Why is it so hard to find A good girl with Ashawo vibes?

I’m a Nigerian artiste but I can’t find the type of girl I need
All the girls I have been meeting gave me chance immediately they heard my song. They feel I am like the kind of message I pass through with my song..like I sing about rated stuffs and they feel I can keep one woman,so they are scared of getting their hearts broken.

So I don’t know should I change the contents of my songs or what ?