I met a young beautiful girl last year, she was everything I needed in a girl. She has all the attributes I prayed for. So, I asked her out and she accepted us to be in a relationship. Everything was going well until one day when I notice that she regularly post a particular guy in his early 40s on her WhatsApp status. I asked her who the guy was , she said that the guy is her Real Dad. Well, to cut the long story short, I found out that the guy was not her father rather her boyfriend. Before we agreed to start up the relationship, I made my intentions clear that I want to get married to her in the long run n I also asked her if she was in any relationship , she said No but to my greatest surprise, I found out that the guy she lied to be her father is her boyfriend.

Later, the guy too found out that I was also dating the girl. I don't know how the guy got my contact, he called me one day and started abusing me to stay clear from the girl. The girl loves me no doubt n I love her as well. So, when the guy called me, I over reacted with anger and told him never to call me again that I don't have anything to do with him.

After the whole drama when I later met the girl she told me that she has broken up with the guy, that I should forgive her. Which I did, I took her out on a date and engaged her.

This girl, is well known in my family and my parents knw her, she is loved by every member of family, but I am the only that know the kind of person she is cos I discovered that she has been cheating on me n has been lying to me all this while. Currently, we have an issues and not in talking terms for now. Though she has returned my ring but didn't let me know cos she kept it somewhere in my house. I feel she still have something to do with the guy.

I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her. I've tried to get her off my mind but I can't. The girl is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger, she is down to earth. I know her mum n we do flow well on phone calls any I speak with her

Advice me on what to do cos right now am confused. Don't knw if I should still press on cos I've tried giving up on her but can't get her off me.

To you that had similar issue like mine how did you move on? Help a brother

RICHMAN247:
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Later, the guy too found out that I was also dating the girl. I don't know how the guy got my contact, he called me one day and started abusing me to stay clear from the girl. [s]The girl loves me no doubt n I love her as well.[/s] So, when the guy called me, I over reacted with anger and told him never to call me again that I don't have anything to do with him.

After the whole drama when I later met the girl she told me that she has broken up with the guy, that I should forgive her. Which I did, I took her out on a date and engaged her.

I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her. I've tried to get her off my mind but I can't. The girl is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger, she is down to earth. I know her mum n we do flow well on phone calls any I speak with her

Advice me on what to do cos right now am confused. Don't knw if I should still press on cos I've tried giving up on her but can't get her off me.

To you that had similar issue like mine how did you move on? Help a brother

How can you say she love you? She’s definitely gaining something from you which she doesn’t want to lose..

You gotta do away from that girl oo she still has someone else, ladies like this will mess you up mentally, you’ll just be wondering why is she doing this exactly? You better run and move on, it’s not going to be easy but you have to o

I’ve not really been heartbroken so I don’t know how to move on but the small disappointments I’ve had, I moved on by just smiling and finding another woman to lash

No time

See boda,boda wey mumu,see boda,boda wey no get sense.Go and beg her,beg her to please have mercy on you and take you back,all these small small boys sha,no worry,u go soon get sense

She is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger and you know she loves you.

If I slap you ehn....?

Ekpa...

Na prick digger she be.

Olodo Nigerian Will Smith.

How can you say she loves you and at the same time cheat and lies and you even clearly have trust issues? They don't follow. When someone loves you, they put your interest before theirs and seek ways to ensure you're happy and to maintain the relationship.

The best cause of action is what that first commenter said, end things with her and delete her contact, take time to heal, you'll find love again. It may not be easy, but it can be done.

Embedded in every failure is two things, what you should learn to hedge against reoccurring and lessons to learn, but more importantly your ability to discern and recognize early enough. learn to improve in your love relationships, an upgraded you will make better decisions subsequently.

Hmm... This man you want to die before your time. Learn to move on immediately if it didn't work. Ask yourself why must it be her? Has good stock finished in the market (yes I know it's hard to find a good stock in a market saturated with substandard and fake stock but that doesn't mean they don't exist). Does she value you just as you value her? What is spectacular and special about her that you find it hard to let go off? According to the principal of my PPA while addressing us corps members back then he will always say "Nobody is indispensable, not even you or I as any of us can be replaced any time" That word continually rings in my mind when someone I once valued starts misbehaving.

Finally my advice: Never love a woman more than she loves you. To whom much is given, much is expected.

Time heals all wound, MOVE ON... Mr SIMP.

jus delete her contact like phone number, fb, WhatsApp any were on social media, if her pics is on ur phone delete it, anything that we make you remember her & find something that we keep busy, & change ur way don't let her see you neither who you see are too, with time you'll heal from the trauma, I believed she would come to beg someday but then it would be late, move on bro have go through same thing and with this I heal quickly & move on, goodluck

OP...
This girl looked you in your face...
Lied to you for months...
Cheated on you for that same period of time...
And yet, you still thinks she loves you??

Thank your stars you discovered her cheating and lying life style early, what if you're already married to her and found out.

I think you should be glad and not even depressed.

We're tired of advising simps. Go ahead and beg her back man.

SmellySperm:
We're tired of advising simps. Go ahead and beg her back man.

Lol.

RICHMAN247:
I met a young beautiful girl last year, she was everything I needed in a girl. She has all the attributes I prayed for. So, I asked her out and she accepted us to be in a relationship. Everything was going well until one day when I notice that she regularly post a particular guy in his early 40s on her WhatsApp status. I asked her who the guy was , she said that the guy is her Real Dad. Well, to cut the long story short, I found out that the guy was not her father rather her boyfriend. Before we agreed to start up the relationship, I made my intentions clear that I want to get married to her in the long run n I also asked her if she was in any relationship , she said No but to my greatest surprise, I found out that the guy she lied to be her father is her boyfriend.

Later, the guy too found out that I was also dating the girl. I don't know how the guy got my contact, he called me one day and started abusing me to stay clear from the girl. The girl loves me no doubt n I love her as well. So, when the guy called me, I over reacted with anger and told him never to call me again that I don't have anything to do with him.

After the whole drama when I later met the girl she told me that she has broken up with the guy, that I should forgive her. Which I did, I took her out on a date and engaged her.

This girl, is well known in my family and my parents knw her, she is loved by every member of family, but I am the only that know the kind of person she is cos I discovered that she has been cheating on me n has been lying to me all this while. Currently, we have an issues and not in talking terms for now. Though she has returned my ring but didn't let me know cos she kept it somewhere in my house. I feel she still have something to do with the guy.

I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her. I've tried to get her off my mind but I can't. The girl is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger, she is down to earth. I know her mum n we do flow well on phone calls any I speak with her

Advice me on what to do cos right now am confused. Don't knw if I should still press on cos I've tried giving up on her but can't get her off me.

To you that had similar issue like mine how did you move on? Help a brother

Your girl is in a sugar daddy relationship with the guy. The guy probably finances, her and has fallen in love with her but they can't marry for reasons best known to them. If I may know why did she give you your ring, because it sounds funny that she will take off the ring wihen she is at fault , except she is no longer interested, I hope you didn't physically abuse her. If you didn't do a such, take it that she is no longer interested, her heart obviously belongs to the other guy. What I would advise is to keep off from her, don't engage a girl you are not ready to marry within 3 months. It is when you have done introduction and a wedding date is set and plans are on going that you can give her a ring, not because you are afraid. There's no easy way of getting over someone, it'll be hard. You just have to make up your mind and keep off her. In my own perspective she doesn't see a future with you and she is pitying you, doesn't want to hurt you, it doesn't not mean she loves you.

think less of her, flirt with other babes.. roll some BLUNT

Time corrects things. You'll be fine with time. Let her go

Just realize that;

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

smh ... women are hypergamy in nature , women love opportunistically u need to understand this . i will advice u to move on with ur life that old G is giving her something u cant offer her and i will advice all men to always work more on their SMV( Sexual market value) , we need to get our game on 100 percent always .... the moment those bitch perceive you to be high value G they will do anything to have u on their side i mean anything to have u ...copy that . only then i can consider any relationship to be healthy, vet that bitch ruthlessly before u go into something serious with them .... hypergamy dont care

Agony of a tormented man. SMH

Damnnnn!!!!

why I dy laugh self
*leaving thread *

"I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her."

Just imagine the nonsense op is typing above, dammmm this level of simps is on another level, you deserve an award for " best SIMP For the month of April" dammm am out of here

The problem with you is that you don't think you can get another girl or even a better one. That's why you prefer to remain with a cheat and a liar. You prefer to bury your head in the sand and act as if the Red flags are not glaring.

Look dude, she doesn't love you at all. She just likes the fact that you are nice, so she dates you out of pity. It is the pity she has for you that made her quietly drop your ring where you can find it yourself. Otherwise, she supposed to hand it to you and tell you to your face that she doesn't see you as her husband. How can she see you as her husband when all you do is simp like a weakling. A girl confessed to have cheated, and the next thing you do is take her out.

I'll advise you and fellow guys to watch the video below which speaks about certain things guys do which gradually turns them into simps. Perhaps, you can spot them in your behaviour and in the process shed off those simp behavior.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RrMe0lAf2I

You are the only person who can help yourself to move on.

Will you rather marry a woman that's most likely going to be cheating on you? Will you like your neighbours to be in bed with your wife while she keeps denying it?

Start using your head and move on right now OR marry a cheat and regret it later.

There's always some better girl out there.
Don't marry someone that will make you lose your cool someday in the future and you will mistakenly kill her out of hatred. Save yourself.

All these stupid posts in this forum should stop pls. You be the biggest fool if this ur story an true.

Marry her ..she be wife material
Otondo
When your neighbors or friends dey lash her for you after marriage your eyes go clear. Person dey cheat and lie you still dey ask jamb questions..haba.
Let me tell you what will happen after you marry her. She go still dey Bleep that nigga ..the guy go dey pound her thorough doggy. He go hang her leg for window..e pritolin go fall out from her kitten she go slide m in back sharp sharp. As he dey hot.
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You have more detailed information to yourself than what you have explained here which will help you further to make your decision at the end of the day. Personally for me I don't think the girl loves you. She is just trying to see how things would go.

I would like to ask you these questions.

1. How old is the girl in question?
2. How old are you?

RICHMAN247:
I met a young beautiful girl last year, she was everything I needed in a girl. She has all the attributes I prayed for. So, I asked her out and she accepted us to be in a relationship. Everything was going well until one day when I notice that she regularly post a particular guy in his early 40s on her WhatsApp status. I asked her who the guy was , she said that the guy is her Real Dad. Well, to cut the long story short, I found out that the guy was not her father rather her boyfriend. Before we agreed to start up the relationship, I made my intentions clear that I want to get married to her in the long run n I also asked her if she was in any relationship , she said No but to my greatest surprise, I found out that the guy she lied to be her father is her boyfriend.

Later, the guy too found out that I was also dating the girl. I don't know how the guy got my contact, he called me one day and started abusing me to stay clear from the girl. The girl loves me no doubt n I love her as well. So, when the guy called me, I over reacted with anger and told him never to call me again that I don't have anything to do with him.

After the whole drama when I later met the girl she told me that she has broken up with the guy, that I should forgive her. Which I did, I took her out on a date and engaged her.

This girl, is well known in my family and my parents knw her, she is loved by every member of family, but I am the only that know the kind of person she is cos I discovered that she has been cheating on me n has been lying to me all this while. Currently, we have an issues and not in talking terms for now. Though she has returned my ring but didn't let me know cos she kept it somewhere in my house. I feel she still have something to do with the guy.

I love this girl so much even though she has cheated on me and lies alot, I still love her. I've tried to get her off my mind but I can't. The girl is a very good girl, she is not a gold digger, she is down to earth. I know her mum n we do flow well on phone calls any I speak with her

Advice me on what to do cos right now am confused. Don't knw if I should still press on cos I've tried giving up on her but can't get her off me.

To you that had similar issue like mine how did you move on? Help a brother

Mistakes simp makes is always telling a girl fast you like to marry her, immediately you tell a girl you like to marry her, you already killed the mystery and mojo in the relationship and it's bound to fail, let the girl be the one talking about marriage not you as a man. A man can get married even at old age as long as he's capable but a woman knows she has to marry young cos times not favourable to her so she should be the one begging for marriage.