The gender wars have been on for much longer than most people realize. Like, since antediluvian times. But that's history. Today, both sexes throw blames back and forth. Some diplomatic "sense-bringers" try to share blames equally. Futile. If an explosion was caused by a spark, do you blame the gas tanks or the matches? No, you don't blame anyone; you simply find the cause of the explosion and educate everybody. Then future matches will not cause future explosions around gas tanks, or the gas tanks will warn the matches before disaster strikes. Problem solved! Political correctness is not wisdom.


You see, when God recommended one man and woman in marriage, it was one unspoiled man and one unspoiled woman. That was the whole point of the virginity drama; being unspoiled, especially as a female. Why the emphasis on females? Because sexual recklessly scars them in deep ways, and because they hold all the power of society. Females are directly responsible for much of the world's problems. Ever heard the saying: with great power comes great responsibility? That's why emphasis are on females to be emotionally and mentally pure. But ofcourse, society does not get it. They ruin girls' sanity and purity in the name of false female power. So here's true female power:


When a human girl is born, she immediately begins training to be a good mother. That's why girls are into dolls. Along the way, enthusiastic young lads will try their luck with her. But the girl will "mother" the boy by lovingly putting him in his place, just as a real mother would. This helps to sharpen her skills and also tame the boy. He will extend the feelings he has with his mom to her; love, respect, admiration, etc. He will go from being enthusiastic about sex to being responsible with his feelings. That balance eventually leads to respectful harmonious relationships between males and females. So, the girl learns motherhood very early, and the guy learns fatherhood mostly by her influence. On the surface, you will see calm dominant males with their submissive female partners. But underneath, the female runs the show. The couple then transfer these qualities to their kids, on and on.


So, what goes wrong? Well, it is society's ignorance. A young girl has no idea why she has motherly instincts. Her parents have no idea too. No one helps her develop herself. When enthusiastic young lads show up, she has no mechanism ready to handle them. She soon falls for their antics. Sadly, she is spoiled physically and mentally. Her sexual energy scatters as if someone opened Pandora's box. She feels it, and her self esteem is destroyed. The lad also becomes confused. Really, he expected to be lovingly put in his place. But instead he's having sex. He tries other girls, same results. Then he loses respect for the female folk and himself. Unless he has a very good mother whose influence overpowers his dissapointment, or he has a very good father who understands/explains women to him early, he WILL sleep around. If he lacks confidence, he will find other ways to express. Also, he is irresponsible. Not that he drinks and smokes, but that he never learned fatherhood, period. Even if he provides for his family, even if he is a "good dad" by society's standards, he is a terrible father. And girls are a mystery to him.


Most guys quickly learn to have insurance against the weak females; don't fully commit to them, have backup chic, become rich, etc. Ofcourse it all backfires. They are digging sad pits. Even the rich guy is still not happy despite having babes on speed dial. He does not trust any of them. He says scornfully: dis bitches ain't loyal. The "bitches" reply: yes, because men are cheats! He agrees with them. Indeed he is a playboy and he knows it. He has no idea why though. He thinks it's natural. Animals do it. So he's embraced the "alpha male" role, banging chics from Benin to Bangkok. It's killing him. But who's to blame the human male. The females are the true power, they hold that responsibility. If they are clueless, society is doomed from top to bottom.