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Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 6:51pm On Jun 11, 2022
There is no denying the fact that Husband is the head of the house and he controls the wife, however, the fact still remain that the wife is in charge of the kitchen, although the husband can help, babies come to the world through the wife. The husband or the man child came to the world by the woman, so the woman is in charge.
Also, the woman breastfeeds the baby, the wife nurture these babies till they become adult.
So, who controls the world?

The wife.
The woman.

Or
The husband
The man.

Discuss?

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Cutehector(m): 6:52pm On Jun 11, 2022
You don get pvc?

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:17pm On Jun 11, 2022
Cutehector:
You don get pvc?

Good question

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Arkmanbuddy(m): 7:19pm On Jun 11, 2022
OP, your post is bogus. Control in what sense? Kindly explain.

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by bmdmix10: 7:22pm On Jun 11, 2022
U dey control us, see as u dey give instruction.


Discuss undecided

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Cutehector(m): 7:24pm On Jun 11, 2022
Arkmanbuddy:


Good question
because i know say na joblessness dey make person ask this kyn question.

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Jun 11, 2022
As jobless people una be for Nl, Op don find work for una.

See command: Discuss! cheesy

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by ZIMDRILL(m): 9:12pm On Jun 11, 2022
God2man2again:
There is no denying the fact that Husband is the head of the house and he controls the wife, however, the fact still remain that the wife is in charge of the kitchen, although the husband can help, babies come to the world through the wife. The husband or the man child came to the world by the woman, so the woman is in charge.
Also, the woman breastfeeds the baby, the wife nurture these babies till they become adult.
So, who controls the world?

The wife.
The woman.

Or
The husband
The man.

Discuss?

i think you are 1 overthinking 2 using the wrong
words

1 for a woman to became a mother she needs a ma to sleep with so we are equally important for the woman to be able to
cook in the kitchen 70% of woman need a men to be the provider (women =i need a man who can look after me ) (men = i need a woman to cook for me etc)

2 you dont to control your woman but she needs to understand your views, direction and adapt
for me control is a heavy word

3 most culture, religon and law are set up by man, eg mostly it is men who sit down a decide what downry to charge, women are still fighting for equall rights meaning most set ups favour men. There are more charity organisation to help girl/woman than men meaning the world thinks women are being disadavantaged/not in control

without bias we equally need each other to equally called a father or mother

i think you wanted to ask "who has more influence over a child the mother or father?"

Its hard to say who has more influence becoz of what one becames when we became adults, from my point of view if women have the most influence am sure most men would be better husbands than what we have in reality

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by ireneidiva(f): 9:42pm On Jun 11, 2022
God2man2again:
There is no denying the fact that Husband is the head of the house and he controls the wife, however, the fact still remain that the wife is in charge of the kitchen, although the husband can help, babies come to the world through the wife. The husband or the man child came to the world by the woman, so the woman is in charge.
Also, the woman breastfeeds the baby, the wife nurture these babies till they become adult.
So, who controls the world?

The wife.
The woman.

Or
The husband
The man.

Discuss?
Why must someone be in control? Una no dey tire?

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by odinson1(m): 10:03pm On Jun 11, 2022
ireneidiva:

Why must someone be in control? Una no dey tire?
Who pays the piper dictates the tune. If you don't want your husband to be the head, provide for your damn self

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by odinson1(m): 10:04pm On Jun 11, 2022
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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by Emma2Seconds: 10:06pm On Jun 11, 2022
The husband because you can't control what you don't have.
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 11:28pm On Jun 11, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


i think you are 1 overthinking 2 using the wrong
words

1 for a woman to became a mother he needs s men timo sleep with so we are equally important for the woman t be able to
cook in the kitchen 70% of woman need a men to be the provider (women =i need a man whi can look after me ) (men = i need a woman to cook for me etc)

2 you dont to control your woman but she needs to understand your views, direction and adapt for me control is a heavy word

3 most culture, religon and law are set up by man, eg mostly it is men who sit down a decide what downry to charge, women are still fighting for equall rights meaning most set ups favour men. There are more charity organisation to help girl/woman than men meaning the world thinks women are being disadavantaged/not in control

without bias we equally need each other to equally called a father or mother

i think you wanted to ask "who has more influence over a child the mother or father?"

Its hard to say who has more influence becoz of what one becames when we became adults, from my point of view if women have the most influence am sure most men would be better husbands than what we have in reality



Thank you.
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 11:39pm On Jun 11, 2022
Without women, there is no life, likewise, without men, no life. Both have the same influence over the other but the important thing is to acknowledge the importance of each gender and make use of it for the upliftment of the society.

You cannot put one down and exalt the other, both have the same level of control in the home, if you take it for granted, you are doom.

Respect is the key.

Husband, love your wife.
Wife, submit to your husband.

Submit yourself to one another so that there can be peace in the society.

Most danger would have been avoided, if some men listen to their wives.

Women have the capacity to see things clearly in a different perspective than most men.

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by ireneidiva(f): 2:54am On Jun 12, 2022
odinson1:

Who pays the piper dictates the tune. If you don't want your husband to be the head, provide for your damn self
And who says I don't? A lot of women hustle! Please, this topic is tired!

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by satandeterrible: 7:07am On Jun 12, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


i think you are 1 overthinking 2 using the wrong
words

1 for a woman to became a mother she needs a ma to sleep with so we are equally important for the woman to be able to
cook in the kitchen 70% of woman need a men to be the provider (women =i need a man who can look after me ) (men = i need a woman to cook for me etc)

2 you dont to control your woman but she needs to understand your views, direction and adapt
for me control is a heavy word

3 most culture, religon and law are set up by man, eg mostly it is men who sit down a decide what downry to charge, women are still fighting for equall rights meaning most set ups favour men. There are more charity organisation to help girl/woman than men meaning the world thinks women are being disadavantaged/not in control

without bias we equally need each other to equally called a father or mother

i think you wanted to ask "who has more influence over a child the mother or father?"

Its hard to say who has more influence becoz of what one becames when we became adults, from my point of view if women have the most influence am sure most men would be better husbands than what we have in reality


Your last paragraph classified you as a stupid idiot.
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by emmanuelbrown26: 8:23am On Jun 12, 2022
Cutehector:
You don get pvc?
Beautiful question jare
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by CHoccolaTE: 8:51am On Jun 12, 2022
ireneidiva:

And who says I don't? A lot of women hustle! Please, this topic is tired!

Even when the wife is literally the breadwinner and provider, Nigerian men still expect her husband to 'control her' so provision is not even the determinant in marital situations, men just feel entitled to women's subservience regardless of whether they are playing their roles well or not.

@topic, only on Nigerian forums will you see idiotic topics like this, instead of teaching love and compassion and understanding between couples, they are looking for who to control and dominate in marriage.

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Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 4:05pm On Jun 12, 2022
CHoccolaTE:


Even when the wife is literally the breadwinner and provider, Nigerian men still expect her husband to 'control her' so provision is not even the determinant in marital situations, men just feel entitled to women's subservience regardless of whether they are playing their roles well or not.

@topic, only on Nigerian forums will you see idiotic topics like this, instead of teaching love and compassion and understanding between couples, they are looking for who to control and dominate in marriage.


If you don't agree with the topic, that's okay.

Never condemned others people's ideas but rather learn from them.
You talked about love and compassion and yet you have not seen love in what I have explained above, husband, love your wife, wife, submit to your husband.

The essence is to discuss and not to argue or condemn the assertion.
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 4:11pm On Jun 12, 2022
Food is what caused the downfall of a man in the beginning so we cannot deemphasized the importance of food, as you know, most women take care of the kitchen, anyone that cooks for you can control you, directly or indirectly, we heard of food canteen, where the food is jazzed and people continue to queue for the food everyday.
It means that people eating the food are under a demonic spell or influence, so the important thing is to be on your guard and not allow anybody to control you, directly or indirectly.
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:12pm On Jun 13, 2022
satandeterrible:

Your last paragraph classified you as a stupid idiot.

explain your point of view without calling names
Re: Wife Controls The Husband? Husband Controls The Wife ? Discuss? by God2man2again(m): 1:13pm On Jun 15, 2022
ZIMDRILL:


explain your point of view without calling names

Thank you.

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