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Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:04pm On Jun 05, 2022
Greetings peeps
I will be brief with my story.
I am a guy in my early twenties.
I am the only guy in my place of work with about 4 girls. Now the issue here is one of them (girls) who is a close friend of mine, she sees me as a mentor which I live upto has been acting all love up towards me which I find cool at first but, recently she confessed to me that she has a strong/passionate love for me.
She wants me to date her.

To be honest, I find it some how absurd and inappropriate considering the kind of reputation I posses at work. And to add it up, I don't really believe in true love, I wouldn't want to take her on a ride I know I don't know the road.

Considering the answers I got from the questions I asked her as regards to her feelings towards me, she really is in love with me.

Now the question is? Does true love exist? And if yes how do you know?
What do you advice I do??
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by BlaqJosh: 8:07pm On Jun 05, 2022
Yes, True love exit in the market

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Jmichael1(m): 8:08pm On Jun 05, 2022
U no see the other thread wen say there's notin lyk true love....

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Chaos14: 8:09pm On Jun 05, 2022
then how did you're parents give birth to you
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Jeon(f): 8:14pm On Jun 05, 2022
No it doesn't.

That was why that ugly BLOBFISH called Albertone is dinging on my mention. Because I don't find him attractive, as a result he hated himself because of low self esteem.

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Vinnie2000(m): 8:19pm On Jun 05, 2022
In Nigeria, true love existed only IN THE 1990's!

The advent of mobile phones and social media killed and buried it!

As for ur Office babe, she does NOT love you.
She is just lonely/romance-starved and looking for a guy to pass time with.

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Shapeaso: 8:30pm On Jun 05, 2022
Op, when a woman tells you that she's inlove with you, truly she is.

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Dorwadora(f): 8:32pm On Jun 05, 2022
Okay..... He no exist....
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Shapeaso: 8:33pm On Jun 05, 2022
Jeon:
No it doesn't.

That was why that ugly BLOBFISH called Albertone is dinging on my mention. Because I don't find him attractive, as a result he hated himself because of low self esteem.
But it's like you're queer. Right?

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Jeon(f): 8:35pm On Jun 05, 2022
Shapeaso:
But it's like you're queer. Right?

grin

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Truvelisback(m): 9:17pm On Jun 05, 2022
Shapeaso:
Op, when a woman tells you that she's inlove with you, truly she is.

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jun 05, 2022
True love exist o

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Stevyne: 10:12pm On Jun 05, 2022
Beatrice002:
True love exist o
Yea... Just like what I'm seeing in your face. grin grin

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Albertone(m): 10:28pm On Jun 05, 2022
Jeon:
No it doesn't.

That was why that ugly BLOBFISH called Albert-one is dinging on my mention. Because I don't find him attractive, as a result he hated himself because of low self esteem.

Love actually exists.
It is love with an Orangutan with a flat chest and ass that does not exist.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Albertone(m): 10:29pm On Jun 05, 2022
Stevyne:
Yea... Just like what I'm seeing in your face. grin grin

How does true love concern her face?
Men will always find excuse to simp sha.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Albertone(m): 10:30pm On Jun 05, 2022
Beatrice002:
True love exist o

I can deduce you're 20 this year. grin
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Jeon(f): 10:33pm On Jun 05, 2022
Albertone:


Love actually exists.
It is love with an Orangutan with a flat chest and ass that does not exist.

NO IT DOESN'T. IF NOT AN UGLY BOY WITH FLAT NOSE LIKE THAT OF A LION WOULD BE GONE ALONG AGO FOR MY MENTION, FOR NOT ACCEPTING HIM AS A STANDARD.

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Re: Does Love Really Exist? by HellVictorinho4(m): 10:58pm On Jun 05, 2022
SRichard1:
Greetings peeps
I will be brief with my story.
I am a guy in my early twenties.
I am the only guy in my place of work with about 4 girls. Now the issue here is one of them (girls) who is a close friend of mine, she sees me as a mentor which I live upto has been acting all love up towards me which I find cool at first but, recently she confessed to me that she has a strong/passionate love for me.
She wants me to date her.

To be honest, I find it some how absurd and inappropriate considering the kind of reputation I posses at work. And to add it up, I don't really believe in true love, I wouldn't want to take her on a ride I know I don't know the road.

Considering the answers I got from the questions I asked her as regards to her feelings towards me, she really is in love with me.

Now the question is? Does true love exist? And if yes how do you know?
What do you advice I do??

She loves you but you're still asking us after asking her till you affirmed it


Is it because you're not the one having the feelings

But how can you ever have sex without attraction towards you or towards another person by you or which one like this?


Love is the highest feeling of concern that you can have and it might involve sexual attraction occasionally towards someone or something.


In other words, you can like someone so much that you don't mind furrrking the person every week or month or year or as often as possible.

You can also like someone so much that you don't mind paying for everything needed by the person from the day that person was born till death(your child).



Another topic is whether you can have such feeling towards more than one person when it involves sexual attraction.

I think the answer is not the same for everyone.


In fact, I don't think you choose these feelings but I know you will bear the consequences if they are ever developed in you accidentally as certain physical and chemical issues take place inside and outside of you.

Actually, the consequences are either helpful or not .



You don't determine the consequences yourself.


Your environment including the people around you do that by simply doing this or that TO YOU or FOR YOU.


But you will still keep doing whatever you will be doing as your brain also masterminds your assessment of the situation or your expression of your state of mind or thinking or mental response to these things.



Some will never have anyone telling them I love you apart from one or two members of the family.


Neither will they have anything close to that.



Life ,which I define as something not just about humanity, doesn't make sense.



No reason why these things are like this
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jun 05, 2022
Albertone:


I can deduce you're 20 this year. grin



20 ko....10 ni
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by HellVictorinho4(m): 11:15pm On Jun 05, 2022
SRichard1:
Greetings peeps
I will be brief with my story.
I am a guy in my early twenties.
I am the only guy in my place of work with about 4 girls. Now the issue here is one of them (girls) who is a close friend of mine, she sees me as a mentor which I live upto has been acting all love up towards me which I find cool at first but, recently she confessed to me that she has a strong/passionate love for me.
She wants me to date her.

To be honest, I find it some how absurd and inappropriate considering the kind of reputation I posses at work. And to add it up, I don't really believe in true love, I wouldn't want to take her on a ride I know I don't know the road.

Considering the answers I got from the questions I asked her as regards to her feelings towards me, she really is in love with me.

Now the question is? Does true love
exist? And if yes how do you know? That do you advice I do??





Remember I said it's the highest feeling of concern you can have towards a specific person or thing.
Not a feeling that is always permanent.
In other words,it may be permanent.


It may not be permanent.



It's not you that determines certain things as a human being.



You can't choose the magnitude of something in you which wasn't developed as you planned it to be......THE FEELING.

Neither can you choose whether it's to be permanent or not.


You can only address or express it.


You address it by expressing it even if it's by locking yourself in a room for a hundred years.


Anyway, you bear the consequences of how you express these things which might be overwhelming.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Bahamas95(m): 12:00am On Jun 06, 2022
Jeon:
No it doesn't.

That was why that ugly BLOBFISH called Albertone is dinging on my mention. Because I don't find him attractive, as a result he hated himself because of low self esteem.
A comrade is toasting you now you're doing shakara for him......Las Las you'll end up in CARRY ME DEY GO crew.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Demigod22: 1:34am On Jun 06, 2022
True love exist, I know because I have felt it before. When you fall into that madness, she or he means everything to you, you are always imagining future with him or her, you just want to impress him or her, spend time with him or her, overlook his or her imperfections. You will think people want to steal him or her away from you.

Their happiness is your priority, you are ready to make sacrifices, to change and improve yourself. You pray for them, you misses them.

True love really exist but is rare and most times, taken for granted and unrequited.

Cynthia and Kadija come to my mind.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Stevyne: 6:07am On Jun 06, 2022
Albertone:


How does true love concern her face?
Men will always find excuse to simp sha.
cheesy grin grin
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Vinnie2000(m): 6:14am On Jun 06, 2022
Demigod22:
True love exist, I know because I have felt it before. When you fall into that madness, she or he means everything to you, you are always imagining future with him or her, you just want to impress him or her, spend time with him or her, overlook his or her imperfections. You will think people want to steal him or her away from you.

Their happiness is your priority, you are ready to make sacrifices, to change and improve yourself. You pray for them, you misses them.

True love really exist but is rare and most times, taken for granted and unrequited.

Cynthia and Kadija come to my mind.
Which year is this?
1998 or 2005??
Hope it's NOT those Primary sch classmates love u re referring to
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:06am On Jun 06, 2022
Chaos14:
then how did you're parents give birth to you

That's a totall different scenario. Besides people gets married for many reasons regardless of whether they are in love or not.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:09am On Jun 06, 2022
Vinnie2000:
In Nigeria, true love existed only IN THE 1990's!

The advent of mobile phones and social media killed and buried it!

As for ur Office babe, she does NOT love you.
She is just lonely/romance-starved and looking for a guy to pass time with.

Kk. Thanks for the ad...
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:13am On Jun 06, 2022
Shapeaso:
Op, when a woman tells you that she's inlove with you, truly she is.

Well.. I might agree with you partially...
Thanks for the info...
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:19am On Jun 06, 2022
Alright... I think I understand your point of view.. Thanks

HellVictorinho4:






Remember I said it's the highest feeling of concern you can have towards a specific person or thing.
Not a feeling that is always permanent.
In other words,it may be permanent.


It may not be permanent.



It's not you that determines certain things as a human being.



You can't choose the magnitude of something in you which wasn't developed as you planned it to be......THE FEELING.

Neither can you choose whether it's to be permanent or not.


You can only address or express it.


You address it by expressing it even if it's by locking yourself in a room for a hundred years.


Anyway, you bear the consequences of how you express these things which might be overwhelming.
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by SRichard1: 8:23am On Jun 06, 2022
Demigod22:
True love exist, I know because I have felt it before. When you fall into that madness, she or he means everything to you, you are always imagining future with him or her, you just want to impress him or her, spend time with him or her, overlook his or her imperfections. You will think people want to steal him or her away from you.

Their happiness is your priority, you are ready to make sacrifices, to change and improve yourself. You pray for them, you misses them.

True love really exist but is rare and most times, taken for granted and unrequited.

Cynthia and Kadija come to my mind.

Well more like what I am afraid of, someone loving me more than myself.

Thanks for letting me know
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Truvelisback(m): 8:23am On Jun 06, 2022
Beatrice002:
True love exist o
For where?

Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Shapeaso: 9:46am On Jun 06, 2022
Jeon:

grin
Yes or no undecided
Re: Does Love Really Exist? by Demigod22: 10:36am On Jun 06, 2022
SRichard1:


Well more like what I am afraid of, someone loving me more than myself.

Thanks for letting me know

Yes, you are right, true love is scary especially now that we don't see it often.
In school, I met Felicia whom I meant everything to, but guess what? I messed everything up. Most people can't manage true love.

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