virginprincess:
Like serious some ladies are the cause of their problems,you are with a guy 1,2,3yrs nothing is happening,and you are still there, doing what? honestly many ladies need to wise up.

Controller.

virginprincess:
Most men are wicked and heartless,wasted 5yrs of someones life

You mean women are stupid for letting guys "waste their time". Because you know you can break up with a serious/unserious guy at anytime you want - with/without any reason. So why didn't she take that option ?

, i can't be in a relationship with a guy more than 1yr if i see than that relationship is taking us nowhere i move to the next avaliable person,i got no time for rubbish.

1 year ? Then u will still come here to cry after break up.
In the first 3 months you should be discussing marriage, 6 months maybe, even that's a stretch.

You may scoff at me, but when a man is ready, he's ready and you'll know it.

Kaiair:

Nawaoh, una dey try sha, how una dey manage stay with only one person for years sef me after like 2 months my body go dey do me lyk say I dey inside prison

i dey find serious relationship
My eyes don clear

Nazgul:

You don't know anything about their relationship either, so stop making excuses, you haven't heard the man's side of the story, so why suddenly take the side of the woman.

No man would wake up and ditch a responsible girl he has been with for 5 years for her friend.

I can confidently tell you that there's clearly a secret lifestyle she had while dating the guy that her friend revealed to him which he confirmed and dumped her.... could be runs, sex with another guy, party sex, abortion for another guy...etc. That's a much better explanation as to why he moved on with her friend. Her friend knows everything about her and used it against her to get her guy for herself.

The guy isn't to blame here, cos for him to dump her after 5 years, it means that whatever information the friend told him about his girl was the pure truth which she herself couldn't deny that's why she sat on the step singing and refusing to state the cause of the breakup.

Note: I'm not making excuses for anyone, I'm only being logical.

I haven’t taken anyone’s side, I am only going with the story I read. You are the one making up scenarios and excuses.

Since you know so much about their story and all guys are saints.
No problem bros.

virginprincess:
Most men are wicked and heartless,wasted 5yrs of someones life, i can't be in a relationship with a guy more than 1yr,if i see than that relationship is taking us nowhere i move to the next avaliable person,i got no time for rubbish.

u keep moving and increasing your penile mileage

Bobmarie:
I haven’t taken anyone’s side, I am only going with the story I read. You are the one making up scenarios and excuses.

Since you know so much about their story and all guys are saints.
No problem bros.

You clearly didn't read and understood what I wrote, you just hit the reply button because you were mentioned. If you read and understood my post, your last bolded paragraph wouldn't have been necessary. Cos I made it clear in the last paragraph of my previous post that I'm only being logical based on the story I read.

virginprincess:
That is why i tell ladies to subscribe to no sex before marriage so that they will be no emotion attachment involve.

No lady who had sex before can cope with a no sex relationship except the guy is sexual unattractive and more so maybe she is knacking her ex, keeping the simp as husband.

It's hard to see such a woman who can stay off sex for 6months in a serious relationship. At the 6thmonth, she must fvck. If she can't fvk the guy she is dating, she will fvk an ex who is matured enof to keep quiet.

virginprincess:
Like serious some ladies are the cause of their problems,you are with a guy 1,2,3yrs nothing is happening,and you are still there, doing what? honestly many ladies need to wise up.

Good words, but when was the last time your kind ever listened ? It's all emotions, and that's why u need us to help u detect the time wasting ones among us.
Whenever we leave things for you to decide, you end up this way.