I have known her for 3yrs+ and she's been wonderful to me.

Last year October she got pregnant for me and told me about it but I insisted since she's still in her 3rd yr in school she should get the baby out but she refused. Her reason for refusing is that she's afraid of the consequences and so she decides to keep the baby but will not tell any of her parents until she's gives birth and possibly finish school.

She's 8 mnths gone now.

But yesterday, her mum was called by one of her supposed friends and was told that her daughter is 8mths pregy.

The mum called her and asked her but she denied it. But on further persuasion and having seen that the mum will confront the girl that told her, she decided to open up to mum.

When asked, she told the mum (who already knew me) that I was responsible. That means she was afraid the mum will disown her and her dad who stays in Germany Will abandon her if they had known.

The mum called me and said alot.

Up till then, the mum thought the daughter was in school. So she told her that she will be coming to visit her in school to know how she's doing. To which my girl agreed but on a second thought, she decided to open up and tell her mum that she's at my place.

The Mum disconnected the call.

This morning, her maternal uncle called me and asked I should bring her back to her mum.

I am sincerely fixed now.

My babe is crying her eyes out. I have contacted My mum and uncles too..

My babe is afraid the dad will abandon her, her academics will end, she has disappointed her family and the rest.

Abeg what's the best way to follow this matter?

We wanted to hide the child till she's done with school, untill I come to do all marriage rites and then bring out the child (these were her ideas though together with my mum).

I had known this may happen but both she and my mum prevailed over me till I agreed.

I am really disturbed.

I am

Congratulation chairman in advance, because one thing is for sure, you are now a father. I am happy for you, remain us. Just be calm with her parents, it is the initial gragra. Make sure that girl complete her studies no matter come what.

May oir children not disappoint us..

Parent will use hard earned money to send children to school only for these children to go and be holding burglary in one person's house collecting penís....

But Women...wait....what do we guys say to you that make you throw caution and all your home training away?? Spreading leg like rumour

You dont pity your parents...you dont care about your future.... na you go carry the belle or go lie down for abortion clinic to face near death experience.. the guy just dey on him own almost like nothing happened...

Witnesstony28:
I have known her for 3yrs+ and she's been wonderful to me.

Last year October she got pregnant for me and told me about it but I insisted since she's still in her 3rd yr in school she should get the baby out but she refused. Her reason for refusing is that she's afraid of the consequences and so she decides to keep the baby but will not tell any of her parents until she's gives birth and possibly finish school.

She's 8 mnths gone now.

But yesterday, her mum was called by one of her supposed friends and was told that her daughter is 8mths pregy.

The mum called her and asked her but she denied it. But on further persuasion and having seen that the mum will confront the girl that told her, she decided to open up to mum.

When asked, she told the mum (who already knew me) that I was responsible. That means she was afraid the mum will disown her and her dad who stays in Germany Will abandon her if they had known.

The mum called me and said alot.

Up till then, the mum thought the daughter was in school. So she told her that she will be coming to visit her in school to know how she's doing. To which my girl agreed but on a second thought, she decided to open up and tell her mum that she's at my place.

The Mum disconnected the call.

This morning, her maternal uncle called me and asked I should bring her back to her mum.

I am sincerely fixed now.

My babe is crying her eyes out. I have contacted My mum and uncles too..

My babe is afraid the dad will abandon her, her academics will end, she has disappointed her family and the rest.

Abeg what's the best way to follow this matter?

We wanted to hide the child till she's done with school, untill I come to do all marriage rites and then bring out the child (these were her ideas though together with my mum).

I had known this may happen but both she and my mum prevailed over me till I agreed.

I am really disturbed.

I am

This phase will pass. You seem to love her. For your girl's people,keep calm apologize for whatever disappointed you both have caused them and let them know that you love their daughter and will do right by her and keep to your words. Soon it will be a thing of the past and you will both look back and laugh.

Thanks so much for the encouraging words

you have to take their daughter to them as they have demanded.
the deed has been done already.
tell your family about the demand of her people.
if possible, your mum and one or two of your uncles should go with you to the girl's mum.
you must be brave and ready to face whatever is thrown at you.

congrats on your marriage and child

Witnesstony28:
Thanks so much for the encouraging words

concealing it from her family was not a smart idea bro....what if she suffered any serious complication during childbirth that endagered her health?

The current situation is bad, visit in person with your family and apologise profoundly.

You not only disrespected her family by attempting this without their knowledge, you took a big gamble

Congrats man! Sharp shooter, e nor easy to score goal.

It's just a tough phase bro

Everything will be fine....

Oga calm down jare, na ordinary belle u dey fear like dis? What if d girl die for your hand, waiting u go cum do?
Though two of una really bleeped up, hiding such a thing from d girl's parents is damn bad and evil.
Wait ohhhh, women get mind ohhhhhh, imagine say d girl wan hide am from en mama for 9 good months or even years, fear daughters of eve, I repeat fear daughters of eve.

A very very tough place you are bro, man up, face the parents,tell them your plans, everything is going to be fine

Who is kind enough as to summarize what this mf typed up there? E too long and local man no geh strength.