why is my desire to have sex leading my life to destruction? whenever i sit down and think about my problems i see that they revolve around sex, why is sex the only thing i think about for years? i masturbate because of the desire to have sex, which i dont get because i dont have money and sex is monetize in this part of the world (nigeria) i masturbatate too much because of my high libido sometimes i ask god why did u created me like this. i read about negative effects of masturbation i want to stop but whenever i went two days without it i feel like im going to burst due to sexual urges. i started gambling to earn money nd spend it via sex in the process i lost the few savings i had now im pennyless nd stopped going to work cause i feel now that im graduate its time to earn with ease as i spent years doing menial jobs that r very hard. before i started gambling i have never think that gambling addiction will be worst than masturbation addiction, because of gambling addiction im losing my faith in god, i feel suicidal, i feel worthless and started smoking to calm myself after loses. you guys will be suprised if i tell u that my gambling addiction is fueled by my desire to have sex i know this because im always looking for money to carry girls and i dont have a job so i gamble. i always wonder why whenever i take my mind off sex and decide i will quit it for somedays i feel the desire to bet fade. i hate masturbation im afraid of it due to how people demonizes it but i know if i choose it over sex i can quit betting and have some savings
any tips on how to stop masturbation and gambling or should i just choose my poison to continue pmo and quit bet

Think of positive things. Thor two things you mentioned can't make you a successful man. Think creativity.

many men out there have been unable to tame the tiger in their pants.... you are not the first, and certainly wont be the last!

Non of those poisons are good for you bro. As for gambling, get something doing. For masturbation, try not to spend most of your time alone. Those are the times the urge to masturbate comes in.

Above all, set standard as a man. Define your goals and work towards them. Goals to look out for:

1. Financial goal
2. Health goal
3. Moral goal
4. Social goal
5. Etc

If you study the above well, you'll see that the need and discipline to achieve these goals will crush those vices challenging you (gambling and masturbation).

Hope this helps.

trueSeeker01:
why is my desire to have sex leading my life to destruction? whenever i sit down and think about my problems i see that they revolve around sex, why is sex the only thing i think about for years? i masturbate because of the desire to have sex, which i dont get because i dont have money and sex is monetize in this part of the world (nigeria) i masturbatate too much because of my high libido sometimes i ask god why did u created me like this. i read about negative effects of masturbation i want to stop but whenever i went two days without it i feel like im going to burst due to sexual urges. i started gambling to earn money nd spend it via sex in the process i lost the few savings i had now im pennyless nd stopped going to work cause i feel now that im graduate its time to earn with ease as i spent years doing menial jobs that r very hard. before i started gambling i have never think that gambling addiction will be worst than masturbation addiction, because of gambling addiction im losing my faith in god, i feel suicidal, i feel worthless and started smoking to calm myself after loses. you guys will be suprised if i tell u that my gambling addiction is fueled by my desire to have sex i know this because im always looking for money to carry girls and i dont have a job so i gamble. i always wonder why whenever i take my mind off sex and decide i will quit it for somedays i feel the desire to bet fade. i hate masturbation im afraid of it due to how people demonizes it but i know if i choose it over sex i can quit betting and have some savings
any tips on how to stop masturbation and gambling or should i just choose my poison to continue pmo and quit bet

You need a job. Organize your portfolio, brush up yourself bro

trueSeeker01:
why is my desire to have sex leading my life to destruction? whenever i sit down and think about my problems i see that they revolve around sex, why is sex the only thing i think about for years? i masturbate because of the desire to have sex, which i dont get because i dont have money and sex is monetize in this part of the world (nigeria) i masturbatate too much because of my high libido sometimes i ask god why did u created me like this. i read about negative effects of masturbation i want to stop but whenever i went two days without it i feel like im going to burst due to sexual urges. i started gambling to earn money nd spend it via sex in the process i lost the few savings i had now im pennyless nd stopped going to work cause i feel now that im graduate its time to earn with ease as i spent years doing menial jobs that r very hard. before i started gambling i have never think that gambling addiction will be worst than masturbation addiction, because of gambling addiction im losing my faith in god, i feel suicidal, i feel worthless and started smoking to calm myself after loses. you guys will be suprised if i tell u that my gambling addiction is fueled by my desire to have sex i know this because im always looking for money to carry girls and i dont have a job so i gamble. i always wonder why whenever i take my mind off sex and decide i will quit it for somedays i feel the desire to bet fade. i hate masturbation im afraid of it due to how people demonizes it but i know if i choose it over sex i can quit betting and have some savings
any tips on how to stop masturbation and gambling or should i just choose my poison to continue pmo and quit bet

Na only you waka cum my comrade. It's true many men like sex, but responsibilities that come with age makes them to decrease as your hormones also winds down... Could you be possessed by marine spirit? Come closer to God and make out time for fasting and prayers. Even if you don't fast much, snack on prayers daily and discipline your mind to stop thinking about sex too much.

Finally, get busy and stop being the devil's workshop. These should help..

Masturbate bro
Gambling is worse than masturbation
One thing must kill a man

You ain't alone brother, Jesus is beside u, pray about it and return back to him let him build u up

Guy, I will advice you also look for a sport filled faith church and dedicate your life again. Join them in their activities and always pray. Any time you have the huge for sex or masturbate, pray and pray. You don't need to shout just to suppress the spirit. I believe God will help you as well.