immortalcrown:
A woman that loves her children will not stop loving her husband because of the children. She knows she alone cannot give the children the best of life in the marriage. She knows her cooperation with the husband will enable the children get the best in the family.

You sound this way because over 90% of people do not know the purpose of marriage, and you are likely among the 90%. The few that know the purpose of marriage cherish their spouses from the beginning to the end, no dulling at any moment or stage. I myself have seen such couples. The women who misunderstand the purpose of marriage are the ones that relegate their husband after having children. Men who share the same wrong understanding relegate their wives and follow other ladies as if life is all about flirting.

Women are more emotional towards their children than towards their husband. This is another thing that fools you about love. Exhibition (display) of emotional feelings is different from love most times. Love is more about being rational and sincere than being emotional. Sadly, over 99% of people misinterpret emotion as love and this is why majority believe mothers are more loving than fathers.

Many people say mothers are more loving than fathers. They also say they love their mothers most. Mothers are believed to be more supportive than fathers because mothers are biased in their love. An average mother can support injustice in favour of her children, an average father will not do that. This is why an average mother with many children can be kinder to one child more than others. Average fathers hardly do that. Mothers will keep on pampering you when you remain stubborn, fathers will allow you to taste the consequences of your actions so you may change for good. Mothers will always consider you too young to know the difficult side of life. Fathers will allow you experience the difficult side for you to be well-prepared for survival. This is why when a teenager misbehaves outside, he or she fears the father but will easily reveal his or her crime to the mother. University students, when they get poor results, will first inform their mothers. Most times, the mothers will not tell the fathers about the children's academic poor performance. But the fathers are the payers of school fees. Fathers are more honest and rational. Sadly, fathers are downgraded because they are more disciplined.

Candidlady:



DenreleDave
Mr instigator


Now enjoy your movement

immortalcrown:
A woman that loves her children will not stop loving her husband because of the children. She knows she alone cannot give the children the best of life in the marriage. She knows her cooperation with the husband will enable the children get the best in the family.

You sound this way because over 90% of people do not know the purpose of marriage, and you are likely among the 90%. The few that know the purpose of marriage cherish their spouses from the beginning to the end, no dulling at any moment or stage. I myself have seen such couples. The women who misunderstand the purpose of marriage are the ones that relegate their husband after having children. Men who share the same wrong understanding relegate their wives and follow other ladies as if life is all about flirting.

Women are more emotional towards their children than towards their husband. This is another thing that fools you about love. Exhibition (display) of emotional feelings is different from love most times. Love is more about being rational and sincere than being emotional. Sadly, over 99% of people misinterpret emotion as love and this is why majority believe mothers are more loving than fathers.

Many people say mothers are more loving than fathers. They also say they love their mothers most. Mothers are believed to be more supportive than fathers because mothers are biased in their love. An average mother can support injustice in favour of her children, an average father will not do that. This is why an average mother with many children can be kinder to one child more than others. Average fathers hardly do that. Mothers will keep on pampering you when you remain stubborn, fathers will allow you to taste the consequences of your actions so you may change for good. Mothers will always consider you too young to know the difficult side of life. Fathers will allow you experience the difficult side for you to be well-prepared for survival. This is why when a teenager misbehaves outside, he or she fears the father but will easily reveal his or her crime to the mother. University students, when they get poor results, will first inform their mothers. Most times, the mothers will not tell the fathers about the children's academic poor performance. But the fathers are the payers of school fees. Fathers are more honest and rational. Sadly, fathers are downgraded because they are more disciplined.

burritto:


Fathers are far more concerned about the children than the mothers. Fathers work to raise money for the family and also wants the best for their family. Women know these things that why they use kids as a weapon to fight a man because of how much he loves his children. Men don’t show emotions towards children because men are not emotional like you say, but those kids mean the world to him.

Some women are sweet too, but it’s super rare. Just pray you meet a sweet woman.

Please don’t get me wrong, marriage is a good thing, but most women use it to cage men and make it feel like prison where the man is the incarcerated.

Oizee:
lol, the guy is even regretting now

Oizee:
lol, the guy is even regretting now

DenreleDave:
yea. my thread was hijacked by haters

JovialJune:
Una never start to dey cry, I gave birth to 3 at once who are still toddlers, explain in logical details how I can divide attention between my kids and SO because I don't understand how a grown ass man will be jealous of little kids that needs their parents undivided attention

JONNYSPUTE:
.... Wow. Nice one. Having three at once is not easy at all.
I can relate. We had twins boys and right now I have four boys and I can imagine the stress my wife is passing through.

I do my things on my own and don't even remember about her giving me attentions. To be honest,I do understanding that it's never easy taking care of the kids though I try my best to always be there for them when I'm in town.

JovialJune:
Una never start to dey cry, I gave birth to 3 at once who are still toddlers, explain in logical details how I can divide attention between my kids and SO because I don't understand how a grown ass man will be jealous of little kids that needs their parents undivided attention

JovialJune:



Finally, a man that understands, unlike Op that made a mountain out of nothing because of attention, men should try to reverse roles and do the nurturing for one year so that y'all would know how it is.

Okonandmary:
How can you give birth to 4 children and expect the woman to focus on you

JovialJune:
Una never start to dey cry, I gave birth to 3 at once who are still toddlers, explain in logical details how I can divide attention between my kids and SO because I don't understand how a grown ass man will be jealous of little kids that needs their parents undivided attention

burritto:


Men can never be women and women can never be a man. Nobody is switching any role.

JovialJune:



Finally, a man that understands, unlike Op that made a mountain out of nothing because of attention, men should try to reverse roles and do the nurturing for one year so that y'all would know how it is.

burritto:


Women don’t give a damn about their children, if they realize you as a man who got them pregnant don’t have anything to offer, they abort the child and thrash the child in a gutter or toilet, as we’ve seen on many news online(where is the love). Women are quick to do abortion, take contraceptives and do anything to harm an unborn child(where is the love).


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