There are many mistakes a Wife can commit to either frustrate her husband to misbehave or make her home vunelrable to strange women or totally shatter her marriage. Below are just Eleven out of several others a woman can do to unconsciously destroy her marriage:

#11 STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER MARRIAGE

1) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO BEAT YOU:
You block the door way, then dare him to beat you up and see what will happen. You call him bastard if he doesn't beat you. You ask him to kill you if he was born well, you dare him to touch you, you forget that everybody has a touch of madness, we are only better than one another in taming our madness. A man with little skill of self control or discipline may lose it and go wild. While I am totally against spousal violence, assult or abuse, it may be difficult for some men to restrain themselves, best thing for a man is to walk away from that scene and never stop him if he walks away when he is angry.
It is wrong to dare your husband, a lot of women have done this and end up regretting.

2) DARING YOUR HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN:
You will be making a major mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with another woman. You may live to regret it. You may say he is christian, he fears God or he is shy type that can't talk to a lady outside. You may be surprised he can do things you never believed.

3) NEGLECTING YOUR BODY AND LOOKS BECAUSE YOU ARE MARRIED:
"I am married I can relax, after all who is looking at me?”
He married you slim, sexy and trendy. Next thing you no longer care about your looks or body, you become obess, dirty and shabbily dressed. It is the mistake of most careless married women. Nothing sexy, nothing erotic, nothing romantic, nothing attractive, nothing inviting even when you are alone with him in the house! This will gradually quench the fire of passion in him.

4) DENYING YOUR HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY:
You are a career woman; You are an overly religious woman.... Hmmm! You feel sex in marriage is not important, you deny your husband your body regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy famished. What you don't know is that his secretary, colleagues and girls in church are seducing and begging him to come to them but you have padlocked your JERUSALEM and expect him not to lust after others. His mind will gradually drift from you towards them.

5) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND FOR YOUR FEMALE FRIEND TO CATER FOR:
"My dear friend, please be my eye as I travel for this one week, help cater for my husband and my little kids". By the time you are back, your dear friend has so really helped you by sleeping with your husband and may be expecting a new baby as continuation from where you stopped. If at all she has not eloped with your man, leaving your children behind.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the hands of your beautiful and sexually active friend.

6) LEAVING YOUR HUSBAND IN THE HANDS OF YOUR HOUSE MAID:
Your maid is the one that cooks, cleans the house, cares for the children and your husband. You suddenly become a LAZY BONE since the arrival of the maid.
All you do is shout and give orders. Not bad! But if your husband feels more love and care from the maid, sister that maid wont struggle to snatch your husband. You are the one graciously giving him to her and those that need him.

7) FAILING TO COMMIT YOUR FAMILY INTO THE HANDS OF GOD. (THE MOST ESSENTIAL OF ALL)
A wife won't do well if she fails to commit her family into the hands of God regularly because the Bible says "by strength shall no man (anybody) prevail". Don't make such mistakes of thinking you are in charge of your husband and marriage and you can handle things.
NOTE: "Wives are God's plan to provide comfort and assistance as "Helpmeet" of their husbands.
This is only achievable and possible if you constantly pray to God, asking for His direction, intention and purpose for your home. May you never labour in vain and another reaps where you have sown.

( 8 ) TELLING YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR SEX LIFE:
When you tell your friends about your sex life and how your husband rocks you, you are indirectly inviting them to go have a feel of him too. They can size your husband up and imagine how good he would be in bed. They can find all means to lure your husband to them especially if such a friend is not sexually fulfilled with her partner.
They may even find out your Husband's “turn on” and use it too to attract him and lead him to the bed.
Most women have carelessly lost their husbands as they boast to their friends “my husband is too sexually demanding, he is never tired and he's an expert when it comes to sex, he is a machine, he drives me crazy in bed, he is a strong man down there bla bla..." Your friends will pick information like these and desire to also experience your ecstacy.

9) REPORTING YOUR HUSBAND TO HIS MUM:
As a wife, it looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum, but the end result may likely hurt you. Most mothers will support their sons any day; children especially sons are always right before their Mothers. Seek counsel in the right quarters, never report your husband to his Mum unless his mum is God-fearing, morally upright, honest and impartial.

10) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF YOUR HUSBAND OR GIVING MORE PRIORITY TO YOUR CHILDREN OVER YOUR HUSBAND:
Many wives abandon their husbands, denying them of love, care and attention as soon as babies begin to arrive, they transfer all affection to their kids. Everything now is all about the children, afterall, it's the husband that is responsible for bringing the children. You are right, but men also want attention of their wives, atleast show them that they are equally important and deserve your time too.
Some wives put their babies in between themselves and their husbands in the bed, no hugs, no caress, no warmth. He may not be totally comfortable with the arrangement without saying it, the point is don't use babies to deny him of intimacy with his wife.

11) USING SEX WRONGLY:
This point is very deep. Sex is supposed to bind you both together, it is supposed to create intimacy and love but in many homes it is the bone of contention. Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation or control. They make it look like a privilege for their husband rather than his right. Some use it for trade by barter "if you provide this for me, I will give you sex". This is wrong. Some wives will suddenly become commanders at home when their husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man around, “go and put off the fan” “go and lock the gate” “go and check whether our children are sleeping” “How about that money I asked you to give me?" etc. All these are wrong. The first thing any married man wants from his wife is respect. It is not a matter of ego, this is natural.

Some wives sleep like log of wood that does not have any feeling or passion for intimacy, some even wear Jean, knickers to bed just to attach so much barricade to their body.

If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage deeply and you may destroy your home also. He will start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of Jezebel out there who may mesmerize him out of your home to themselves.

A godly wife builds her home, the stupid one pulls it down.

We are all humans and things push us to do things we never planned, but God's grace is sufficient for us!

Be wise!!!

Baba, all your points are apt, aswear.
You be elder for this matter.

I doff my hat.

OP remove No. 8 before I wound you

@ number 1 them no born any woman for this earth make you dare me make I dey comot make you Block me or hold me for shirt say you no Wan allow me go.
Ogun sef go Wan strike me that day if I no beat werey to stupor

There's a limit for everything

When I was going up I always use to say"men that beat women are not normal but right now beating a stubborn wife should encouraged bcuz some women will go out of their way to furstrag u

OP, to balance things, do a thread for husbands too.

SPAMBOX7:
@ number 1 them no born any woman for this earth make you dare me make I dey comot make you Block me or hold me for shirt say you no Wan allow me go.
Ogun sef go Wan strike me that day if I no beat werey to stupor

There's a limit for everything

Welldone low-budget Mayweather.

MufasaLion:


Welldone low-budget Mayweather.

I pray you meet a masochistic woman one day. Low budget Jesus

MufasaLion:


Welldone low-budget Mayweather.

I'm sure when your wife is Clawing your eyes out with her nails,you will stand still like A Cadet and not defend yourself because You are a Real man

How dare her, how a woman go block man Road not to go out na madness na. Na see finish dey cause all these things.

How old are you sweetheart?
Be honest... 13 right? I bet you're already growing some strands of hair looking bleached and malnourished on your chin too.
So adorable as all things childish are.

SPAMBOX7:
@ number 1 them no born any woman for this earth make you dare me make I dey comot make you Block me or hold me for shirt say you no Wan allow me go.
Ogun sef go Wan strike me that day if I no beat werey to stupor

There's a limit for everything

quslit:
How old are you sweetheart?
Be honest... 13 right? I bet you're already growing some strands of hair looking bleached and malnourished on your chin too.
So adorable as all things childish are.

You created a new account just to quote me ? How low? lmfao