Ishilove:
When Mr Available becomes Mr Right.

Aunty, short people too get persecution complex. They feel the whole world is out to bully them because they are 'summarised'. Besides he is not mature enough to handle you which is why he is listening to what people are saying.

How come people even have a say in your relationship sef? Who are these 'people' and how come they are so familiar with you that they are running 'football commentary' on who you're dating?

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

Ishilove:
When Mr Available becomes Mr Right.

Aunty, short people too get persecution complex. They feel the whole world is out to bully them because they are 'summarised'. Besides he is not mature enough to handle you which is why he is listening to what people are saying.

How come people even have a say in your relationship sef? Who are these 'people' and how come they are so familiar with you that they are running 'football commentary' on who you're dating?

Soleye24:

Exactly, what if the pharmacist decided to drop his ego and come back to you that he sincerely loves you, will you still love the short guy? Tell yourself the undiluted truth.

frozen70:


Why you wan kill yourself to convince sohow much you love him

How are you even sure he realy loves you, not that he wants you to be his bed mate

A guy that listens to gossips

Well keep trying until you can't try again

UyaiIncomparabl:
When the desirable is not available, the available becomes the choice.

"The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do."

Las las .....

pozehnani:


Bedmate?
Why is everything about sex to you guys?
Please, ours is a pure relationship devoid of premarital sex.
Thank you.

Samakus:


Yen yen yen . It's a waste and big wickedness if you're not a virgin

Samakus:



'He's not my spec' is for girls that are still at their prime. Know this and Know peace

Once age advances, 'specifications' runs outta window and you know what? The unfortunate niggah will most likely treat them better than the supposed spec

pozehnani:


Bedmate?
Why is everything about sex to you guys?
Please, ours is a pure relationship devoid of premarital sex.
Thank you.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Soleye24:

Exactly, what if the pharmacist decided to drop his ego and come back to you that he sincerely loves you, will you still love the short guy? Tell yourself the undiluted truth.

Vyzz:



But is anyone serious coming apart from him?

Would you have gone for him if the fine boy pharmacist gave you time and attention?..


I for like agree with them ooo

. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

Zonefree:

Your desperation is glaring! Guy man never propose and you want to settle down with him this year.

Did he tell you he wants to marry this year? Who will foot the bills for the wedding? You??

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

frozen70:


Why you wan kill yourself to convince sohow much you love him

How are you even sure he realy loves you, not that he wants you to be his bed mate

A guy that listens to gossips[color=#990000][/color]

Well keep trying until you can't try again

LifestyleTonite:

@OP

The problem is that you are settling for what's available when the guy you truly desire and want doesn't want you or is too shy to make his stance known. After discovering that time may not be on your side, you decided to settle for the short guy. Deep down, you know you don't truly love him; you don't have that natural burning desire for him like you do for that pharmacist. If you get married to the short guy, you will cheat on him or the marriage will be loveless.

Suddenly, I began to like and miss him... this is a big lie. He was the available shoulder to cry on. I can bet that if the pharmacist guy comes calling, you will forget about the sudden love for the short guy because it was sudden after all.

As for the short guy's attitude, his instincts are telling him that the relationship is fake. He knows you don't really love him but the simp in him can't just admit it and move on. He's currently going through what most guys go through before they end up in a horrible marriage. Their guts will be telling them that their relationship is horrible, but the simp in them won't allow them to reason. What the short guy is currently doing now is to blackmail you emotionally into submitting. He doesn't know that such will end up in a massive failure because emotions fade off quickly, especially when it's faked. Even those gossipping about the both of you know that you are a mismatch. Leave the short guy alone and stop fooling yourself that you love him or else the marriage will be disastrous. Be brave enough to ask that pharmacist out, if he's truly who you want; there's no crime in that. That's better than flashing yellow light while saying to yourself that it's green light you are flashing to him.

pozehnani:
Somebody help me before I lose my mind.

I've been with this guy for some time now.
When he first approached me, I wasn't too down with the idea of having a relationship with him, which I made clear to him. Though I had my reservations about him, which was his height but didn't let him know. Also, that time, there was this pharmacist (i shared about him some years ago) I was hoping would come open with his proposal to date me but he got ego and was using me to catch Cruise. As in.. each time I visited the pharmacy where he works, he'll be forming and acting like he didn't see me until I'm set to leave, he'll then want to block my way and turn everything to joke. saying.. " you don't want to marry fine boy abi? So I just parked him aside since he was not serious.

This other guy kept pestering me and was always calling. Suddenly, I began to like and miss him. Then he popped the question again and I was like... Ok, let's see how it goes.
We started seeing each other.

Along the line, people started saying all sorts like, she doesn't love this guy. It's because no man is forthcoming that is why she settled for him bla bla.. which is not true.

Now they said it until it got to my baby. Since then, he's been withdrawn. He said I don't really love him. that those people might be right. He was just saying all that and after trying to convince him that I do without any success, I got angry and left. We didn't talk for three days.

I missed him so much and so I called and he told me I'm only pretending that I don't love him because he's short, he's not my spec and all that balderdash. I tried talking him out of it but he wouldn't hear me out.

Seriously, I love him. The way the love developed overnight is still a mystery to me but I do. I'm tired of explaining and begging.

How can I convince him that I sincerely love him. I've really emanciated since he started all these drama. He even saw me recently and was like it's the pharmacy guy I'm missing, not him. .

I posted a happy pics on my status on Friday with my students and he said, moving on without me, yeah?. Ok, I called him, he refused to pick. Later he texted me that, at my age, I should know better than to be posting happy pics when someone somewhere is not feeling fine.
I replied, who's not feeling fine? Then he went, I said it! You don't love me. You don't care! Maybe if I were taller, things would have been different

Here's someone who refused to pick my calls turning around to accuse me.

Please, how can I let him know I really care about him. I'm tired! I want to settle down with him this year but this sudden act of his doesn't look promising.

pozehnani:


See how you just concluded wrongly.

You wanna know the truth? I love him more than the pharmacist. The pharmacist is just fine and has a good fashion sense, that's all. No feelings for him, which was why I dribbled him the first time he too approached me but decided to give him a try after nairalanders advised me then to take him seriously.

I really feel for this my baby. I love and dream of him.

Anyways, believe what you want.

pozehnani:




This is not a case of the available becoming the desirable besides the pharmacist has got nothing on me. He's just a fine boy, nothing more.

My baby is very loving, calm and caring. He has a beautiful heart and most importantly, a born again brother. So, Im hooked on his personality. He also has a fine face .

freddie009:


Let her be deceiving herself.

Soleye24:

Hmmm, I'm not trying to be mean but you are not telling yourself the truth, it's clearly the case of the desirable not available so the available becomes desirable. You said the pharmacist just have good look, nothing more but despite that, you wanted him seriously but the pharmacist used you to catch cruise because getting attention from ladies is norm to him so he doesn't see it as a big deal. You felt pained and you decided to go back to the guy you earlier rejected because of the reason best known to you. The other guy truly loves you but he knows he is just a second option, he knows you will eventually go back to the pharmacist if he comes back begging or even you see any better options.

pozehnani:


See how you just concluded wrongly.

You wanna know the truth? I love him more than the pharmacist. The pharmacist is just fine and has a good fashion sense, that's all. No feelings for him, which was why I dribbled him the first time he too approached me but decided to give him a try after nairalanders advised me then to take him seriously.

I really feel for this my baby. I love and dream of him.

Anyways, believe what you want.

Ximenez:


Just see the way you keep typing "my baby" time and again on every of your posts just to reassure yourself.
You never liked short guys, so don't force things cos perhaps you are eager to settle down.
Marriage is like an eternal contract, so think twice.

pozehnani:


Who told you I never liked short people?
Can you just stop concluding unecessarily?

For your info, my ex was short. Still I loved him.