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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Ishilove: 12:04am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:


I am married and my wife is not stupid to insult me if she feels offended... my mom wasn't also stupid like most women , she never raised her voice towards my dad...

U women just think u have the leverage to insult men and have no reaction by men, u must be deluded to think u wudnt get hit
So when you are provoked outside by your fellow men, do you rush to hit them, or is it only on women you flex your power with? Answer genuinely. Do you hit men when they insult you?

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by selfdefence: 12:11am On Apr 14, 2022
Better thing for her to do to avoid stories that touch
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Jayzx: 12:14am On Apr 14, 2022
She did the right thing! NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

Hmmmm. May we not come across lady/woman that would frustrate our life to the extent of rasing hand on her. Some women are devil incarnate.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by MARSHALDEMSA202(m): 12:15am On Apr 14, 2022
Social media has successfully ended this marriage

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Lightorder: 12:20am On Apr 14, 2022
Tracka:
You have made the right choice for yourself
that is if she is not the one initiating the beating with toxic verbal abuse. For any animal who tries touching any of my sisters, just go get the best wheelchair of your choice before doing so.

However, Nigerians know how to trend for a moment . Osinachi’s saga is trending now. Ladies whose bad attitude and emotional abuse to their spouses could cause a man to commit suicide are now claiming victims. Before you break your home yourself, check if you are the one bringing in the fuel. Zip your tongue. The best time to correct your angry spouse is not when he or she is angry. The wound of word is far worse than the wound of a sword. I am done talking. For those who would come for my head, it is cladded with bronze

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by PEXBlog(f): 12:21am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?? Men don't show emotions when they are abused , they can't cry , so they rather will hit, its in our nature ...so y do women think they can just insult men and get away with it... as long as the world dont preach that women should also respect men and dont insult men, men will continue to hit women... they wise women will dodge confrontation to avoid violence , the foolish ones will think they can insult men and expect no reaction....

Domestic violence against women has increased since feminists started preaching that a woman should not be hit even if she abuses the man to the point where he is pushed to the wall... just look at the last 2 big brothers... look at how those women insulted those guys to the point that one of the guys started crying... women like that will easily get hit by a man cis men respond with violence when angry....its in a man's nature and women should understand it... this is y most men don't wanna even get married again...


Your opinion looks weird to me. So men don't have any excuse but to hit a woman right? If a woman abuse you, you ought to return the abuse in the like manner, simple! Don't you have mouth again? If a woman shout at you, do so in the same manner; if she abuse you, do so in the same manner as well. And if you know you can't stomach that walk away and ignore, period! What makes a real man is your ability to control your emotions, not your emotions controlling you.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by jjxxx: 12:28am On Apr 14, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl

It’s better my dear. We can’t afford osinachi part 2 oooo
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by fredoooooo: 12:28am On Apr 14, 2022
Chidi2022:
while at it, remember also to teach your daughters that, if a man slap you, slap him back in self defense.....May the Good Lord strengthen you...
Exactly , if my daughter slap anyone he should be slap back .. no one get two heads .
Just like I support this girl cancelling this wedding ncos of the guy attitude
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Lightorder: 12:31am On Apr 14, 2022
Jayzx:
She did the right thing! NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

Hmmmm. May we not come across lady/woman that would frustrate our life to the extent of rasing hand on her. Some women are devil incarnate.
also advice her to check if she is the cause of the problem . That was how my sister almost shattered her lovely family, claiming victim because she is a woman. When we looked into the matter, we were shocked as why wasn’t the husband the one shouting abuse. We made her to look at herself and make amends. Today , they are the best couples around with blessings everywhere. Say NO to running into conclusions. Not all misunderstanding of couples end in death

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by LilMissFavvy(f): 12:31am On Apr 14, 2022
Totally true. Yes I'm aware, but with continuous enlightenment, things will get better.
PEXBlog:


And the worst thing is one of the major religions we have in this country, if not both of them supports husbands beating of their wives.
And do you realize the problem also stems from these religious books where they regard women as spoils from war. We are fvcked already.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Magnoliaa(f): 12:35am On Apr 14, 2022
immortalcrown:
Okay. Next...

Leaving him is a good choice because a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Good luck in your marriage. But the problem is most humans, especially women, are insatiable. You have left him. If he gets another woman or gets richer, you will begin to regret leaving him.

I like the fact that you publicized this. If you mess up in your marriage, your marriage will remember this publicity and do what will vindicate the man you accuse now.

Yes, you're absolutely right. I particularly agree with you that most people, especially men, are not "marriage-worthy". She has left him. If he cannot get another woman or becomes poorer now, he will begin to regret losing her.

I absolutely support the fact that she publicised this too. If she goes on to have a sweet marriage with a sensible and perfect man for her, we'll be here to celebrate and applaud her for a good decision made while the man she has accused will likely go on to proving her right by abusing another lady. And it'll be so pitiful then for whoever is going to land in his clutches.

You have said all the truth and nothing but, sir.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Lightorder: 12:39am On Apr 14, 2022
Ladies, ask yourself,” am I the one that turned this man into a monster “. Men , grow up and learn how to control your emotions. Women are like little children but feminists will never admit it. That was how Tonto Dike was shouting Olakunle Churchill this and that. Today we know better . We now know the trouble was.

Lastly, any man who beats a woman is a coward and any woman who abuses and disrespects her husband is a fool
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by dcasca(m): 12:42am On Apr 14, 2022
You don't need to be sorry my dear. We understand.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Burgerlomo: 12:46am On Apr 14, 2022
Congratulations girl, best decisions ever.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BigBashiru: 12:49am On Apr 14, 2022
PEXBlog:



Your opinion looks weird to me. So men don't have any excuse but to hit a woman right? If a woman abuse you, you ought to return the abuse in the like manner, simple! Don't you have mouth again? If a woman shout at you, do so in the same manner; if she abuse you, do so in the same manner as well. And if you know you can't stomach that walk away and ignore, period! What makes a real man is your ability to control your emotions, not your emotions controlling you.

You hv silenced the idiots. Excellent post. They try their best to excuse toxic masculinity but its our duty to keep highlighting those behaviors and to keep shaming men about it..only shaming will work

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:56am On Apr 14, 2022
Good, you have done the right thing God bless you.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by kunle75(m): 1:02am On Apr 14, 2022
Aonkuuse:
I think this young lady have made the best choice for herself. She called off her wedding that supposed to hold on Saturday over her boyfriend's constant beatings

Read her story below:



https://www.facebook.com/100023344715047/posts/1125662428221904/?app=fbl


100% seconded,enjoy your life abeg
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Themandator: 1:10am On Apr 14, 2022
Tracka:
You have made the right choice for yourself

This is what a full grown woman if 42 like Osinachi couldn't do to save her life and be there for her kids
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by juman(m): 1:26am On Apr 14, 2022
An intelligent beautiful lady.
Very important to cut off toxic relationship.

Look at the useless woman beater man.
He deserve to be prosecuted.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by stamapro(m): 1:28am On Apr 14, 2022
Great decision, life has no duplicate. You can be married only if you are alive. Look at the guys face, he looks like a suspect self. Any man that beats a lady is an efulefu Igbo word for ....
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Naijaprosper: 1:34am On Apr 14, 2022
To the first comment i reply, what kind of mad vindication for a wide beater?

Any man who can touch a woman to hurt her is equal to an animal and does not by any means deserve to be married.

In my family, the rule is that, once you touch our sister, we MUST touch you before any negotiations can begin.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:05am On Apr 14, 2022
LilMissFavvy:
She is a very lucky woman. The sad thing is that a good percentage of Nigerian* men are like this man. The African tradition/culture was founded on pure misogyny/oppression of women, that's why mother's of old were grooming bad* husband's , poorly brought up sons who were taught that beating a wife is normal. SayNoToDomesticViolence!

You have spewed rubbish.

Patriarchy is different from misogyny.

Patriarchy is different from toxic masculinity.

The Bible supports patriarchy, but not misogyny.

How a man is raised has nothing to do with the African view about women. A Christian may be raised to believe that a man is the head of the family, but no true believer in God will raise their male children to hate women.

In the case of the man in the OP, his problem is not misogyny. The fact that he beats his fiancee doesn't automatically make him misogynistic. He is evidently a violent person, and one with a short temper too. A bad combination.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:13am On Apr 14, 2022
Naijaprosper:
To the first comment i reply, what kind of mad vindication for a wide beater?

Any man who can touch a woman to hurt her is equal to an animal and does not by any means deserve to be married.

In my family, the rule is that, once you touch our sister, we MUST touch you before any negotiations can begin.

Anyone who can touch anyone to hurt them is an animal. There is a reason why we are different from animals.

So, you will be equally termed an animal if you give violence for violence.

Violence is violence irrespective of the gender receiving it. Women can be just as violent as men. We see women show violence against house girls.

Every human being should learn conflict resolution. We are not animals.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Cocao(f): 2:15am On Apr 14, 2022
Kingcalls:
Women always think they are right ... what did u do?again...

I pity whoever you marry. If provocation is enough reason to beat up a man why are men not beating up themselves? You won't beat other men but come home to fight your women. Take your anger elsewhere. Stop the violence!

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:18am On Apr 14, 2022
PEXBlog:



Your opinion looks weird to me. So men don't have any excuse but to hit a woman right? If a woman abuse you, you ought to return the abuse in the like manner, simple! Don't you have mouth again? If a woman shout at you, do so in the same manner; if she abuse you, do so in the same manner as well. And if you know you can't stomach that walk away and ignore, period! What makes a real man is your ability to control your emotions, not your emotions controlling you.

Your advice is weird.

If life is that simple, why don't women just simply hit back too when a man hits them?

You see, everyone needs to learn how to manage their anger.

There is something called emotional intelligence, and many people lack it.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by BluntTheApostle(m): 2:24am On Apr 14, 2022
Cocao:


I pity whoever you marry. If provocation is enough reason to beat up a man why are men not beating up themselves? You won't beat other men but come home to fight your women. Take your anger elsewhere. Stop the violence!

Men beat up themselves.

Did Will Smith not slap Rock on live TV?

The other day, a driver smashed a checking officer's head.

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Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by Ashirioluwa: 2:46am On Apr 14, 2022
The only solution to an abusive relationship is to RUN RUN RUN because it might cost you your precious LIFE if you
decide to stay in.
Re: Young Lady Called Off Her Wedding Over Boyfriend's Constant Abuse (photos) by CSTRR: 3:09am On Apr 14, 2022
chukwuibuipob:
cool nice one/Wise girl She runz b4 that fl@thead bEAST KILL her like that Gospel musician.Marry sensible man not ipob touts sad
How can your entire agenda on nairaland be bigotry?

Na wa o.

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