So guys, i was gisting with my babe this morning about all this wedding stuff.

we were talking about our preferred type of wedding and she was like, she'll love to have the court wedding and i was insisting on church wedding.

well, we ended the conversation on logger heads.

Now famz, i really want to know the pros and cons of a court wedding coz i feel the disadvantage is more on the man side.

i need expert view pls!
thanks

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You can have both a court wedding and a church wedding.
But a lot of people in this generation are stupid. Fearless in riskier affairs and fearful in less-risky affairs. Dating has a less natural tendency to establish a strong bond between the partners. Marriage has a high natural tendency to strongly unite the partners. But fools date without court agreement. The same fools insist on a court agreement for marriage.

I am not sexist but let me state a fact here. A girl will repeatedly do abortions without a court agreement that will ensure her man will marry her. She will call it love. By the time the man drains her freshness, she will insist that another man will do a court wedding for her. Bad boys chop the ladies' freshness without court agreements. Good men are pressurized to manage the ladies' chaff with court agreements. Those who insist on a court wedding are usually the ones causing problems in their marriages. They try to get a court wedding to enable them to get away with their bad behaviours in the marriage.

A man will exhaust his energy and resources on a girl without any court agreement that will compel her to remain with him. He will even damage his vital organs in trying to give her orgasms. By the time he becomes weak, he will marry another girl that will lack romance in the marriage.

I am not surprised. Things have fallen apart. This generation treats dating like marriage and handles marriage like dating. Boundaries in dating are shifted to marriage while responsibilities in marriage are fulfilled in dating. They share phone passwords and ATM card PINs in dating and hide these things in marriage. This is part of why their dating is usually better than their marriages. Instead of them using their brains, they shout "Marriage is a scam".

[quote author=immortalcrown post=111770161]You can have both a court wedding and a church wedding.
But a lot of people in this generation are stupid. Fearless in riskier affairs and fearful in less-risky affairs. Dating has a less natural tendency to establish a strong bond between the partners. Marriage has a high natural tendency to strongly unite the partners. But fools date without court agreement. The same fools insist on a court agreement for marriage.

I am not sexist but let me state a fact here. A girl will repeatedly do abortions without a court agreement that will ensure her man will marry her. She will call it love. By the time the man drains her freshness, she will insist that another man will do a court wedding for her. Bad boys chop the ladies' freshness without court agreements. Good men are pressurized to manage the ladies' chaff with court agreements. Those who insist on a court wedding are usually the ones causing problems in their marriages. At the end u said nothing

Abeg who open gate for this FTC?? Ahhh

Is that how bad life has treated you!!!

Op court or no court wedding.. Marriage wey go frustrate you,go frustrate you.

Why not have the court wedding now and later do the church wedding.
At the end of day - How are your finances ?
Someone here had a court wedding for N50k. So before the eyes of the law you r married and once you both save and have a budget you can have the church wedding.

You do what's best for you two.!!
Don't forget to send the Invitation - so i can save the date.