A few months ago I came here seeking for a solution to my boyfriend weed addiction. He started smoking to ease his financial pains.
As a guy of 22 he's responsible for taking care of his family, he's fund his younger brother university education, his sister schooling and his mom business.
I told he that he should try and understand that he isn't the one who decided to bring them to this life so he's not his business how they feed, his parents made the decision to bring them to this life, so it's their responsibility to take care of them. His parents are still alive and well. His dad is just a jobless, sexist idiot, his mom is a very nice woman but very lazy. I asked him to call his parents to order, which he did, he told them that he is no longer interested in taking care of his siblings and he will help from time to time but it's no longer his responsibility.
He has been working since 15 to take care of children they brought to this earth.

Secondly I asked him a simple question. With all the friends he claims to have, if he's in need how many can he call to ask for help, he was dumbfounded, he didn't really have a answer. They can buy him weed and drinks but not food, they can help him get a sex worker but not a job. So he has cut them of. I told he not to make it too obvious to them, if he sees them on the road, he can greet them but the over familiarity has stopped.

Thirdly I advise he to go to church. I'm not a very religious person but I think it will help him and it did, he has made new Friends, and they have given him some job opportunity which he is very happy for.

Apart from the smoking of weed which thank God he has stopped. He's the nicest guy I have ever met, he is the type of guy that will cook for u, play with u and comfort u. He doesn't see women as sex objects, he doesn't put lable on people because of their religion, tribe or beliefs, he loves reading, eating healthy and exercising, he doesn't cheat, he believes that if he's with u, he's with u.
U rarely see a NIGERIAN MAN that's doesn't see cheating has he's RIGHT

Please what can I do to ensure he stays like this. I need more advise

Thank u

. His dad is just a jobless, sexist idiot

his mom is a very nice woman but very lazy

See the adjectives you're using to quantify your potential father and mother in-laws.

.So he has cut them of

You made him cut his friends and family off, so he can concentrate only on you and probably your family.

You're evil and a manipulative self centered demon!

How long have you known this 22 year old guy that you think you can dictate his life for him? Did you use ToTo water to cook for him in order to hook him all to yourself? Is he under your hypnosis?

I pray God should redeem that young man from your shackles!

Hopefully your efforts will bear fruits

Let's watch out for your next complain....




Cos I know no human is 100% free from one bad habit that people don't like...

Zonefree:




See the adjectives you're using to quantify your potential father and mother in-laws.




You made him cut his friends and family off, so he can concentrate only on you and probably your family.

You're evil!

Lol the girl never knew that the guy was happy doing this for his people

FEAR WOMEN


This kain girl go still cheat and na her type dey call Mother Inlaw witch..




Better don't take that guy joy [weed] and cage him later..

Uzomacharles:




This kain girl go still cheat and na her type dey call Mother Inlaw witch..



Better don't take that guy only joy and cage him later..

Very foolish and wicked girl! I know her type.

God1000:
Hopefully your efforts will bear fruits

God forbid! She will fail in her attempt to wreck that innocent man.

Why did you make him stop weed in the first place? Craze dey worry u for head? See my friend if u know what is good for you, u better disembark your leeching self out of his life and allow him smoke that heavenly substance in peace!

This was how my friend ex cut him off from us.....she called us terrible people and put the fault of the guy lifestyle on us.
She was too dumb to realise the guy himself was his own probs.

2 year later relationship scatter and she came to us the bad friends to come help her resolve the matter..lol.
The guy rubbish her in our present and played us tape how she always bad mouth us.

Ladies don't think at all......it is pure foolishness when you try to cut people off from a guy life solely for your own selfish interests.

The next thread will be

With all I did to my boyfriend he still break up with me..

Now You even remember to use he in place of him ... Then you even be able to type he again






Na e...........

Just leave him and come to me baby

Cc:boogyman557

Cc:boogyman557, we need your help

You haven’t stated the part you used towtow water to cook for him.
After jilting him from his momma, you’ll still jump to the highest bidder when his finances isn’t improving.
I pity that lad.

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You might.need to choose between weed addiction and womanizing

When your good friend suddenly becomes cold and distant, chances are high his wife/girlfriend is behind it...

I think he should start by cutting you of first

Zonefree:




See the adjectives you're using to quantify your potential father and mother in-laws.




You made him cut his friends and family off, so he can concentrate only on you and probably your family.

You're evil and a manipulative self centered demon!

How long have you known this 22 year old guy that you think you can dictate his life for him? Did you use ToTo water to cook for him in order to hook him all to yourself? Is he under your hypnosis?

I pray God should redeem that young man from your shackles!

That guy is a big fool , see how the girl manipulated him to forget his family and friends, if that stupid girl leave him today , I wonder who he will run to

Now that she has scatter them , next thing for the guy now is to focus on her family and herself .

His real slavery has just begin

Lazy ass girls everywhere, u dey find advice, u don't happy as you don't turn your boyfriend to your Cook, and cut him off from his people, if anything happen to him now, only you go fit carry am?