DaniDani:
Some of the things you people posts here seeking advice shows that either your brain is not working, malfunctioning or you are incapable of taking personal decisions. Have you not read severally in this forum that you should avoid single mothers especially when you consider marriage in the relationship. Worse still, one without value and prone to crime! Hence you cannot take decision, I decide on your behalf to run as fast as your legs can carry you. I command you now therefore to send her packing immediately, block and delete her number right away before it becomes too late because your life is at stake.

HOMA777:
Sometime ago she jokingly said she wants me to be always happy that she is willing to make money ritual for us to grow from rich to wealthy. I didn't take it seriously until recently she have been emphasizing the comment money ritual which now scare me alot now. Even this morning on my way out she reminded me about it which I told her to hold on.
Elders on this forum I need your sincere advise on this situation please? She is a very good woman in all ramification so far that I know her.

Please help me with your opinions.
Thanks for reading.

Blue86:
Are you a Christian?
If yes, where is Jesus in all these.

And if no,
No true peace without the way, the truth, and the life

HOMA777:
To everyone who have commented, I truely appreciate. God bless you all amen.

In all candour, I didn't bring the issue here to paint my fiancee otherwise. Personally, I have been through real life situation that is very deep and I lost everything except my life that older men comments if they were in such situations they will run away or commit suicide but here I am today doing extra good.

My concern is her thinking of such remedy.
9-5job I earn six figure, daily perks plus side hustle is juicy too occasionally.

I am an Islamic faith, Early hours of today we talked about it again and this time i applied all that have been suggested here. I got a shocking response from her that, I have changed, i now think too much, I don't cuddle her like I do every night, I don't talk to her like I do before, I now choose to sleep alone in the other room, that she's concerned about how I have been reacting. Though we never stop eating together and she needs me to be Lively like I use to be. She just wants me to be happy all the time. That the ritual talk was a test to know how deep I care about her and everytime she mentions I will tell her to hold on, since I have shared alot of reasons to stay off such remedy she is not going to do or mention such again. She have also apologised.

Once again, double thank you to everyone.
Not all single mom are bad some with beautiful soul are still out there honestly.

HOMA777:
Good day to whoever that's reading.
Thank you for reading. hopefully, after reading your polite and sincere advise will be shared too?
I have been reading on this platform for awhile and I have been learning alot so far, God bless the founder of this platform and everyone that's a part of the solution team.

Here is my challenge, I have a fiancee (orphan & single mom) whom the ex-hubby still reach out to on the phone just to say hi to their daughter of 7years. I have met with the girl once at my residence.
So far in the affair everyday comes with happiness and fun and it's barely 5month old. We stay together. I work and she works occasionally for now, she's a pedicurist and also fix Wigs.
Lately, sales ain't meeting expected patronage plus my 9-5job is becoming unbearable due to toxic colleagues and superiors but God almighty have been showing me mercy despite various false allegations I came out victorious. Sometime last month I met with her family not biological parents who suggested we have our wedding before September 2022. The wedding is not a big deal for me or my family even though I haven't taken her home to any of my family. Sometime ago she jokingly said she wants me to be always happy that she is willing to make money ritual for us to grow from rich to wealthy. I didn't take it seriously until recently she have been emphasizing the comment money ritual which now scare me alot now. Even this morning on my way out she reminded me about it which I told her to hold on.
Elders on this forum I need your sincere advise on this situation please? She is a very good woman in all ramification so far that I know her.

Please help me with your opinions.
Thanks for reading.

HOMA777:
To everyone who have commented, I truely appreciate. God bless you all amen.

In all candour, I didn't bring the issue here to paint my fiancee otherwise. Personally, I have been through real life situation that is very deep and I lost everything except my life that older men comments if they were in such situations they will run away or commit suicide but here I am today doing extra good.

My concern is her thinking of such remedy.
9-5job I earn six figure, daily perks plus side hustle is juicy too occasionally.

I am an Islamic faith, Early hours of today we talked about it again and this time i applied all that have been suggested here. I got a shocking response from her that, I have changed, i now think too much, I don't cuddle her like I do every night, I don't talk to her like I do before, I now choose to sleep alone in the other room, that she's concerned about how I have been reacting. Though we never stop eating together and she needs me to be Lively like I use to be. She just wants me to be happy all the time. That the ritual talk was a test to know how deep I care about her and everytime she mentions I will tell her to hold on, since I have shared alot of reasons to stay off such remedy she is not going to do or mention such again. She have also apologised.

Once again, double thank you to everyone.
Not all single mom are bad some with beautiful soul are still out there honestly.

LadySarah:
And you are sure it isn't juju she's using on you?

HOMA777:


Hmmm, Rara ooo