Hi everyone
yesterday i posted a thread where i revealed the death of my 4months old son and how my galfrnd was admitted in the hospital with doctors asking for a deposit before attending to her. i was called all sorts of names especially a gambler and a scammer which infuriated me because i was telling the truth. some even presumed my story was fake.
But it made me realize one thing,
1 Nigerians have trust issues
2 Nigerians are judgemental on everything and everyone
3 nigerians dont love each other. 95% are hypocrite, in otherwords, they preach what they dont practice.
I saw people enjoying my pains, my shame and claiming righteous meanwhile most of them are more gilty than i am. i wasnt asking for people to help me marry or feed me for ever, i was begging because i lost my son out of mistakes i made which is hunting me and i didnt want to lose my gal too and i had exhausted all my pleas from people i know and thought we were family here. if i was a girl i believe most of u guys will help out. some people here spent more than 50k on women, gambling, drinks, etc yesterday but became judge, jury and executioner when it came to helping me. i am grateful to God for everything because him alone can see me through in this pit i find myself.
Just to be clear, i love my girl and she is blameless in my pains. I will continue to seek help until i receive help.
Thanks

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Bro hope your girlfriend is fine now, sorry for your lost, meanwhile scammer are everywhere, so you can't expect anyone to help you just like that, even if you prove it, doubt will still be there

Is alrite....we don ear

you entitlement mentality is something. All these sob stories will not get you anywhere because nobody owes you anything. Some of the people you're soliciting help from are in way more terrible situations than you're in. Everyone's fighting some kind of battle. What I would however advise is you go down on your knees and pray to God. Things will turn around, maybe not immediately but they will for sure

You are yet to forgo and forsake this blame game. Remember that nobody owe you anything except your parents and it is before you clock 18years old.
Like I said yesterday, what you need now is a job. Find something to do or you can learn high paying skills within your locality. If you need funds for skill acquisition, I am 100% sure people will help you.
You can learn aluminium doors and windows making, iron door and burglary proof making, house roofing, tiling, Plaster of Paris (POP) design and making, house wiring, furniture making, and if possible, get an IT skills that pays well and many more. All these skills are high paying skills and you will brush yourself up with the help of internet. With this, you will be a sort after because you will be so good than the non-literate competitors.

Botking:
Bro hope your girlfriend is fine now, sorry for your lost, meanwhile scammer are everywhere, so you can't expect anyone to help you just like that, even if you prove it, doubt will still be there

that is true o. my galfrnd is receiving treatment now sir, she has unblical hynia and they have charged me 250k forthe operation
i dnt know what to do anymore

wis3:
you entitlement mentality is something. All these sob stories will not get you anywhere because nobody owes you anything. Some of the people you're soliciting help from are in way more terrible situations than you're in. Everyone's fighting some kind of battle. What I would however advise is you go down on your knees and pray to God. Things will turn around, maybe not immediately but they will for sure

i am not forcing anyone to help me o. my galfrnd has unblical hynia which the operation is over 200k which i dont have even a fraction of, thats why i was begging for help

lordnkem000:

i am not forcing anyone to help me o. my galfrnd has unblical hynia which the operation is over 200k which i dont have even a fraction of, thats why i was begging for help

Umbilical hernia? So her so-called sickness has absolutely nothing to do with the birth, or death, of your claimed 4-month old son then?

So why did you tell us in your other post that her parents plan to make you marry her corpse again?

Kobojunkie:
Umbilical hernia? So her so-called sickness has absolutely nothing to do with the birth, or death, of your claimed 4-month old son then?

So why did you tell us in your other post that her parents plan to make you marry her corpse again?

guy shut up!!
Always trying to sound woken!!
Oversabi,,,

Nemesis0147:
guy shut up!!
Always trying to sound woken!!
Oversabi,,,

So I should pretend not to know what I know of Umbilical hernias, that's what you mean?

Kobojunkie:
So I should pretend not to know what I know of Umbilical hernias, that's what you mean?

you are always like this!!
Not like you are going to help.
So why the unnecessary question?

xperiencelove:
You are yet to forgo and forsake this blame game. Remember that nobody owe you anything except your parents and it is before you clock 18years old.
Like I said yesterday, what you need now is a job. Find something to do or you can learn high paying skills within your locality. If you need funds for skill acquisition, I am 100% sure people will help you.
You can learn aluminium doors and windows making, iron door and burglary proof making, house roofing, tiling, Plaster of Paris (POP) design and making, house wiring, furniture making, and if possible, get an IT skills that pays well and many more. All these skills are high paying skills and you will brush yourself up with the help of internet. With this, you will be a sort after because you will be so good than the non-literate competitors.

Sir i am willing to learn anything, am serious. i am not blaming anyone for anything. but sir how do i save my galfrnd in this condition? she was diognozed with unblical hynia and that is my biggest problem now... over 200k bill. it wasa miracle she even gave birth and survived

Kobojunkie:
Umbilical hernia? So her so-called sickness has absolutely nothing to do with the birth, or death, of your claimed 4-month old son then?

So why did you tell us in your other post that her parents plan to make you marry her corpse again?

oga i dont have time for this... i am in real pain plz

Nemesis0147:
you are always like this!!
Not like you are going to help.
So why the unnecessary question?

So I am not supposed to ask questions to ascertain the truth of claims made?

I am simply to pretend the many stories make sense even when there are obvious conflicts?

Kobojunkie:
So I should pretend not to know what I know of Umbilical hernias, that's what you mean?

you are just a wicked person naturally bro, thats my conclusion of u
if u know what unblical hynia is then u should know it is serious and not what u play with.
if u cant help someone pls stop trying to discourage people from doing so alright. i really am in need of help

lordnkem000:

you are just a wicked person naturally bro, thats my conclusion of u
if u know what unblical hynia is then u should know it is serious and not what u play with.
if u cant help someone pls stop trying to discourage people from doing so alright. i really am in need of help

I have two siblings who had to undergo surgery as adults to correct the issue of Umbilical hernia they struggled with since they were kids, so I know something about it.

I know it has nothing to do with pregnancy or relationship, and I know it rarely kills or maims grown-ups, so your claim that her parents wanted you to marry her corpse when the hernia issue is partly their own fault - where did that come from?

The story you sold us was as though her being in the hospital was somehow related to you and your claimed dead son, only it turns out it ain't. So how come?

Kobojunkie:
So I am not supposed to ask questions to ascertain the truth of claims made?

I am simply to pretend the many stories make sense even when there are obvious conflicts?

no one asked u to pretend oga.. u are just trying to influence people not help by making me look fake but it wont work.
i am ready to meet anyone or do anything legit
i have my id card with me, my location is cross river state

lordnkem000:

no one asked u to pretend oga.. u are just trying to influence people not help by making me look fake but it wont work.
i am ready to meet anyone or do anything legit
i have my id card with me, my location is cross river state

I am not stopping you from doing what you want to do, am I?

How about her parents, family and friends? Why are you d one soliciting help for her? Doesn't she has relatives?

lordnkem000:

i am not forcing anyone to help me o. my galfrnd has unblical hynia which the operation is over 200k which i dont have even a fraction of, thats why i was begging for help

you talk about how people spent over 50k on women, partying, gambling. It's their money. It is not fair but life in itself is not fair. I would help if I was in a position and I pray you find the help you seek but you have to stop this attitude labelling people or calling them out for not helping you. It only further discourages people who had any intent of coming to your aid. May God make it easy for you

tayo60:
How about her parents, family and friends? Why are you d one soliciting help for her? Doesn't she has relatives?

beats me. Even orphans have relatives. At all at all,, person no dey fall from sky

Kobojunkie:
I have two siblings who had to undergo surgery as adults to correct the issue of Umbilical hernia they struggled with since they were kids, so I know something about it.

I know it has nothing to do with pregnancy or relationship, and I know it rarely kills or maims grown-ups, so your claim that her parents wanted you to marry her corpse when the hernia issue is partly their own fault - where did that come from?

The story you sold us was as though her being in the hospital was somehow related to you and your claimed dead son, only it turns out it ain't. So how come?

who told u so? just shut up oga ok.. who ever made u become this fiendish killed humanity in u. if u have an old relattive from akwaibom just ask them the tradition of anaang when a man impregnates their daughter before marriage. ask them. i myself never knew until it was late. stop what u are doing pls i beg u.. am trying to save the life of a gal i love so much.
if u have ever loved someone before u would understand my pain

lordnkem000:

who told u so? just shut up oga ok.. who ever made u become this fiendish killed humanity in u. if u have an old relattive from akwaibom just ask them the tradition of anaang when a man impregnates their daughter before marriage. ask them. i myself never knew until it was late. stop what u are doing pls i beg u.. am trying to save the life of a gal i love so much.
if u have ever loved someone before u would understand my pain

Who told me what exactly?

Again, I have two siblings who had to undergo surgery as adults to correct the issue of Umbilical hernia they struggled with since they were kids, so I know something about it.

I know it has nothing to do with pregnancy or relationship, and I know it rarely kills or maims grown-ups, so your claim that her parents wanted you to marry her corpse when the hernia issue is partly their own fault - where did that come from?

The story you sold us was as though her being in the hospital was somehow related to you and your claimed dead son, only it turns out it ain't. So how come?

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So, you impregnated a girl from anaang, and somehow their tradition is she becomes your property , hernia and all, afterwards? Isn't that marriage?

I stopped entertaining this scammer when I realized the mods were using him for page views. I’m out.

tayo60:
How about her parents, family and friends? Why are you d one soliciting help for her? Doesn't she has relatives?

uncle am tired of all these questions

lordnkem000:

u re very stupid oga.. go to hell

I can't!

Kobojunkie:
I can't!

then leave me out of your misery

Ogah go find work ,no body owe you anything in this forum.

lordnkem000:

then leave me out of your misery

I don't have any miseries.