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Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by dubaino(m): 5:38pm On Apr 13, 2022
Lady calls off wedding over domestic Abuse

Ada Uburu���
Hello Guys!!!I never wanted to bring this here but I have to, I am a type of person who likes to keep my relationship away from social media but this is for clarification purposes.

This was my secondary school classmate who I thought I knew to an extent. On December 28, 2020 he did the 1st and 2nd stage in my family marriage list which bride price happened to be on the 2nd stage which he paid. After he paid my bride price he started maltreating me.

2021 was hell for me that at some point I left home, after everything we settled around November 2021 which he promised he will never beat me again. But still nothing CHANGED.

This is my reason why I am CALLING OFF the Traditional Marriage (Igba Ngwu) and White Wedding ceremony between me and DAVID OKIKE OFF. (Beating me was not part of the agreement in our Marriage)

This Saturday should have been my traditional and white wedding ceremony day.... I supposed to be happy but I am not.

For couple of months now I have been going through a lot.

I have been in a TOXIC RELATIONSHIP for OVER a YEAR now.. I am aware that this may be a shock to many people, especially people from my Home Town. My supposed husband HIT and ABUSE me in any slightest provocation, just small misunderstanding without minding what condition I am into.

Because I have chosen ME and I will not live my entire life facing DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. My supposed husband is full of RAGE, BEATING me with his Belt, Stick, Broom is his DAILY ROUTINE, Many a times he had lifted his hammer � on me and this Monday last week just because of little misunderstanding he beat me mercilessly and on the process of it he rushed into his mother's kitchen for a cutlass, when I noticed he's going for a weapon I locked the door behind him which he forcefully opened, both his mother and Sisters and some neighbors were begging him not to cut me with the cutlass ... With all these things and more I am fed up.

I AM CALLING OFF THE WEDDING AND TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE (IGBA NGWU) BETWEEN ME AND DAVID OKIKE that supposed to hold on this Saturday 16th, April 2022.

Please to my family and friends I am so sorry for any inconvenience this may have caused you ��

But I will not end up with a man who always promise that if I didn't kill him, that he will kill me.

I am still suffering from unstoppable headache I sustained from the head injury he gave me 3 weeks ago.

The "bride price paid" will be Returned in due time. Please Respect my choices. Thanks and God bless you all. ©ADA UBURU

Via Jeremiah Obaji Nworu.

Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Freelane33(m): 5:39pm On Apr 13, 2022
Sharp

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Pearlokeys: 5:40pm On Apr 13, 2022
Affliction shall not rise the second time.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Nobody: 5:41pm On Apr 13, 2022
Call it off and save your life

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Nobody: 5:42pm On Apr 13, 2022
She just saved her life. A Yoruba proverb says... A man mends his fate with his hands.. His face is already viral, so other wannabe brides should stay off his radar. D girl still get mind oh. So u have been with a violent man. Time and again dey beat u and u dey bear am time and again

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by adebayo987: 5:43pm On Apr 13, 2022
You did the right thing my dear.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Jennyclay(f): 5:44pm On Apr 13, 2022
commendable bold step.
Good gesture.

post=111916976:

2021 was hell for me that at some point I left home, after everything we settled around November 2021 which he promised he will never beat me again. But still nothing CHANGED.
You can never change a full grown man.
You can never change a full grown man.
You can never change a full grown man.
You can never change a full grown man.

Keep saying it... Don't stop talking it... Keep saying it...

You can never change a full grown man. Please Quit Toxic relationship/marriage

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Pierocash(m): 5:47pm On Apr 13, 2022
Peter Nwachuckwu don pour sand for this guy garri

Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by thorpido(m): 5:53pm On Apr 13, 2022
His face sef shows domestic violence.

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Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 13, 2022
na wa o ...marriage wey never enter gear 1 shebi e go enter reverse now.
Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by habsydiamond(m): 6:08pm On Apr 13, 2022
Just like that, good decision though. .. If una never marry and u Don dey sense am say he is a wife beater e better to throw in the towel to be alive for another day than to die in the ring called marriage... Na how the guy go be be this ooo.. The news go shock am like Nepa light

Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by NeoWanZaeed(m): 6:35pm On Apr 13, 2022
Called off



We know you dey lie...but at least, write correct English
Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by decatalyst(m): 6:40pm On Apr 13, 2022
I am with her 100% on this.


No one deserves to get battered and humiliated all in the name of staying married!
Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Omoluabi16(m): 7:41pm On Apr 13, 2022
One mugu go still marry 'bro' David because he is a changed man..
Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by Nyascobar1414: 8:05pm On Apr 13, 2022
Why Nigerian men carry marriage matter for head? Y'all ain't know you the prize?
Re: Lady Calls Off Wedding Over Domestic Abuse by aimmoney9: 8:09pm On Apr 13, 2022
The two of you no match now u no see him head ..... grin grin grin

He knows this that's why he wanted to panel beat you to look like him...... grin grin grin

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