It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wanting to be around her all the time. When you imagine your life without her. There's a physical pain in your chest.

That is a toxic life. And no woman should have that much power over a man. That is what the bible call giving your strength to a woman. It never ends well. Because women ultimately seek power, and if they can drain your energy they will, and they'll go look for another challenge. That is another energy to drain.

I know I will get a lot of who hurt you....bla bla
Because they have no superior arguments, just emotional sentiments to justify their weaknesses.

Thos who get it get it

Nuff said.

Mugu simp don drop quote,lol.

lexy20I4:
Mugu simp don drop quote,lol.

k

Them don do this one strong thing


Say whatever u like, all I know is that love is a beautiful thing and everyone deserves to be loved

Imbecilicsamuel:


Seek therapy.

k

Realmi:
Them don do this one strong thing


Say whatever u like, all I know is that love is a beautiful thing and everyone deserves to be loved

being loved is different from being in love. Love is an action word. Being in love is a feeling.
Some one can be in love with you without loving you and vice versa.
When God said husband should love their wives. Loving your wife means protection and provisioning. That is how a man shows love. Not these toxic dependency we call love where people stab and kill people they love.
Being in love is not sustainable and is drama upon drama, it's not functional.

Ever wonder why our grand parents arranged marriages seem to work and last longer than all these emotional in love marriages today. It's because they understand that feelings are not sustainable. Instead the man loved(by leading, protecting and providing) the wife arranged for him and she in turn submitted to his leadership.

czarr:
being loved is different from being in love. Love is an action word. Being in love is a feeling.
Some one can be in love with you without loving you and vice versa.
When God said husband should love their wives. Loving your wife means protection and provisioning. That is how a man shows love. Not these toxic dependency we call love where people stab and kill people they love.
Being in love is not sustainable and is drama upon drama, it's not functional.

Ever wonder why our grand parents arranged marriages seem to work and last longer than all these emotional in love marriages today. It's because they understand that feelings are not sustainable. Instead the man loved(by leading, protecting and providing) the wife arranged for him and she in turn submitted to his leadership.

So at the end of the day, what you are driving at is an understanding relationship where the woman submit to the man.
But if the man is in love, he will let the woman ride on him because of his emotions and give his individuality up because he loves the woman.

I dont think life works like that, we only live once so why just live a mundane life without excitement or feeling in love, what's the point of loving if you can't take risk.
Been in love is kind of an ecstasy feeling, so why deprive yourself of that, forget heartbreak not every relationship lead to that

SurvivorM:

So at the end of the day, what you are driving at is an understanding relationship where the woman submit to the man.
But if the man is in love, he will let the woman ride on him because of his emotions and give his individuality up because he loves the woman.

I dont think life works like that, we only live once so why just live a mundane life without excitement or feeling in love, what's the point of loving if you can't take risk.
Been in love is kind of an ecstasy feeling, so why deprive yourself of that, forget heartbreak not every relationship lead to that

Just because something is exciting and feels good doesn't mean it's healthy for you.
"You only live once" that's what drugs takers say until they become addicts...just because of the euphoria and dopamine bliss that comes with drug abuse doesn't mean it's good.
You know that people adopt unhealthy lifestyle after heart break? Do you know that people commit suicide after heart break? Why do we promote being in love and discourage drug abuse when they are the same thing.

Scientist found out that during brain imaging the area of the brain that lights when someone takes cocaine is the same area that lights up when someone sees the person they are in love with. Does that seem healthy to you? Developing a chemical dependency on another person just like a drug addict with a drug? It's no wonder being in love makes people do crazy things.
Go figure.

czarr:
It's not in a man's best interest to fall in love. Puts you in a weak position. Remain unattached e get why. The bible says not to give your strength (heart) to a woman e get why. Sampson gave his strength. David gave his strength. Solomon also gave his strength and they led him to worship idols .See the result?

Women are better suited to handle the being in love feeling because they are already emotional creatures by nature. As a man if you attempt to go into that emotional waters with them because of the societal condition through love movies and books and you ignore the stoic nature of our fore fathers because you think you are wiser and more advanced. You'll pay for it.

Don't attempt to swim in the waters of emotions and feelings with a woman because you will drown. Women are biologically wired to move on and bond with another man faster because of their biological clock.

Don't set your self up. Don't fall in love as a man. You can be in like. How do you know you are in like. When you enjoy the value a woman brings to you. When you find it easy to punish her bad behaviour. but you know that if she leaves today. You won't loose yourself and your heart won't be scattered.

How do you know you are in love. When you loose a part of you when she leaves. It's like she completes you. You have a chemical dependency on a woman. Like a drug you find yourself wantin......

Nuff said.

It is what it is, but pple won't hear word. I learnt things d hard way, ....and it's an education i feel obliged to pass on to my fellow men... Let experience teach them.

Nuff said my brother... Nuff said.

No woman on earth can love a man, no man on earth can love a woman...

Can a man die for a woman NO..

Can a woman die for a man No..


Love is weakness..
Sh!!t is being sugarcoated by the society to blindfold niggas especially..