:
[s]I don't blame the idiot above me sha.

I blame the Coons following him and liking his posts. Making his flat head swell.

Incel.[/s]
LMAO! Siofraud and the fraudster and empty vessel called illegend are ganging up against me, una never see anything yet. cheesy cheesy

Even this f**lish and Jobless thing that was trolling me for a month with her alternate monikers dey get mouth talk, talk about a pot calling kettle black, useless girl.
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 7:20am On Mar 30, 2022
iLegendd:
[s] He uses his alternate accounts to share and like his own posts. He is frustrated. cheesy I don't always read his comments — just the same way I didn't read the one he made above.[/s]
You read my post you liar and empty vessel, a broke nigga feeling rich, I guess you are f*cking pained that I'm putting you in your place already, I'm not done with you yet.

Since you don't want to have common sense and grow up for once in your life, I will continue to put you in your place.
cool cool

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Brian47(m): 7:27am On Mar 30, 2022
Ikillbrokehoes:
LMAO! Siofraud and the fraudster and empty vessel called illegend are ganging up against me, una never see anything yet. cheesy cheesy

Even this f**lish and Jobless thing that was trolling me for a month with her alternate monikers dey get mouth talk, talk about a pot calling kettle black, useless girl.
cheesy cheesy

Hater spotted
Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:10am On Mar 30, 2022
Brian47:


Hater spotted
Why should I hate on his progress? I don't do that, I was only advising him to stop posting pictures of hook-up girls he's sleeping with and he termed me an hater and a fraudster, just like he does to other people here that are telling him the obvious truth.

If it's about money, he's no where close to me, infact in my eyes he seem broke to me.
Check most of my posts in business section, the 2022 forex thread precisely and also the Crypto thread, I post most of my trade result and make thousands of dollars but you don't see me bragging and opening threads everywhere, even posting pictures of h*oes that I have slept with, I don't do that-and thats the huge difference between us.

I came from a wealthy family and I'm living a better life but you don't see me posting sh*t about me here, that's what I call maturity.

Rich guys don't brag, have you ever seen those guys in business section bragging? I know someone there that have a Crypto portfolio worth millions of dollars but the guy stays low-key, the ilegendd guy is just an empty vessel and people here ain't telling him the truth because of the peanuts he's giving out, he should just grow up.

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Re: Have You Noticed This Scary Thing Happening Online Since 2005? by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:13am On Mar 30, 2022
christianjoy:
actually I liked his post no deal
LMAO! what do you expect from the empty vessel with a child brain called Ilegendd and Siofraud/siofra, I'm just here laughing hard at their st*pidity. cheesy

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