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Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Randy100: 7:03am On Apr 12, 2022
Since the news of osinachi alleged domestic violence death broke the internet, I have seen so many women having massive orgasm about the news some have used the opportunity to bash men and call men all sorts of name.

What happened to her is unfortunate and I hope the husband if guilty, is made to answer for his crime. I condemn what happened to her.

It's quite lugubrious, that many men have lost their lives in domestic violence, but, it is those of the women that is well over flogged in the internet space, I ask, is the life of those men not worth it? Why are we unbalanced in reporting this evil of domestic violence? Or are we saying that women are not capable of domestic violence.

I once had a girlfriend kicked me so hard on the rib while I was lying down answering a call of another lady, probably she heard me say something that provoked her. I stood up locked the door and designed her face with blows, but, she was the victim and I am the aggressor, I was the one who slept in cell, the one who paid her hospital bill. Nobody believed my story, neighbours and most annoyingly, my close gs. It's fuking annoying.

Every day men get stabbed in their home and we don't condemn it enough. I am pissed at you all.

May God help those who are going through domestic violence and give them the courage to walk out of abusive marriage.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by michael1508: 7:06am On Apr 12, 2022
Men are victims of many shits.
It's time to make use of the internet for our advantage too

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by rickpat(m): 7:16am On Apr 12, 2022
when it comes to domestic violence,women are more protected and secondly men that their wife do abuse physically are most times "ashamed" to speak up...but abuse is abuse..the man can press charges just as a woman being abused can also press charges when abused...



PLEASE WOMEN NEVER SAY THIS TO YOUR MAN "I DARE YOU,IF YOU'RE A MAN TOUCH ME,HIT ME"....most men loose it when you say that...his ego gets shattered but it's no a reason to beat up your wife but it insights great provocation


PLEASE MEN LEARN TO IGNORE( can men really ignore with the way we see men busy for hours fighting a lady online) OR USE YOUR TONGUE WHEN THE WOMAN USES HER TONGUE... there's this say "if person use mouth abuse you,use mouth back no using hand cus if you use hand na you go enter wahala"

This abuse thing is getting too alarming...even verbal abuse is a killer not to talk of physics abuse... BOTH THE MEN AND WOMEN HAVE A ROLE TO PLAY IN REDUCING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

my little opinion...winks

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Randy100: 7:28am On Apr 12, 2022
michael1508:
Men are victims of many shits.
It's time to make use for the internet for our advantage too
you are right. The most painful aspect, is that most men don't believe that men can suffer from domestic violence.
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:31am On Apr 12, 2022
Randy100:
Since the news of osinachi alleged domestic violence death broke the internet, I have seen so many women having massive orgasm about the news some have used the opportunity to bash men and call men all sorts of name.

What happened to her is unfortunate and I hope the husband if guilty, is made to answer for his crime. I condemn what happened to her.

It's quite lugubrious, that many men have lost their lives in domestic violence, but, it is those of the women that is well over flogged in the internet space, I ask, is the life of those men not worth it? Why are we unbalanced in reporting this evil of domestic violence? Or are we saying that women are not capable of domestic violence.

I once had a girlfriend kicked me so hard on the rib while I was lying down answering a call of another lady, probably she heard me say something that provoked her. I stood up locked the door and designed her face with blows, but, she was the victim and I am the aggressor, I was the one who slept in cell, the one who paid her hospital bill. Nobody believed my story, neighbours and most annoyingly, my close gs. It's fuking annoying.

Every day men get stabbed in their home and we don't condemn it enough. I am pissed at you all.

May God help those who are going through domestic violence and give them the courage to walk out of abusive marriage.
as sympathetic as I am to the plight of male victims of domestic violence.


Your post is insensitive, poorly timed, you just want to participate in oppression Olympics.

Someone is dead and you still find a way to make it about you.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Randy100: 7:35am On Apr 12, 2022
rickpat:
when it comes to domestic violence,women are more protected and secondly men that their wife do abuse physically are most times "ashamed" to speak up...but abuse is abuse..the man can press charges just as a woman being abused can also press charges when abused...



PLEASE WOMEN NEVER SAY THIS TO YOUR MAN "I DARE YOU,IF YOU'RE A MAN TOUCH ME,HIT ME"....most men loose it when you say that...his ego gets shattered but it's no a reason to beat up your wife but it insights great provocation


PLEASE MEN LEARN TO IGNORE( can men really ignore with the way we see men busy for hours fighting a lady online) OR USE YOUR TONGUE WHEN THE WOMAN USES HER TONGUE... there's this say "if person use mouth abuse you,use mouth back no using hand cus if you use hand na you go enter wahala"

This abuse thing is getting too alarming...even verbal abuse is a killer not to talk of physics abuse... BOTH THE MEN AND WOMEN HAVE A ROLE TO PLAY IN REDUCING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

my little opinion...winks
It's a collective effort from both gender, this is what I keep saying, but, the society makes it look as if it is only the man that needs working on.
Most men including me will find it difficult to press charge against a woman for domestic violence. My reason being that I can handle it. If you as a woman goes physical with me, I will retaliate and hit you hard. My take.
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by michael1508: 8:02am On Apr 12, 2022
Randy100:
you are right. The most painful aspect, is that most men don't believe that men can suffer from domestic violence.
We are the enemies of ourselves most times,the stereotype thoughts of men are stronger physically and mentally,thereby allowing yourself to be a subject of physical and mental violence.
Any form of violence is bad from both genders,be it beating to pulp or use of abusive words,everyone has the right to exercise a boundary to what they take and don't from people.
I have seen useless men beat up their wives to a pulp for stupid reasons and I have equally seen useless women nag the hell outa their husband or sometimes physical domestic violence on their husband and hell gets loose and the man retaliates with what he calls his own strength (physical beating),in such scenario,the woman quickly rush to form the victim cos she knows there are numerous emotional and hormonal imbalance men out there that will always believe women are the weaker vessel.
Things have changed now,all thanks to technology,if a woman ever raises her nagging voice at you or physically assault you,just have a good record of her shits,then deal with her in your own measures,if she cries and form victim,show evidence of why you dealt with her rightfully.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Randy100: 9:15am On Apr 12, 2022
michael1508:

We are the enemies of ourselves most times,the stereotype thoughts of men are stronger physically and mentally,thereby allowing yourself to be a subject of physical and mental violence.
Any form of violence is bad from both genders,be it beating to pulp or use of abusive words,everyone has the right to exercise a boundary to what they take and don't from people.
I have seen useless men beat up their wives to a pulp for stupid reasons and I have equally seen useless women nag the hell outa their husband or sometimes physical domestic violence on their husband and hell gets loose and the man retaliates with what he calls his own strength (physical beating),in such scenario,the woman quickly rush to form the victim cos she knows there are numerous emotional and hormonal imbalance men out there that will always believe women are the weaker vessel.
Things have changed now,all thanks to technology,if a woman ever raises her nagging voice at you or physically assault you,just have a good record of her shits,then deal with her in your own measures,if she cries and form victim,show evidence of why you dealt with her rightfully.
You have said it all.
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Randy100: 9:20am On Apr 12, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
as sympathetic as I am to the plight of male victims of domestic violence.


Your post is insensitive, poorly timed, you just want to participate in oppression Olympics.

Someone is dead and you still find a way to make it about you.
How is my post insensitive? In my post, I sympathized and condemned the action of the accused husband.
What do you mean by poorly timed? If I don't raise it now, when will I now talk about it, it's best that we talk about domestic violence as it affects both gender, to avoid the occurrence of such evil again.
Finally, the post is not about me. Rest.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by joshmaster487: 9:27am On Apr 12, 2022
Op's got a point.

But women are weaker, that's why they get more attention
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Medianna(f): 9:50am On Apr 12, 2022
Its like its men discussion thread lemme find my square root out.

But OP if a woman is beating you.
Can't you find your way out?
Must you retaliate?
Imagine 99 horse power fighting a 99 cat power
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by MedicH: 9:53am On Apr 12, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
as sympathetic as I am to the plight of male victims of domestic violence.


Your post is insensitive, poorly timed, you just want to participate in oppression Olympics.

Someone is dead and you still find a way to make it about you.

So we wait till ur husband dies till we make it about men?

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by RedpillAnalyst: 11:48am On Apr 12, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
as sympathetic as I am to the plight of male victims of domestic violence.


Your post is insensitive, poorly timed, you just want to participate in oppression Olympics.

Someone is dead and you still find a way to make it about you.

Not poorly timed and insensitive sir/ma.

Over 70% of domestic violence cases are instigated by women. However, they bear the brunt and get injured over 70% of the time when the man retaliates.

A good woman is loved and cared for. No man gets married because he wants a human punching bag. The media always want us to believe that all these men just rush home from work to suplex their wife while they were busy reading the bible or making dinner for the family.


What you will eventually find out is that the woman has been chasing the man around with knife in house or she is nagging and blocking the door to prevent the man from exiting the house and most times, DV cases get out of control because of 2 children are in relationship and can't handle their raging emotions.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Osashalom: 12:15pm On Apr 12, 2022
Op you are right. My own brother has been asulteted by the so called woman he was cohabiting with, but as I right people and even police are supporting the woman. If not for God, they would have even jailed my brother.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by adeksam91(m): 12:59pm On Apr 12, 2022
A Lady in my community stabbed her husband to death ontop little disagreement...she is a lawyer.. at the end of the day, she was acquitted of the crime, how she and her people did it I don't know, the moves they made I don't know but what I do know is she murdered her husband in cold blood... So to some extent, I agree with OP....she is even out of the country with her child....

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by RedpillAnalyst: 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2022
A lady who cut her husband's reproductive organ was a family friend and the man is gone for good.


Domestic violence comes from both genders and the women typically start the situation by gas-lighting the man and often times women sustain the visible injury

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:46pm On Apr 12, 2022
RedpillAnalyst:


Not poorly timed and insensitive sir/ma.

Over 70% of domestic violence cases are instigated by women. However, they bear the brunt and get injured over 70% of the time when the man retaliates.

A good woman is loved and cared for. No man gets married because he wants a human punching bag. The media always want us to believe that all these men just rush home from work to suplex their wife while they were busy reading the bible or making dinner for the family.


What you will eventually find out is that the woman has been chasing the man around with knife in house or she is nagging and blocking the door to prevent the man from exiting the house and most times, DV cases get out of control because of 2 children are in relationship and can't handle their raging emotions.





stop quoting false statistics you cannot back up.

You seem to be blinded by red pill rage. Guess I shouldn't bother

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by RedpillAnalyst: 5:12pm On Apr 13, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
stop quoting false statistics you cannot back up.

You seem to be blinded by red pill rage. Guess I shouldn't bother


Alrighty sir,

I didn't pull this out right of my ass sir.

https://link.medium.com/eKevFdsicpb

Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:23pm On Apr 13, 2022
RedpillAnalyst:



Alrighty sir,

I didn't pull this out right of my ass sir.

https://link.medium.com/eKevFdsicpb
what kind of reference/citation is that? So outdated.

This is how you know people that didn't go to university, or completed their project work in uni.

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Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by RedpillAnalyst: 6:04pm On Apr 13, 2022
DrFunmisticGlow:
what kind of reference/citation is that? So outdated.

This is how you know people that didn't go to university, or completed their project work in uni.


This is what I know, I didn't need to provide any link or evidence. And you said outdated? Paper written 2 years before COVID-19 By an Esquire? It's clear you are just trolling.
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by siofra(f): 9:05pm On Apr 13, 2022
RedpillAnalyst:



Alrighty sir,

I didn't pull this out right of my ass sir.

https://link.medium.com/eKevFdsicpb

Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by Nobody: 10:10pm On Apr 13, 2022
adeksam91:
A Lady in my community stabbed her husband to death ontop little disagreement...she is a lawyer.. at the end of the day, she was acquitted of the crime, how she and her people did it I don't know, the moves they made I don't know but what I do know is she murdered her husband in cold blood... So to some extent, I agree with OP....she is even out of the country with her child....
Jesus Christ!!
Re: Domestic Violence, Unbalanced Report. by RedpillAnalyst: 3:21am On Apr 14, 2022
And yes, like I said earlier women suffer more injury, because women can only out-manipulate men, but can never overpower men when it comes to strength.

No good woman will ever be caught in the middle domestic violence. These social media stories showing a battered face women who have demons in them calling men abusive appeal to the emotions of normies and not everyone.

Good women are treated with love and kindness and bad women who get what they crave for.

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