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Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by mamagee3(f): 1:52pm On May 13, 2022
Hi all, my mother lives in a 4 bedroom house and the thing is rent has increased after the covid pandemic here in the United States but she wants me out when she knows that I am still in grad school...

And I'm scared of living alone and being lonely? So do you think my mother is being rationale in wanting me out instead of letting me stay since she has extra rooms?
Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by ramaju: 2:12pm On May 13, 2022
You will at a time leave your parent's home to start yours. Why not see this as opportunity to start early and master it. Perhaps it will lead to finding your partner if you don't have one already and the loneliness will be gone. By the way, who says you can't be lonely in your mother's house?

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by Nazgul: 2:35pm On May 13, 2022
Parents and roommates would want you out of their house when you become a liability to them. Eating free food, enjoying the basic amenities in the house, dodging rent, contributing absolutely nothing in return for the comfort you're enjoying... etc.

If you really want to stay there because you're not comfortable with living alone, then pay next months rent (over there rent is per month) and stock the refrigerator with groceries, if possible pay the gas and electricity bill as well. Do this and believe me, your mom would be the one begging you to stay, because you're no longer a liability but an asset to her.

Good luck.

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by Baffupdrizz(m): 2:43pm On May 13, 2022
Until when is the deadline that you are allowed to stay?
Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by helinues: 3:18pm On May 13, 2022
When you are becoming a really big liability and refused to do something about it..

Able body should be a burden to others
Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by mamagee3(f): 3:33pm On May 13, 2022
helinues:
When you are becoming a really big liability and refused to do something about it..

Able body should be a burden to others
Nazgul:
Parents and roommates would want you out of their house when you become a liability to them. Eating free food, enjoying the basic amenities in the house, dodging rent, contributing absolutely nothing in return for the comfort you're enjoying... etc.

If you really want to stay there because you're not comfortable with living alone, then pay next months rent (over there rent is per month) and stock the refrigerator with groceries, if possible pay the gas and electricity bill as well. Do this and believe me, your mom would be the one begging you to stay, because you're no longer a liability but an asset to her.

Good luck.
I work and buy my own food and my other bills

I just live in her house so as not to pay rent.
Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by helinues: 3:37pm On May 13, 2022
mamagee3:


I work and buy my own food and my other bills

I just live in her house so as not to pay rent.

You work and still don't want to be responsible for your own bill?

Listen to yourself again

Btw, are you residing in United state of Anambra abi na Abia? They are both USA as well

grin cheesy

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by Boogyman557: 3:50pm On May 13, 2022
Holly Gram cool Na waiting men de face be dis..


E reach ur turn, E become problem!


Make Una de respect men ooo both big n small, we de try!


To be a man is not a day job!


LITE UP my WEED in peace


WTF MAN!

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by Nazgul: 4:39pm On May 13, 2022
mamagee3:


I work and buy my own food and my other bills

I just live in her house so as not to pay rent.
You're not getting it. She's asking you to leave because of the high rent. Meaning she can still afford to pay the rent but asked you to leave cos she won't be paying such a high amount while you sit back and enjoy her free accommodation.

Divide the amount of the rent and give her your own part of the money and she won't trouble you anymore.

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by franklingud(m): 5:39pm On May 13, 2022
Go and marry.

That's the signal she's sending....

Am available if you are.

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Re: Is It Okay For My Mother To Want Me Out Of Her House When She Lives Alone? by FinanceHub: 7:43pm On May 13, 2022
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