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What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by koseepaaro(m): 8:07am On Jul 21, 2011
Hi all in the house, there is this girl that I added as my friend sometimes early last year, since I added her as my friend, she will just keep sending 'Hi' to me, through facebook chat each time I'm online but I always ignor her chat. Just about 3 weeks ago, she also sent 'Hi' to me again and I replied her and since then, we have been chating on facebook almost every day and I have even collected her number 3 days after we started chating through facebook chat because I wanted to help her on browsing issue on her phone then. And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?t she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 21, 2011
If she says she's engaged, probably she's engaged! That's a no brainer. LEAVE HER THE F*^K ALONE! Cant a girl like you without dating you? Must you date every girl that says hi to you? What's wrong with some guys sef? undecided
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by femmy2010(m): 8:26am On Jul 21, 2011
koseepaaro:

Hi all in the house, there is this girl that I added as my friend sometimes early last year, since I added her as my friend, she will just keep sending 'Hi' to me, through facebook chat  each time I'm online but I always ignor her chat. Just about 3 weeks ago, she also sent 'Hi' to me again and I replied her and since then, we have been chating on facebook almost every day and I have even collected her number 3 days after we started chating through facebook chat because I wanted to help her on browsing issue on her phone then. And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?t she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?

She said she is engaged and maybe she really is engaged or would you have preferred her playing you?
Hard to maintain that line between friendship and dating but some people can.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 8:27am On Jul 21, 2011
angry angry angry angry

Ok OP

WHAT PART OF  'I AM ENGAGED don't you understand'?

[b]affianced, betrothed, pledged to be married,  [/b]THAT'S WHAT!

In simple english,she is on her way to getting married unless she tells you otherwise so kindly step back and find your rib elsewhere maybe here on NL undecided

Gosh! you amaze me. angry
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nobody: 8:41am On Jul 21, 2011
^^^^ grin grin grin Pendo! You dey vex o! Abi na you the guy toast? grin grin No get ulcer cos of vex o! grin grin
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Mallow: 8:46am On Jul 21, 2011
if she is engaged,she is engage,please accept that fact,poster.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 8:52am On Jul 21, 2011
now I feel guilty  undecided
maybe he's just a teen
But op, she's told you a million times but you dont get! now you want nl's opinion.
seriously do you imagine what anybody says here will change her status to single,available and ready to mingle?
we dont know her we just know her status. Hang around nl you may find somebody else.Really.let go. angry
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nobody: 8:55am On Jul 21, 2011
^^^^Geez! I Just Broke a rib! grin grin grin grin
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by limpopo: 9:20am On Jul 21, 2011
**frowning face**
I AM ENGAGED- i think dat sentence is as simple as it sounds.
leave her alone.
olojukokoro.

NEXT
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Mallow: 9:22am On Jul 21, 2011
limpopo:

**frowning face**
I AM ENGAGED- i think dat sentence is as simple as it sounds.
leave her alone.
olojukokoro.

NEXT




Lol.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by koseepaaro(m): 11:18am On Jul 21, 2011
@ pendo89, but do you know exactly the way one will be feeling if one receive such reply from somebody one has already fell in love with?
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nobody: 11:25am On Jul 21, 2011
^^^So you are actually trying to say that if you have a girl you are engaged to, and you want to marry, that she should leave you for me just because she said "Hi" on facebook and i fell in love?. . . . . Absolute GIBBERISH! undecided

WAKE UP and smell tha Damn Coffee Dude! undecided
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 11:28am On Jul 21, 2011
Op ,I quote you below,

'And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged.'

I wrote something here the other day about phantom relationships. Its always good to define your relationship otherwise you end up wasting each others time and breaking hearts. She was just being nice but you misinterpreted that.There are many doing that even now!
I dont blame the girl because she told you very well that shes engaged the moment you expressed interest,but you were blind. Why did you allow those feelings to grow? Thats not love i prefer calling it infatuation or fb love or better still claremont/delusional love.
It hurts but you must let her go and find new love because healthy and true love must be reciprocated! You cannot be the only one in love here and expect it to go anywhere.
Get over it and attend her wedding too.Take heart! search and you will find!
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Rocktation(f): 11:29am On Jul 21, 2011
Na wa oo. Kill the fiance with juju na. Mschewww.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nobody: 11:37am On Jul 21, 2011
pendo89:




I Thats not love i prefer calling it infatuation or fb love or better still claremont/delusional love.

Get over it and attend her wedding too.Take heart! search and you will find!
Jisos Kwiest! grin grin grin grin grin I just broke the rib that was meant for my "Eve!" grin grin grin grin
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by pendo89(f): 11:46am On Jul 21, 2011
^^
The rate at which you are breaking ribs is starting to worry me! save one for eve pliz!
I swear claremont left a lasting impression on my mind ,not that I believe in his theory but I have never seen a guy defend his theory the way he does!
I hope he is a lawyer!
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by amuukwu1(m): 11:49am On Jul 21, 2011
koseepaaro:

Hi all in the house, there is this girl that I added as my friend sometimes early last year, since I added her as my friend, she will just keep sending 'Hi' to me, through facebook chat each time I'm online but I always ignor her chat. Just about 3 weeks ago, she also sent 'Hi' to me again and I replied her and since then, we have been chating on facebook almost every day and I have even collected her number 3 days after we started chating through facebook chat because I wanted to help her on browsing issue on her phone then. And I told this girl that I'm interested in her since the day after we started chating through facebook but what she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?t she keeps telling me was that she is engaged. I do call this girl 2,3 or even 4 times sometimes in a day just to greet her and to equally remind her that she should give me chance that I'm interested in her but she still keeps telling me she is engaged. So house, what do you suggest I should do about this girl as she keeps telling me that we can only be friends but we can't date as she is engaged?



Oboy them swear for you, She's ENGAGED. Leave her the f*ck alone or best, be the friend that she demands.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by amblors(m): 11:53am On Jul 21, 2011
She's engaged man,
let her be,
don't even be the "friend", you'll probably end up wounding you,
if she's unsettled enough in her relationship
she may come looking for you.

flash your searchlight else where.
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Nayah(f): 11:57am On Jul 21, 2011
My brother if she' engaged don't bother you to chase her and try to find another one who's single you ask yourself if you would be happy to be on the same situation, and if she wants you you'll know smiley
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by OTEGA1: 1:02pm On Jul 21, 2011
i guess u guys have to tell the poster in his dialect the meaning of engaged so that he understands clearly now, becos i can see that the thought of sleepiing with the girl has beclouded his sense of judgement AND that he cannot understand simple english of what i am[b] engaged[/b] means.

Whom the Gods want to kill they first make mad- Y i AM TAKING MY TIME TO EXPLAN TO THIS ABOKI HIM NOW IS BECAUSE IF HE IS CAUGHT NEAR MY WIFE -TO- BE I WILL HANDLE HIM LIKE THE WAY BOKOHARAM HANDLES PPL WITH NO MERCY,

POSTER RUN FOR UR LIFE OH D WORD IS ENOUGHT FOR THIS ABOKI THAT DOES NOT UNDERS STAND THE MEANING OF I AM ENGAGED
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Mynd44: 3:56pm On Jul 21, 2011
Maybe the OP does not under stand English. I bet he will get the message when the BF runs all over his baskside
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by iice(f): 5:07pm On Jul 21, 2011
Sorry but ahahahahahahahaha

Ahahahahahahahahaha

NL will not die me grin grin grin grin
Re: What Can I Do About This Girl That Keep Telling Me That She Is Engaged? by Talkyaown: 7:14pm On Jul 21, 2011
Simple, tell her you want to marry her!

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