Right now, my life is out of control. I have not been in a relationship for a long time. This is because I was done with casual dating and I wanted the next woman I date, to become my wife. I have been very careful and selective with women. This is a long story but let me try and summarize.
My friend and I met a very attractive woman where we were posted to serve, Sara. She was the P.A to one of the bosses in the company. She looked like an angel, very pretty and men used to ogle her. She was a social butterfly too. A bad girl, there were always rumors of Sara sleeping with married men in the company. Ope, my friend was a corpers fellowship coordinator back then and he invited Sara for fellowship but she always declined.
I don’t know how destiny played this one, Ope kept inviting her until one day she accepted. You need to see how happy Ope was. He was even more excited cos Sara began to attend fellowship more. She gave her life to Christ, everyone was watching. Ope and Sara suddenly became very close.
Everyone found it strange that this kind of girl will suddenly change and before you knew it, she is now a Jesus girl. Ope was clearly smitten by Sara’s beauty. After service year, they remained in touch and from what I gathered, they began to date too. Ope told me he wanted to marry Sara cos he loves her alot and she loves him too. Bro Ope fell into temptation and started sleeping with Sara.
When Sara got pregnant, they had to get married. They were believers, no permission for abortion. It was a shotgun wedding. They were both not ready financially but they had to get married to avoid disgrace from getting married as believers. Ope managed to secure a contract job but that did not make things easy for them. They were clearly having financial issues.
Hmmm, money can out your relationship under a test. These two people even though loved themselves so much, you could see that they were struggling. After the baby came, things became more intense especially because Sara could not keep her job during her pregnancy. At some point, Ope said he found out that God was calling him into full ministry, so he quit his job to start up a church.
Friends and family did not rest cos we were always trying to support this young couple with money or gifts to survive. Things became worse during pandemic. Ope’s young ministry had not kicked off very well. The wife was unemployed. They began to have arguments. Sara began to regret marrying Ope. Sara started cheating on Ope with her former sugar daddies.
It was everyday settling of fight for these two. Sara eventually gave up. She filed for a divorce and moved out of the marriage. My friend was heartbroken but no amount of pleading was going to bring Sara back. She was tired of the suffering. Their divorce was finalized in April 2021. Sara moved on fast, she got married to a rich guy in June 2021.
My friend Ope moved in temporarily with me until he had to find a job, cos he was so miserable, the ministry thing was not working out as he planned. To an extent, things began to change for him. His new workplace did him good. At least, he was getting regular income now.
I discovered that Sara and Ope started hooking up again all in the pretense of co-parenting their daughter. I don’t blame Ope….Sara is fvkk!ng hot. So, Sara would bring their daughter to spend weekend with Ope but she and Ope would end up fvkk!ng. I asked my friend why he was allowing himself to be dragged back to Sara, he was like, you won’t understand it my friend, Sara is not a woman any man can forget easily. He said he has sworn to work hard, get rich and marry Sara back again.
Sara, a married woman, is sleeping with her ex husband, my friend. I fear women and money. Obviously, she likes Ope but the money is the problem. She cannot stay with a broke man. Ope moved into his apartment in December last year and I was happy that they had moved their foolishness out of my apartment.
On January 1st this year, Sara called me,
She was crying. She said she and her husband had a fight and he beat her. She called me because she was ashamed to tell Ope. I asked her to leave the house immediately cos I was worried for her safety. I asked her to come to my place so we can talk and see what can be done.
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