You don't want to lose someone that is 20 years old and has already given up on education?

What manner of kids do you intend to train? Or na snake in the monkey shadow style whe she de give you na im de reset your brain?

RenerdLiam:
I am 23, earning an average of 150k a month (can be more than 200k depending on how work come) and just planning to upgrade my skills and delve into a new career.

Is it right for me to start thinking about marriage?.

The girl I love, (20) who loves me also, suddenly drive my thought towards it all of a sudden. Begin Dey advice me say I don ripe for marriage, to Dey born pikin self.

Someone that is suppose to be thinking about furthering her education. (She wasn’t able to gain admission and she has given up already)

I am thinking of discussing this with her properly or just let her be.

I no get parent, I no get anyone to depend on. I hustle to get here and just started making it this year.(after I met her). Although, I understand that I am good looking and well nurtured, so she won’t want to lose me.

And even though her parents are rich, I don’t like the idea of seeking help. I want to be independently independent before I start thinking of serious relationship or marriage.

150k is too small to rely on. No saving yet or investment because I am still getting stuffs to upgrade my skills and career.

This is a pain in my heart, cause I love the girl. Don’t want to lose her.

Stick to the bold. And don't let any love for a girl pressure you into what you aren't ready for. Marriage is for a life time and that requires proper planning. Don’t be afraid she would leave you, if she does then she was never yours in the first place.

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She is still young and she is supposed to be thinking on how to further her education or acquire any skills.

RenerdLiam:


Right.

I won’t think much about it then

Since she yield to advice, talk her into learning any skills while still trying to get admission even though it is NCE it is still something.

Bro u still young die
Don't let any girl deceive u into fatherhood or marriage
Na bills go chop that ur 150k las las
Work on yourself, upgrade ur skills and don't let any emotions lead ur thinking
Remember as u said u no get anyone 2 depend on
SAPA IS REAL OOO

Marrying early isn't bad but you guys need to have a very serious discussion about her career and also having children

RenerdLiam:


The problem is that she has a talent. Her parent are not much interested in helping her develop that talent. I am the one that ginger her to work towards developing it.

All her parents do is just to pamper her. She doesn’t have self drive too, but she can be easily pushed to do something.

She is just the homely type.

How about her parent, aren't they keen on her getting admission? Since they're rich, let them opt for private university.

RenerdLiam:


Not that she is not interested in education. She is fed up with not getting admission.

She is the fragile type though. Not someone that like stress, but she is obedient and yield to advice.

Now that's clearer. She is like that due to her up bringing. Which is expected. You can groom her to what you want then. Mind you, both of you are not ready.

Grow your funds to something much more. Let her face the next phase of her life.

guy u go regret am die na red flag be that. she wanna use u retire

The cliche early to bed and early to rise,makes a man healthy, wealthy, and wise may not be for you in this case.

Though some young people strive and thrive when under responsibilities,but Nigeria's current situation is not encouraging to settle down with a girl that has no vocation.

Na the bedmatics the motivate you, bro take it or leave . next 5years what u wish today , you will regret it big time. That babe wey look sweet and queen to u due to some hormones in ur brain , go look somehow next 5 years. From your narration of your self, next 5years , you will never dream to reason that kind woman wey no get dream. Its all a matter of time for reality to set in.

It's not about whether her parents have money or not
Make sure u see her as an asset rather than a liability before u think of marriage, u will be glad u did

So far say the parents get money, them go try work out admission stuff for am, by then them no go wan make she marry illiterate like you, if like earn 200k, you better think about your future

IMO You’re both too young for marriage.

Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

RenerdLiam:


lol.

What do you think I do for a living before you call me an illiterate??

Mind you, I just get admitted to study Maths and Computer science.

Mind how you talk to people online, me talking the way I did doesn’t make me less of who I am.

I have no one, but I built honor for myself. You can’t talk to me anyhow, we are not the same.

shut up u be pikin where I dey, if to say u tell us say u don get admission, I for talk am? See this one

RenerdLiam:


Well, I am no illiterate.

I feed off my literacy.

na wetin u for tell us say u go school or u don get admitted because no girl go wan marry illiterate as her papa get money so

RenerdLiam:


My plan self was to wait till I finish with my education

If she pesters you then it’s a trap. She has some intentions. Tell her your plan and stick to it regardless. If you fall she will definitely run


Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️

You want to marry at 23?? you don dey smoke purple haze or wetin

RenerdLiam:


She can’t pester me like that though.

I know how to talk to her. It will be well.

Aiit boss


Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️