Please don't mind my grammatical errors. It might be long but please take your time to read this. Hello nairalanders, I need your advice please, bashing is welcome. I'm a guy in my late 20's, I have this first girl (Let me just call her Bola) we've been dating since 2019. Bola and I have went through a lot, she stick by me through thick and thin and never cheated on me despite her Mum said her daughter can't marry people from our place but she stood her ground. Fast forward to last year February I felt she wasn't caring like she used to do so I cheated on her, few weeks later I started seeing this dude around her and later found that they are now dating, I felt so hurt badly because I really love her and wish to marry her but she doesn't seem submissive or love me like she used to do. Two weeks later she called me and begged me that we should come back together, I accepted her back because I love her but during the time she was dating this guy I met another lady (Let me call her Tope). I got her pregnant and she was ready to be my wife. She is very loyal and submissive but the truth is I love Bola more and she is my type of lady. Around April this year, Tope gave birth to a beautiful girl but Bola and I already broke up a week before Tope gave birth and she never knew Tope was pregnant because I traveled and wasn't really around so we didn't see , meanwhile I met this lady( Let me call her Kemi), we're same age, she is a single mother of two year old boy, she works in an hospital and have been caring for my needs since February that I met her. Don't let me lie to you guys, Kemi has always been there for me for almost everyday since I met her. When Tope gave birth I posted it on my WhatsApp and Bola saw it but ignored thinking I just post the picture of someone else child to make her feel jealous, a week later we did my daughter's naming and I posted it, it was until then she knew it's true but couldn't believe. She texted me and I said when we see I'll explain to her, she came to my place I apologise to her and she forgave me. Few weeks later she met Kemi at my place, she got mad and embarrassed me so much in front of my neighbours and everybody, the embarrassment was too much that I feel like the ground should swallow me. Meanwhile my family don't want Tope because of where she is from too. For me I love Bola more than all of them but she seem not ready for marriage, she is in her mid 20's. Please house advise me on who to marry among the 3 of them. Please mods move this to front page �.

Marry me.
I'm highly OBIdient

A cheat... Gross!

I need to draw a Venn diagram for this your case

Dating your best friend's ex doesn't make you a bad person here's why


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=baie7zoAcJc

JJuanMiguel:
I need to draw a Venn diagram for this your case

Haha! Brilliant!

Gross Confusion

Your name must be GBOLA-hun
Only you shagging 3 different women at once without condom.
We need to enlist you into WWE RAW.

OP @ specialraph10, na you be the real-life “Community D**k”

You're too young for all these nonsense. Discard all those leeches and concentrate only on your child.

I no read dis write up bcus i no sabi read long story....
bt base on ur headline,i'll advice u go 4 the most faithful among dem...

I'm as confused as You are

Give up on Marriage Bruh, it definitely wasn't meant for You...

Sorry to be to straight forward..." You are the most confused indisciplined person I have heard of". If you can't define who you are,you can't define what you want. Marry the one that gave birth to your child. Stick to that one because if the baby. Secondly,try to be disciplined. "Don't allow your emotion give you direction". Let your brain do the thinking and the talking. Don't let emotion control you. Feeling is not enough for you to marry someone.

Bola- disrespectful, dumped you for Better option but the option didn't favour her to the end ( if you still consider her you are a SIMP)
Kemi- this one na evening newspaper, avoid single mother, if you consider her you are a simp
Tope.- no/yes- look for more red flags in her

OGA stay away from marriage is not for you, you're a chronic womanizer

Brotherly go for who you love,but note that you have a child, so know how to balance everything. But come to think of it, the person you love is not ready to settle down, are you willing to wait,and u said her mum don't like people from your tribe. (For me it can't be possible) so you either choose from your child's mum (which your family don't like her tribe) or the single mom. But did you tell dat single mum dat you have a child? If yes and she still agree to still be with you,well maybe you can consider her. But are your parents awear that you have a single mom as a lover? What is there response?if they accept her (tribe),then you can go for her.

If you are a fool, marry the first or third.If you are wise, go for the mother of your baby.

Don't let love becloud your senses of judgement.A lady is in a relationship with you and cheated on you then you marry her? You are destined for a total emotional breakdown.

JJuanMiguel:
I need to draw a Venn diagram for this your case

We'll have to determine the value of Bola n Tope n Titi

Story from an indecisive d0g.

Please mods, push this to front page�

Badt guy... You don sample different pussies, you don enjoy sha ohh .

Now you wan settle down, you don't know which one to retire .

When i always tell my SIMPle Niggas, women can never finish, forget their shakara....laslas na 2 at least person go find like our OP . Yet you go still find some weak SIMPS dying for the gender who needs us more.

Anyways OP, go for the one that gives you PEACE OF MIND.









As our Ancestors would say" A time shall come when 7 women shall cleave to 1 man".

OP never settle for a single mother, I repeat never.


Do a dna test to confirm if the child is yours, after then you know what to do

Its like you are an importer, exporter and distributor. Aspiring for the position of the Minister of women affairs. Lolz
On a serious note.
Marriage is not for you yet bro. Just wait a little bit longer and you won't be this confuse about whom to marry

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ahnie:
Your name must be GBOLA-hun
Only you shagging 3 different women at once without condom.
We need to enlist you into WWE RAW.

Madddddd LMAO

LUAN1:
Bola- disrespectful, dumped you for Better option but the option didn't favour her to the end ( if you still consider her you are a SIMP)
Kemi- this one na evening newspaper, avoid single mother, if you consider her you are a simp
Tope.- no/yes- look for more red flags in her

this is the best advice you be elder lol

D contest now shud b btw ur baby mama n d single mother.
U ar nw a single father though.
Bola's mom will now reject u more bcs of ur child. Bola too is disappointed already.
U shud know who u prefer.

Specialraph10 real men has told you what you are already ( a gangsta cheat )


Women go get belly for you hand tire .. ( others will call you father of all nation ) this is just the beginning.


You love non , just keep knacking them ..

ahnie:
Your name must be GBOLA-hun
Only you shagging 3 different women at once without condom.
We need to enlist you into WWE RAW.

Are you ok?
Hahahaha

Zonefree:
You're too young for all these nonsense. Discard all those leeches and concentrate only on your child.

How are they leaches, Sir

Una double standards for this forum is glaring