About six months ago, I returned home from work and discovered that my wife and four children were no where to be found. I also noticed her that belongings and that of the children were missing.

I quickly dashed out of my flat and went to my neighbours to enquire of their whereabout. I was shocked to my bone marrows when they narrated to me how a man accompanied my wife to move out her belongings. When they tried to intrude the man warned them of serious consequences.

That was when it dawned on me that my wife whom I have caught severally on the phone discussing with her lover on the phone has finally done her worst.
On two occasions I caught her sneaking around with her phone, in the midnight I discovered an Sms that the so-called lover sent she was fast asleep . I cannot divulge the content here because it was disgusting to me at first.
I reported to the pastor and she was warned. Then the identity of the lover wasn't known to me. I just let it go, because I still needed the marriage for the sake of my four children.
However, I began to investigate without her knowing. Then I discovered that the secret lover was a custom officer, named Adeniyi Adesola, he was in Ibadan command. He is married with children.
One day he called my wife and I just could bear the insults, I confronted him on phone I warned him to stay away and reminded him that she was married.
Then he started abusing me and even threatened to kill me. He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me.
I reported the matter to the ekpan police station warri. The IPO who was a lady advised me to thread with caution and report to my family which I did.
I am from Edo State and my wife is from Ondo state. The custom officer is from Ekiti state. The custom officer, Adesola was intimidating me because I was not understanding their language.

I gave my wife everything she needed. I got a loan of 5m from a bank to set up a business for her. She squandered the money and there is nothing to show now in the shop. The bank has started moving in on me, I don't know what to do.

The custom officer I heard has kept my wife and children in Ibadan because his wife couldn't take it.
MY children are not in school and my wife just gave birth to a baby for the custom officer.
Meanwhile, she has not returned the bride price but she has delivered a baby for the customs officer.
Now I want the custom officer, Adeniyi Adesola to release my wife, Helen Bose and my children with immediate effect because he has charmed them.
Pls nairaland admins put this story on front page pls.. I need my children. They are not in school.

Bro,just count your loss and move on..I k ow how it feels,u must have cried and be depressed. But don't see it as your fate,better days are coming. You might find it hard to move on ,but just live your life like it's golden,find someone else to channel.ypur love too Those kids of yours will come looking for you later in life. We way single,e get why. Yoruba womenast persons on earth to get married to. They can fuc k anything,both educated and illiterate, just have money and sabi fuc k. I have dated like 5 Yoruba women,3 igbo and 1 from aka ibom. Naija ladies are useless

No one cares oga,women don pass through wetin worse pass this one.
You probably did something wrong so e no concern us.

Your wife is not under the spell of any charm.
Rather it is you who is under the spell of a charm called foolishness.

How can you?
No, how can you?
Well, I just can't.

A woman disrespects the integrity of your manhood by moving in with another man, pulverizes the sanctity of your marriage by spreading her legs wide for him so he can further demolish the foundation of the love you two once shared with the ferrocious poundings of his preek and you still want it salvaged?

It doesn't end there, she gets pregnant for this vagabond not because she needs children but because she is so proud of their adulterous affair that she needs a tangible evidence to show the world.

And you, who is neck deep in the shittiest mess of a potential bad bank debt, rather than take advantage of your solitary state to rechart your life, count your losses and come out stronger like a preek after the first ejaculation. You are here on a public forum soliciting pity while mouthing how badly you need a slut back.

Each time I heard you call her your 'wife', I cringed. God knows if you were anywhere close to me, I'd slap some teeth out of your mouth and hit some SIMPlicity out of you after which I'd press charges against you for not only being stupid but for being a bad example to other men.
One woman will look at you now and conclude that this is how stupid men are.

Your children do not deserve you.
I still cringe because this is the most pathetic case of iredeemable senselessness I've witnessed all day.

Infact, I'm done.
Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.

He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me.


Men are so useless!!!! Killing each other over a cherry!!!

You still want her back?
Are you sure you are not charmed?

This one strong o. I can't help but wonder what attracted the custom tout to your wife aside from the fact that they have dated before. Is it her beauty or what and why will your wife leave you for him? Are you struggling financially? How are you sure those 4 kids have your DNA? Did you beat your wife? Those are questions begging for answers

If you don't have any guilt in your heart, I will say keep praying, keep moving and keep hoping for better days ahead

Lalasticlala please move this to front page too, to go join that 'Husband leaves wife for her maid' so that Nairalander can judge both alike

if senselessness was a person

Krissx216:
No one cares oga,women don pass through wetin worse pass this one.
You probably did something wrong so e no concern us.

Nobody; if you like change your moniker 100x, you no still get sense

oga have you reported to the custom authorities? and why are you not worried about your innocent children? as for the woman, its obvious they planned it together. oga collect your children fess

Pls how do report to the management of Customs. I need my children

@after4..guide me on how to report to the management because I just need my kids in peace. Can someone help me with a contact?

NwaAmaikpe:




Your wife is not under the spell of any charm.
Rather it is you who is under the spell of a charm called foolishness.

How can you?
No, how can you?
Well, I just can't.

A woman disrespects the integrity of your manhood by moving in with another man, pulverizes the sanctity of your marriage by spreading her legs wide for him so he can further demolish the foundation of the love you two once shared with the ferrocious poundings of his preek and you still want it salvaged?

It doesn't end there, she gets pregnant for this vagabond not because she needs children but because she is so proud of her affair with him that she needs a tangible evidence to show the world.

And you, who is neck deep in the shittiest mess of a potential bad bank debt, rather than take advantage of your solitary state to rechart your life, count your losses and come out stronger like a preek after the first ejaculation. You are here on a public forum soliciting pity while mouthing how badly you need a slut back.

Each time I heard you call her your 'wife', I cringed. God knows if you were anywhere close to me, I'd slap some teeth out of your mouth and hit some SIMPlicity out of you after which I'd press charges against you for not only being stupid but for being a bad example to other men.
One woman will look at you now and conclude that this is how stupid men are.

Your children do not deserve you.
I still cringe because this is the most pathetic case of iredeemable senselessness I've witnessed all day.

Infact, I'm done.
Over to Lalasticla.la and the other elders.

I don't like you on this forum, truth be told.

But for you to drop this much sense in a single comment, you've won my respects and admiration.
Tuale baba

That Institution called marriage...........
Hell no!!!

oga, am not a custom personnel, go to their office and report the issue to them. I will also advice you to call that man and have a man to man talk with him, tell him to give you your children and he wont see you again as it is obvious your wife have chosen to go with him. it is your wife he wants not your children who will be a liability to him. tell him that if he doesnot give you your chilrdren then he should be ready to kill him or you kill him. some times the only way to have peace is to prepare for war. if you tell him to give you your wife, i can guarantee you that you will loose all round. you married a farm instrument, or may be you lured her away with money. just tell him to give you your children and you will go away in peace. please dont fight because of that woman, nah she go even kill you and not the man.

oseahumenb:
@after4..guide me on how to report to the management because I just need my kids in peace. Can someone help me with a contact?

that guy na craze 2.0

frbona:

I don't like you on this forum, truth be told.

But for you to drop this much sense in a single comment, you've won my respects and admiration.
Tuale baba

This story is strong...

You acted so soft right from the onset. Why would you just relax just because your pastor and some other guys admonished you to? Why didn't they talk some senses into her... It's obvious Okafor's Law took its effect. You shouldn't have been a Simp to 'your wife' by allowing her display such acts of immorality before you.


As a unmarried dude, what I learnt from this ordeal is that if you are not marrying a virgin make sure your wife to be has gotten over her ex in all forms from her mind.

You want your children back, this I understand.

But you longing to have your wife back after she has delivered a baby for the customs officer shows you are a SIMPLE lunatic.

Are you even sure the four older kids are yours?

after4:
that guy na craze 2.0

NwaAmaikpe:




Your wife is not under the spell of any charm.
Rather it is you who is under the spell of a charm called foolishness.

How can you?
No, how can you?
Well, I just can't.

A woman disrespects the integrity of your manhood by moving in with another man, pulverizes the sanctity of your marriage by spreading her legs wide for him so he can further demolish the foundation of the love you two once shared with the ferrocious poundings of his preek and you still want it salvaged?

It doesn't end there, she gets pregnant for this vagabond not because she needs children but because she is so proud of their adulterous affair that she needs a tangible evidence to show the world.

And you, who is neck deep in the shittiest mess of a potential bad bank debt, rather than take advantage of your solitary state to rechart your life, count your losses and come out stronger like a preek after the first ejaculation. You are here on a public forum soliciting pity while mouthing how badly you need a slut back.

Each time I heard you call her your 'wife', I cringed. God knows if you were anywhere close to me, I'd slap some teeth out of your mouth and hit some SIMPlicity out of you after which I'd press charges against you for not only being stupid but for being a bad example to other men.
One woman will look at you now and conclude that this is how stupid men are.

Your children do not deserve you.
I still cringe because this is the most pathetic case of iredeemable senselessness I've witnessed all day.

Infact, I'm done.
Over to Lalasticlala and the other elders.

You have never been this angry for all the times and years I have known this forum..

Please forgive the SIMPle husband. He is really a bad example of stu.pid men . One more thing, don't slap his teeth out of his mouth yet. He still needs them.

The most SIMPlest husband ever... Wow!

You can write petition and send it to commissioner of police in your area or even to the IGP. The petition should be about getting your children not your wife. I pray you overcome and come back stronger.

oseahumenb:
Pls how do report to the management of Customs. I need my children

Drop your number

oseahumenb:
Pls how do report to the management of Customs. I need my children

The Y in Your is total silence �

Our wife

oseahumenb:
About six months ago, I returned home from work and discovered that my wife and four children were no where to be found. I also noticed her that belongings and that of the children were missing.

I quickly dashed out of my flat and went to my neighbours to enquire of their whereabout. I was shocked to my bone marrows when they narrated to me how a man accompanied my wife to move out her belongings. When they tried to intrude the man warned them of serious consequences.

That was when it dawned on me that my wife whom I have caught severally on the phone discussing with her lover on the phone has finally done her worst.
On two occasions I caught her sneaking around with her phone, in the midnight I discovered an Sms that the so-called lover sent she was fast asleep . I cannot divulge the content here because it was disgusting to me at first.
I reported to the pastor and she was warned. Then the identity of the lover wasn't known to me. I just let it go, because I still needed the marriage for the sake of my four children.
However, I began to investigate without her knowing. Then I discovered that the secret lover was a custom officer, named Adeniyi Adesola, he was in Ibadan command. He is married with children.
One day he called my wife and I just could bear the insults, I confronted him on phone I warned him to stay away and reminded him that she was married.
Then he started abusing me and even threatened to kill me. He revealed to me that he knew my wife before I married her. He told me to backoff and let him always have access to her or he will kill me.
I reported the matter to the ekpan police station warri. The IPO who was a lady advised me to thread with caution and report to my family which I did.
I am from Edo State and my wife is from Ondo state. The custom officer is from Ekiti state. The custom officer, Adesola was intimidating me because I was not understanding their language.

I gave my wife everything she needed. I got a loan of 5m from a bank to set up a business for her. She squandered the money and there is nothing to show now in the shop. The bank has started moving in on me, I don't know what to do.

The custom officer I heard has kept my wife and children in Ibadan because his wife couldn't take it.
MY children are not in school and my wife just gave birth to a baby for the custom officer.
Meanwhile, she has not returned the bride price but she has delivered a baby for the customs officer.
Now I want the custom officer, Adeniyi Adesola to release my wife, Helen Bose and my children with immediate effect because he has charmed them.
Pls nairaland admins put this story on front page pls.. I need my children. They are not in school.

Is this true or you're just trying to tarnish the image of the custom guy in this faceless forum? If its true then you're mad, in fact you're more than mad, he should release your wife to you? What wife? So you go accept her if she come back to you? You really nor well, how're you sure those kids are for you? A lady that can move in with another man while married to you is who you are calling your wife, you really day craze, comon move on with your life, you nor thank God say she nor poison you so that she go day free to marry her lover? Mumu man

It is unfortunate! But to be fair on this we Nairalanders can't judge this case from just one account! i for one is suspecting alot of things might have gone wrong with your union,we can't rule out domestic violence and negligence,they say the truth is like a three edged sword,your side,her side and the truth...seek redress to get your kids back IF you can take care of them

hey man! don't let any words pull u down,
I understand very well how you feel.
four children isn't that easy to let go. please for the love and respect I have for married men , I beg u don't do anything stupid.
go and pay that loan back, if not u will not have ROM in your life.
that is the next line of action.
you will just kill yourself with it thinking, pls.

I know you love your kids.



by the way ROM means Rest Of Mind.
I love you bro.







remember this always .

any reasonable man out there must be prepared for eventuality.













let me give you a summary of my marriage.
After my traditional marriage with my heavily pregnant wife.
she opened up to me she had a four year old daughter to one lunatic ,who cowardly left her when she gave birth to the girl.




there is nothing I can do after all , most men didn't marry a Virgin as a wife.

I took the baby upon myself , gave her to my mom , I received hell of insults from both my mom and dad.

my joy today is that , that same girl is now in jss2 sponsored by my parent because she is very hard working girl. she has been with my parent for the past 10yrs .


my love here has given me to bouncing boys. I don't need a babby again I have one girl two boys.






let me take u back.
many year's ago the father of the girl called me to talk nonsense , the words I gave to him is enough for him to go hang himself.





i will b the father to my step daughter on her weeding day.


then that stupid can come and take her but he must receive seriousssssssssssssssssss beatings from agberosssss before I let her go partially because my parent are now used to her. my elder sister wants to do her weeding very soon and she is the flower girl.








do u know what I went through to convince my parent that I love my wife.





you must be prepared for anything .just think straight don't act foolish.







bye bye.

oseahumenb:
Pls how do report to the management of Customs. I need my children

Go to their zonal HQ and report the man

For the woman, please store regarding her as your wife she belongs to the custom officer now, you mentioned she had a baby for him already meaning they have been together for close or more than a year

For the kids, that you claiming I will advise you to save money for DNA maybe when you get the result you will know their father.

Oga, you collected 5m loans for your Ex-wife to start a business or scale up an existing business.

Some women are very stupid[color=#550000][/color]

Oga so you want your wife back? OK o. You will get her back after she has given birth to like ten children for him. But on a serious note you are the first Edo man I have seen who cares about a woman after she has given birth to his children. Other Edo men usually run and leave women with their children.

Cokahot:
Bro,just count your loss and move on..I k ow how it feels,u must have cried and be depressed. But don't see it as your fate,better days are coming. You might find it hard to move on ,but just live your life like it's golden,find someone else to channel.ypur love too Those kids of yours will come looking for you later in life. We way single,e get why. Yoruba womenast persons on earth to get married to. They can fuc k anything,both educated and illiterate, just have money and sabi fuc k. I have dated like 5 Yoruba women,3 igbo and 1 from aka ibom. Naija ladies are useless

You sound more depressed than the Op. What's wrong? Heart breaks?