What Are Some Things You Realize As You Get Older?

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To avoid disappointment, take people for what they are and not what they could be.

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The insults, judgements, and the negativity people attempt to throw your way are actually reflections of their own insecurities and are absolutely irrelevant to you and your life.

3.

People are who they are, and there’s no any other way to look at them.

4.

Mature enough to wish the best for people who no longer talk with you. Because after all their achievements or failures do nothing for you personally.

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You will continue to suffer, if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. It’s a choice to let dumb things affect you.

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People will disappoint you. So learn not to take everything to heart.

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Be gentle to yourself. Because you don’t need one more critic picking at your insecurities.

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You are allowed to do what’s best for you, even if it upsets people. You are not responsible for how people react, when you’re trying to do the best for you.