newdawn2017:
which submissive nonsense talk us that? Dis is d same "submissive " that toxic patriarchal African men re using to cheat, oppress & enslave their wives. That such an unfortunate woman has no say, always fearful looking at her husbands face for signs of rage, intimidation or approval. Its the man that will be submissive dis time. Nonsense!

Don't worry...u will end up like her ...na dat time ur eye go clear

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Inasmuch as there are scams everywhere but I can assure you that we still have real and trusted African men who will wish to marry an African American based on true love


One of the major reason for scams in this aspect is because the lady might be too choosy and wishing for a good-looking bad guy who will just play to the gallery in order to get what he wants from her.

There are still good guys on the social media and my advice is for you to check them out and follow them slowly without telling them who you are or your motive. You can as well hide your identity just to be sure.

TaminaliaCatapa:
I don’t blame her. If not for the bad leaders in Africa, why should any African man think of marrying an African American who is probably:

1. Lazy to work and on various government schemes like EBT, unemployment

2. Very rude, impatient and dangerous (could burn ur car, docs or even use a firearm on you)

3. Loves eating only cheese, and other unhealthy “burgers”, they consider our spicy goat/catfish peppersoup as nasty.

4. Can not cook shit.

5. Will call the police on you at will and may land a child support case on your head.

6. Again very rude and have no culture, hence will disrespect your gentle parents.



If u don’t wanna kill your parents, don’t marry an African American.


I’d rather marry from another African country than settle with any African American.

Not sorry!

The ignorance is real.
Clearly you’ve never met an African American in real life. The stereotypes and other bullshit you said up there proves that all of your knowledge comes from television and hearsay.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

There are very many good and great African-American women, but truth is many of them, especially the latest generation is full of wayward, untamed and morally bankrupt ones

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

I am here nah

Omoh, thread opened at 2:50 AM today and it’s already at eleven pages because of 'marriage', well you’ve got your answer right there. Send dem to NL but tell them to stay away from the politics section!

People are looking for love o.

Nurses have among the highest non married rates.

ednut1:
Unless you are a 500 pounder I don’t believe this shit

After telling our girls that marriage is a scam abi...? Na to come marry us away bá...? Tufiakwa. Marrying an American nurse for that matter...? Ask African men that trained their spouses through nursing schools in the US. Their experience no sweet o.

Pakwel:

Guy. You see my name abi ? (Pakwel) it only takes a bottle of rum and weed to forget a woman. A wise move for any Nigerian. Buy houses for Africa. Buy things in case she Bleep up. You no loose. I love my girl oh. But I ready for any mugu way won use me play

Talking about buying a house in Africa.

God bless me small I get my own personal house somewhere in Naija oo.


Guess wetin my woman dey advice me... Say make I sell my property. Say na small thing. Say when I reach America, I go make money take buy double that one. I just dey reason for my mind say this one think say she catch mugu.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

I will marry you, provided you meet my requirements (after we must have dated of course)
And I don’t need your money,

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Picture of the lady pls?

Genotype?

superCleanworks:


so from where you are you can detect anger? you must have super powers.
you better use this your special power and go back too english class, it will help you.

abeg carry your illiteracy problems elsewhere. it is not my fault that you can not read.

Mr. Professor. What you are writing is not exactly one highly intellectual piece like that. Its just your opinion which anyone with basic literacy skills and a basic command of english can understand. It doesnt take a genius to see the anger in your posts. Your resort to name calling for no reason just shows you are emotionally immature and incapable of having a conversation with people with different opinions from yours.

E be like say African woman abroad run you Street.

womenareapez:
when I was in Canada way back then, (dating 2018) alot of African women are coming my way to the extent of proposing and striking a deal if I put a ring or even date them

Even when refusals them started planning evils way to deal with me

Why will I come to abroad to look for a Africa woman to marry when a lot of Asians, white Latina are all chasing you and want you to date them with overdose of love
Which sense is it for me to follow my wicked female black species with bipolar mental disorders

Don't let anybody decieve you that Africa America women are good! They are way useless and full of depression with special gifts of mental illness

Is only in Nigeria that men are chasing those black piece of shiit of a female, and as soon as them leave this country to abroad! No men will always come there way not talk less of to Strike a convo with that black female species.
THIS IS THE FIRST STAGE OF DEPRESSION.

The second stage is when for more than 8month them wont recognise the world "hi" because no men will come there way and say hi. And once they mistakenly heard the world "hi" them come into panick attack

THIRD STAGE OF DEPRESSION: you start seeing them on YouTube posting rubbish in hope for a contact to contact them or ask for a date. And the good part is that them won see!

FORTH STAGE OF DEPRESSION: careful for this stage is one of the most dangerous stage. They will finally have the courage to approach after they have gotten tired of Thier dildos and intimacy gadget! Them fantasize the torch and smell of men after them haven't seen men approaching them for more than 1yr. Hence developing courage to approach men and when them do, they got a lovely rejection and hence developed the feminist trait. black women of this stage of depression will do everything in their means to implicate you or pull you down just because you reject there approach.

FIFTH AND FINAL STAGE OF DEPRESSION: this is a typical example of the op and what she is facing right now. Them started importing men from there route of origin (Africa especially Nigeria men).
Them will come down to Africa or seek the attention of there family members to look for a simpsgood man for them to marry after they have damage there life. And most of them got a child to whome they have been collecting child support from

Be wise and dont fall prey to those black species.

Is always better to marry a fat white woman than to marry a black woman.

THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!

superCleanworks:


so just because a place called AMERICA exists, then we no longer have young men who have good business or family wealth or great paying jobs and travel for business, holidays and visits in africa again that they have all turned to gold diggers? they have all turned to visa scavengers? So young African men can no longer go to the embassy and get a visa for themselves and pay for flight? Oga speak for yourself and quit the stinking generalization.
Just because you are a gold digger that trembles and sweat whenever he hears AMERICA does not make all the same. learn how to use the word called SOME.

well you are right but 99% of Nigerian men will take the risk and marry an African American woman because of the opportunity involved, tell her to come and live in Nigeria with you and watch her true reaction,for your information I am not a gold digger but a grandfather with a son that is planning to relocate aborad soon,so you can pass your opinions without insults.

You and who is we?

You wan marry woman abi you wan marry slave?

yemmit90:


I dont think any African American female has what it takes to marry a typical African man. Total submission is one of the things we take serious in marriage in Africa, and I dont thing any of you ladies can do that in the name of marriage.

To avoid story that touched, please marry your kind over there.

good day i would like to know you in person to see you and for you to see me so that i would know if i like you am 28yrs from Enugu state

1stGenAmerican:


Lies.

Well, I think his opinion must have informed by the movies and news we see everyday about African American women.

I think the issue here is the divergent orientation the average African man and African American women has. If it's not understood by the people involved, their will almost likely to be friction but if it's well understood, the couple will manage it well....

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Is this Mary Ola?

I am 30 years old, looks young and handsome
Athletic body

successful Material engineer| computer scientist working for an IT firm here in Nigeria.
interest in chats involving: Astronomy, Religion, History, science, and technology, Love, poems

If you're serious, could you work done months in an African country? Ghana, Kenya, maybe even Nigeria?

I'm sure your skills as an American trained nurse would be greatly appreciated. Perhaps some agency (USAID) could pay you as well.

There are stories of foreigners working in Africa or the middle East, that eventually fall in love with someone there. Made to feel like a whole woman, not just a fleshlight (like some in America act).

Again, if this is not a fake post.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

NurseMaryUSA:
With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us.

Just come to Africa and select your spec

Pakwel:

Guy. It's not all of them oh. My fiance nah American. I sent her morter and pistol .last two months. This girl dey cook African food like crazy. She dey do any food you like

is she good in bed

Hey NurseMary USA
If I were to guess you’re a nurse whose middle name is mary and are living in either Jersey or Atlanta ( just trying out my mentalist skills here)

Of course there are many African men who are interested in AA women. But for you I would advice you go through someone.
You need someone who is of a certain age and can quickly adapt to the changes one will face in America. Visiting a place and reading the news is different than actually living and partaking in the daily grind on the ground.
So I would suggest you reach out to ling and lamb on youtube. Lamb still has some people on ground and might be able to vouch for the authenticity of such a fellow.
There are hundreds of hard working Nigerians in diaspora would you could befriend and they would gladly assist you on your search.
What am I saying - you need a go between.
But one thing you need to set are expectations.
What are your expectations of me and what are your expectations of him. So that you are not overwhelmed or disappointed.
Come to think of it. - there was a post here a few weeks ago about a nurse ( man) trying to find a wife. I’ll post the link here.

VEHINTOLAR:


You're ready,really ? You have "a good paying job" and you aren't a liability,so why haven't you made this decision before now ? Why does it seem like you are one of these scammers the lady complained about ? This is because I just wonder how it's so convenient for you to be so "ready" to jump into a marriage with a complete stranger ? You must really think that you're smart !

Smh....why so much headache bro? If you must know I work with one of the multinational oil companies in port Harcourt.you talked about jumping into marriage with a stranger...lol.marriage is about luck and finding someone who share same values and beliefs with you.you can date someone for all through your life and yet no peace of mind while in marriage with him/her . having a successful marriage is not a function of how long you have known someone.so relax and take a chilled water .

iamdapsyj:


Well, I think his opinion must have informed by the movies and news we see everyday about African American women.

I think the issue here is the divergent orientation the average African man and African American women has. If it's not understood by the people involved, their will almost likely to be friction but if it's well understood, the couple will manage it well....

Just like I thought, an opinion formed about millions of AA women by watching tv. I don’t know what the hell News he is watching because an African-American woman was just appointed as a judge in the highest court in America.
My profile picture makes it obvious that I’m half African American and half Nigerian. I don’t know any African Americans who even come close to fitting those stupid stereotypes, especially the one about eating only cheese and burgers and not knowing how to cook.

@khiaa
Thought you said Nigerian men are useless, how come y’all african Americans want to f*ck with us so bad?

[quote author=NurseMaryUSA post=112622758]With so many scams going on how can an African American female find a serious African man to marry. It doesn't seem like many African men are interested in marrying us. [/quote

I'm interested baby, this is my number +2348082479718 you can WhatsApp too. Ni problem on my side. Take care

cooooooks:
E be like say African woman abroad run you Street.

Lies ! Common man.
You need to understand what a AA goes through on a daily basis does not compare to what those white ladies face. So a AA woman is guarded on all fronts cause she doesn’t want a man , any man to take away what she’s earned and worked hard for. I have nothing against white women but if you truly want a strong black woman and can pierce her amour- dude they are loyal like any other group. They just want love like the next white lady.
When you date white lady - it’s just sex that’s it but black women are wired a bit differently- they often don’t want the one night stand but a bit more commitment.

What of guys nigerian guys like us that dreamt of marrying Rihanna since childhood.
There are 2 type of foreign women. The hot tempered and the playful.
I stayed single for almost my entire teen years cuz i thought by now i for don move. Disappointment kill my spirit. Cuz ehn these Naija babes are always too serious. Too much African magic.
Its a pity yahoo boys have not only deminished chance of settling with a SHE from the other side. These days many pose as foreigners. I had a childhood friend that his mom is Canadian, Papa na afonja. We were so close. They guy didn't see Canada till he was 23 but the joy of having a funny mom was so cool. I want that too for myself.

MrBrownJay1:
if you aint in Nigeria, chances are it will be very difficult to find a genuine man online. 99.99999% will want to be with you, simply as a way out of Africa, and will be ready to tell you the world even though they know absolutely NOTHING about you (as seen on this thread).

but hey, remember, the romance scam can also go the other way, with plenty of people with fake account pretending to be from the US.

I’m almost sure this is a scam/troll post because African-American women don’t have any trouble attracting Nigerian men here in the US, especially first generation Nigerian-Americans.

VULCAN:
You are ready to marry someone you haven't even seen her picture?

Yet you claim you have a good job and are not a liability.

Lollz. Bro. It's only yourself you are fooling.

Readiness is a state of the mind.i'm ready means am emotionally, mentally and financially ready for marriage.

Colour does not matter.

Wakanda colourism be this?

rickleye:


Lies ! Common man.
You need to understand what a AA goes through on a daily basis does not compare to what those white ladies face. So a AA woman is guarded on all fronts cause she doesn’t want a man , any man to take away what she’s earned and worked hard for. I have nothing against white women but if you truly want a strong black woman and can pierce her amour- dude they are loyal like any other group. They just want love like the next white lady.
When you date white lady - it’s just sex that’s it but black women are wired a bit differently- they often don’t want the one night stand but a bit more commitment.