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Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by lecturer50(m): 10:55am On Apr 07, 2022
I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of everything except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.

A man who is openly bragging about sleeping with someone's wife may be very ashamed to speak about how he went on vacation.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involves violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?


I wonder: Who did this to men? How did this kind of attitude find itself into men? How did it start?

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Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by BigRocky: 10:59am On Apr 07, 2022
Feminine man dun drop post.
The validation you seek from women you portrayed as angels are coming in 3 .2. 1...

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Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by illicit(m): 11:00am On Apr 07, 2022
You should see a therapist tho

It's u who seem to have a problem here undecided

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Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Tickles001(m): 11:05am On Apr 07, 2022
lecturer50:
I saw a post on groom shower on the front page and so many men are so angry about it.

Sometimes you buy food and eat and some men are very angry and ashamed that you are eating food.

Men are ashamed of everything except when it involves sex and violence.

A man who is ashamed that he is eating good food will surprisingly not be ashamed when he is trying to rape someone's child or wife.


He would not be ashamed when he is trying to poison someone just because he is doing better than him.


In my University days, I used to walk fast and men would be having problems with me walking fast. Some would call me and complained that they like seeing me walk fast. That they don't like it. One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.


Someone received a loan which he didn't apply for from a bank. He asked on our WhatsApp platform whether anyone else had received such loan. No one answered him.

The next day some men called him and began to get angry that why must he post his personal problem. I was wondering the way men reason.

Men have problem with everything except sex, violence and wickedness.


But women are the opposite.


A woman does not have problem with anything she or another person does. She is not ashamed to buy herself good food.

She is only ashamed of someone who is wicked or evil. She is also ashamed of herself sometimes if she engages in sexual stuff.


But men would be more ashamed of a man who buys cake and drinks than a man who was caught in armed robbery.


Is it that men have subconsciously link manliness to doing daring things like robbery, wickedness and rape?

Is it that they have unconsciously link every other thing to femininity, that is why even to watch a good movie is a problem to men except the movie involve violence, wickedness and shedding of blood?

I don't want to sound to sound harsh, but it seems you're leaving in your mind.
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Boogyman557: 11:07am On Apr 07, 2022
Holly Gram cool


MAN get 2 brain..


1 Na the original brain wey de for head..


2 na him PREEK..


BRAIN and PREEK no de work together, wen BRAIN de work, PREEK de shutdown and wen PREEK de work, BRAIN de shutdown!


E get one ASHAWOO BANI wey I NACK Las year..


dis ASHAWOO BANI make SENTENCES well well!


As I me and her JAZZ in her room to NACK, me don pull TROUSER, she wear me CONDOMM, as she pull her cloth and PANT, everywhere begin SMELL shit shit.. the smell really SCATTER my head pan but I gats code..


I come de reason say, maybe Na toilet she go and she no CLEAN her YANNSH WELL!


but I gats NACK dis BANI because she make SENTENCES well well..


I no SEND de SMELL ooo... NaSo I CHUK PREEK and NACK NACK her TOTTO wit passion!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Nobody: 11:08am On Apr 07, 2022
Men are controlled and ruled by their penis, it is why the world is where it is today

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Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by DigitalStepdad: 11:09am On Apr 07, 2022
Please take your coke and walk away FAST!
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by siofra(f): 11:11am On Apr 07, 2022
You're right!

Men are prone to violence and wickedness.

They are bad and evil but they don't want to accept it. I've never seen a gender so bent on self-destruction.
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Nobody: 11:28am On Apr 07, 2022
Op don't mind toxic men replying you above I completely understand everything you wrote above.

Not all men are like the way you described above but most men are. They hail you when you are involving yourself in destructive behaviours like smoking, womanizing, alcoholism, cultism. They hail you as "macho man" "bad guy" "odogwu" and other names to further encourage you to involve in harmful activities.

I don't take alcohol but my friends made me start taking the sweet ones later they said those sweet ones( like Smirnoff) are for ladies that I should be taking lager beer grin Omo I no gree o. Thank God I have dissociated and I decided not to taste alcohol again.

At other times it has been handing over to me weed to smoke but I no gree because I made a decision that I will never involve myself in any addictive habit or behaviour. Some times they offer to buy for you but when you are hungry and crave good food they will never come to your rescue but just say boss make them run Arizona or Colorado or loud for me na. You will see the speed they will use to get it for you

Other cases includes being very religious and praying every time. I have heard statements like "na wa for you o" "na you kill jesus grin" "you go just dey do pastor, pastor up and down" or when you are very studious and always wanting to read they become intimidated and start saying things like "Omo no go run mad on to book o" "dem no dey carry first for university o"

Or when as a guy you decide not to involve in casual sex or when a lady comes to your room and you refused to have sex with her. You hear things like "obotey so you no fvck that girl, which kind mumu you be"

So op it's a normal thing, majority of men are like that but there are few that are upright and mind their business. Just know people are always intimidated when you are always doing the right thing and not wasting time like they are.

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Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Nobody: 11:29am On Apr 07, 2022
siofra:
You're right!

Men are prone to violence and wickedness.

They are bad and evil but they don't want to accept it. I've never seen a gender so bent on self-destruction.
Your blood too dey hot...wetin happen undecided
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by lecturer50(m): 1:15pm On Apr 07, 2022
God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes.


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.
Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Dpsychologist: 7:45pm On Apr 08, 2022
lecturer50:
God who created me knows that in my heart, so many times I use to be very angry and sad about how men are behaving.

I am fully persuaded that the problem of this world is the male gender.

I am speaking this because when your heart is full, you will sometimes find yourself emptying it by your statements.

I am writing this from the abundance of my heart.

I read books and I analyse things. Because of this, I have come to conclude that the male gender is the cause of how evil the world has become.

Does it not surprise you that so many laws abroad are against the male gender?


The reason is that so many people have known that men must be tamed if this world is to get better.

That is why they said it is even an offence for a strange man to touch a woman's body.


I read in a book that in some schools abroad, it's an offence to display manly attributes....


The book made us to know that men's manly attributes have so much destroy things that even some men believe that manliness is equal to criminality. Hence so many schools in the western world have laws that prevent male students from showing courage, confidence, being open minded and etc.

Their hope is that in the next few years, men would be so tamed that crimes and violence would be almost extinct.


So many white people have come to conclude that violence and manliness is one and the same thing.

Re: Why Do Men Have Problems With Everything Except Violence And Sex? by Ekwutox: 9:05pm On Apr 08, 2022
lecturer50:


One man was arrested when he used knife to kill someone. When he was released, the men around were not ashamed of him. Yet they were ashamed that I liked drinking coke and walking fast. I was their problem.

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