I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

If you don't have anything reasonable to say, don't quote me or comment abeg......

Firstly where have you been?long while..
Well you are just an object to him and he feels so confident that you can't make a decision on your own..

Maybe you guys just love going intimate..but I'mma kinda sorry to tell ya..he ain't ready to build a strong relationship..he's just passing time with you..
Left for ya to make a decision..

u're desperate, no too dey expect ham to just rush marry you ,he go find something fishey and by the way bride price now dey fear niggas ...damn nigga I don go

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Typing..

Hmmm... Nairaland princess, you still dey naa..

Astrokid911:
u're desperate, no too dey expect ham to just rush marry you ,he go find something fishey and by the way bride price now dey fear niggas ...damn nigga I don go

Abeg I didn't ask him to marry me, at least he should act like a serious boyfriend... Marriage is far abeg...

run for your life ( he wount change for you ) so they wount post your poster on naira land

Ferrytech:
run for your life ( he wount change for you ) so they wount post your poster on naira land

gift0123:



Hmmm... Nairaland princess, you still dey naa..

I am done with my comment..
Kinda straight tho...

FERNANDEZISBACK:

I am done with my comment..
Kinda straight tho...

gift0123:

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Firstly where have you been?long while..
Well you are just an object to him and he feels so confident that you can't make a decision on your own..

Maybe you guys just love going intimate..but I'mma kinda sorry to tell ya..he ain't ready to build a strong relationship..he's just passing time with you..
Left for ya to make a decision..

Exactly what's going through my mind... Anyway I have being around but I went back to Facebook

gift0123:



Exactly what's going through my mind... Anyway I have being around but I went back to Facebook

Good..don't sweat it...go into a deep thought and boom take ya decision..
Here is a cake for you..

Astrokid911:
u're desperate, no too dey expect ham to just rush marry you ,he go find something fishey and by the way bride price now dey fear niggas ...damn nigga I don go

How's she desperate?

What's wrong with wanting a little more in a relationship?

Even if he's not serious, why throw it to her face like that?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Good..don't sweat it...go into a deep thought and boom take ya decision..
Here is a cake for you..

Nice touch.

I like that.

I don't mean to upset you, why are you difficult with guys?

Kind regards.

gift0123:


Abeg I didn't ask him to marry me, at least he should act like a serious boyfriend... Marriage is far abeg...

because you are 25, you think marriage is far? You better date someone who is serious and don't see yourself as too small to get married at 25 otherwise you might not get married until you 30.

You should be seeing seriousness in guy that can prompt you to marry by 27yrs at most. We'll take your time study guyyou want to marry and don't be desperate but don't roll with unserious fellow

Godada:





Nice touch.

I like that.

I don't mean to upset you, why are you difficult with guys?

Kind regards.

How am I difficult with guys?

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Good..don't sweat it...go into a deep thought and boom take ya decision..
Here is a cake for you..

Thanks, I hope the cake isnt too sugary babe

gift0123:


Thanks, I hope the cake isnt too sugary babe

It's a visual cake..just enjoy it..

FERNANDEZISBACK:


It's a visual cake..just enjoy it..

Okay
Meanwhile I just broke up with him, and I need a shoulder to cry on���� I alone knows the shit I have passed through in that relationship which I am keeping to myself...

Some broke but handsome men treat ladies like rags and ironically, these are the type of men they like not the ones that values them.

gift0123...what you really need to understand is that relationship is full of ups and downs,low and high.
You both have to be on the same page in a relationship for it to have a perfect head way even though there's no relationship with 100%perfection....
regarding to you breaking up with you guy,hope you are recuperating gradually

gift0123:
I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

Are u really sure that u are dating him or u are dating urself? Don't force urself.

FERNANDEZISBACK:


It's a visual cake..just enjoy it..

I just dugged your post and saw this thread you created.
Screenshot below
I'll create a thread and call you out.

gift0123:


Abeg I didn't ask him to marry me, at least he should act like a serious boyfriend... Marriage is far abeg...

it's because you allowed him saw your pant, after he slept with you he lost interest.
Na chop and clean mouth guy.
If you like insult me but I'm telling you the bitter truth.
He has another woman he's attention and seriousness is fixed on and not you.

gift0123:
I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

Hi. You're already 25. And why would you date a man who is not totally committed in the relationship?

Astrokid911:
u're desperate, no too dey expect ham to just rush marry you ,he go find something fishey and by the way bride price now dey fear niggas ...damn nigga I don go

You're wrong. I don't think she's desperate and she's not morally bankrupt.

gift0123:
I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

Everyone is gonna come here and ask you to break up with him as though it was that easy. Give him another 6 months, commit yourself wholly to the relationship, speak to him if he has valid reasons for not taking it serious. Some people have been through a lot and tend to hold back when it comes to loving as a means of protecting their heart. He's definitely gonna come around and if he doesn't, please set him free, you shouldn't beg a man to take you serious, you're a SPEC - that you should know

gift0123:
I need matured advice abeg, if possible married men and women only.

Make una help me put mouth for this matter abeg.....
I've got this my guy I love very much, its six months of dating him, although he annoys me most times.
When I brought up some issues concerning our relationship, I complained about some of the things he does that piss me off, I asked if he loves me and bla bla bla...
Anyway last week Friday he told me he likes me but he isn't taking the relationship serious...
This attitude of not taking our relationship serious is playing in my head often, I want to break up with him, or should I give him more time since it's just 6months...

I am 25 and my guy is in his 30's.

You must have cheated on him @ bolded prior to him making that statement, tell us the full story stop giving us half truths if you really want quality advice

TechBIogger:
I just dugged your post and saw this thread you created.
Screenshot below
I'll create a thread and call you out.

You no well this guy