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How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 9:04am On Jul 21, 2022
First of all, I want to use this medium and opportunity to praise all females worldwide. Most especially the mothers. I have seen and witnessed that being a mother is never an easy task. I cherish and adore all mothers worldwide.
There is this particular song we often sing during our primary education days:
'There is no one like mama to me'
'No matter as poor she may be'
'I am travelling round the world, looking for mama'
'there is no one like mama to me'

Though the story is very long to tell here, but I will summarize it as much as I can.

The Good News
It was all good news when my fiancee told me she feels pregnant 3rd week of January, 2022. Without delaying, we hurriedly visited a hospital for confirmation. The result of the pregnancy test came positive. She was already three(3) weeks pregnant.
You can imagine the smiles on our faces. It's her first pregnancy and it's my first child on the way.
Though we'd not planned for the pregnancy, but we thank God it came and we have to keep it.

As expected, we immediately registered for antenatal. All the appropriate drugs and medication were given her. We went back home very happy.

Feeding?
We never for once skipped the feeding regime and other stuff recommended by our Obstetrician. We followed precept by precept all he told us to do.
I always buy 2 whole sharwa fish (it's the only source of animal protein that she accepted including egg and other fish), leafy vegetables, fruits (96% watermelon, 3% orange, others 1%).
5am she'll wake me up for food during the First Trimester. I cooked fresh food everyday.
I had to sell my cassava which was reserved to pay my rent in July to make sure my woman and the babies did not lack a single nutrient and a proper antenatal care.
I prepared whatever she wants to eat except junks.

Her Weird food Combination

Ogbono/Okra soup with bread. A times with rice. E shock me o

Cooking?
I do 95% of the cooking.
I have all the time to cook. The company I was working was owing us since November, 2021, same company was liquidated late January, 2022 and we were ask to stay at home by March by the liquidators due to financial constraint.
As you can see, I have all the time to cook.
She eats well prepared balanced diet everyday. I only allow her eat junks (Ice cream, sweet, biscuits) twice in a month.

A viable gestation
Fast forward to our next appointment, already Seven (7) weeks old pregnancy. Routine Ultrasound Scan was carried out. A viable result says the UT scan.

News of Twin Gestation
Something happened on the next routine UT scan. It's already eleven (11) weeks old pregnancy. It's a twin gestation says the diagnostic medical sonographer. It was double joy and blessing. We were more happy. We went home joyful.
We had planned to give birth to only 3 children. This one and one more in 6 years time. She's in her mid 20s and I'm in my mid 30s.

News of Twin Boys
Another banger was the 18th week of pregnancy when we went for Anatomy Fetal scan. This scan was able to tell us the sex of the foetus if we so desire to know. After the scan we were told that everything (Fetal Anatomy) is perfect. But for the sex, he said, both are males. My fiancee was very happy, though I was happy but I still prefer female child anyday, anytime as my first child.
So, my fiancee is carrying twin boys. We did not for once derailed from the laid down 'do and don't' by our Obstetrician.

News of Threatened Abortion
Another thing happened in the 22nd week of pregnancy. On and off cramps around the abdomen. We visited our Obstetrician. We later had to go for UT scan. After the scan, we returned to see our Obstetrician. To our surprised, he told us it's 'Threatened Abortion'. He gave us medication. The cramps stopped midway into the mediation and until after the medications.

Vaginal Bleeding
It was sorry, tears and blood on the 26th week of pregnancy. Around 1am my fiancee noticed bleeding. Up to 20ml of blood. Though the bleeding stopped immediately. First thing 7am, same day, we visited our Obstetrician to complain. After series of UT scan, blood and urine tests, we were given medications.
Next day almost same time when the previous bleeding started, the bleeding started again. This time it'd not stop. I hurriedly rushed out to my neighbour in the next flat. We immediately took my fiancee to the hospital. The bleeding later stopped in the hospital. Our Obstetrician, later in the day refered us to a Teaching Hospital.

At the Teaching Hospital
At the Teaching Hospital, after series of tests and UT scan, no fault was detected. My fiancee bled several times there. The bleeding was on and off. Babies were kicking normal, Packed Cell Volume (PCV) was normal, the cervix was closed and no pains of any kind, just bleeding. Then what was wrong? Medications and treatment did not totally stopped the bleeding. Six (6) days in the hospital no improvement. Now the pregnancy was 27 weeks old.

I went to get some supplies for my fiancee, I entered the Labour Ward where she had been all these while, but she was not there. I was told she had been taken to the Gynaecology Theater for emergency C-section. Our 27 weeks old twin boys were brought out, bathed (they were crying), clothed and transferred to incubators.
We, the hospital management and staff tried our best to make everything successful.
It was unfortunate that our twin boys died the next day but we were fortunate that my fiancee is fine.
Dear readers, during my time in the hospital, I saw women go through pains and agony to bring new souls into this world. My experience in the hospital elevated my respect, adoration and love for mothers.

I was drained emotionally and financially. I spent a a little above #500,000. Her dad was very supportive. My buddies too. I only burrowed about 150k.
I'd not hesitate to reach out to my landlord to give more time to pay my rent. God bless my landlord. He knows I've never defaulted. He understands the situation.
The company I worked are still owing as the expatriates (Indians) have all left the country.

God bless all mothers worldwide.
I cherish you all

Thank you all for reading.
God bless you all.
I wish you all good health.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by ahnie: 10:01am On Jul 21, 2022
May affliction never raise it's ugly face again in your lives.
Congratulations in addy,be prepared to welcum your incoming triplets soonest.

Kisses to your wife and respect to mothers around the world.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by tee59(f): 10:10am On Jul 21, 2022
The Lord will be with your family. Wonderful children are coming. Relax.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by anthonyuncle(m): 10:59am On Jul 21, 2022
i prophesy Joel 2:25 into your life

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2022
ahnie:
May affliction never raise it's ugly face again in your lives.
Congratulations in addy,be prepared to welcum your incoming triplets soonest.

Kisses to your wife and respect to mothers around the world.
Thank you very much. God bless you.
Na single I want next sha.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 12:35pm On Jul 21, 2022
tee59:
The Lord will be with your family. Wonderful children are coming. Relax.
Thank you. God bless you
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 12:37pm On Jul 21, 2022
anthonyuncle:
i prophesy Joel 2:25 into your life
I claim it in Jesus name.
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by Ulunne777(f): 1:27pm On Jul 21, 2022
It is very painful .Sending love and light to you.The ones that will stay are coming by Gods grace.

But pls,this one I'm still reading' fiancee',havent you done small thing on her head?

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 2:11pm On Jul 21, 2022
Ulunne777:
It is very painful .Sending love and light to you.The ones that will stay are coming by Gods grace.

But pls,this one I'm still reading' fiancee',havent you done small thing on her head?



We've done introduction

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by DeeMain(m): 5:19pm On Jul 21, 2022
Really sorry bro. May God comfort you and heal your heart.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 6:07pm On Jul 21, 2022
DeeMain:
Really sorry bro. May God comfort you and heal your heart.
Amen
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by madprophet(m): 7:01pm On Jul 21, 2022
arsenic33:
First of all, I want to use this medium and opportunity to praise all females worldwide. Most especially the mothers. I have seen and witnessed that being a mother is never an easy task. I cherish and adore all mothers worldwide.
There is this particular song we often sing during our primary education days:
'There is no one like mama to me'
'No matter as poor she may be'
'I am travelling round the world, looking for mama'
'there is no one like mama to me'

Though the story is very long to tell here, but I will summarize it as much as I can.

The Good News
It was all good news when my fiancee told me she feels pregnant 3rd week of January, 2022. Without delaying, we hurriedly visited a hospital for confirmation. The result of the pregnancy test came positive. She was already three(3) weeks pregnant.
You can imagine the smiles on our faces. It's her first pregnancy and it's my first child on the way.
Though we'd not planned for the pregnancy, but we thank God it came and we have to keep it.

As expected, we immediately registered for antenatal. All the appropriate drugs and medication were given her. We went back home very happy.

Feeding?
We never for once skipped the feeding regime and other stuff recommended by our Obstetrician. We followed precept by precept all he told us to do.
I always buy 2 whole sharwa fish (it's the only source of animal protein that she accepted including egg and other fish), leafy vegetables, fruits (96% watermelon, 3% orange, others 1%).
5am she'll wake me up for food during the First Trimester. I cooked fresh food everyday.
I had to sell my cassava which was reserved to pay my rent in July to make sure my woman and the babies did not lack a single nutrient and a proper antenatal care.
I prepared whatever she wants to eat except junks.

Her Weird food Combination

Ogbono/Okra soup with bread. A times with rice. E shock me o

Cooking?
I do 95% of the cooking.
I have all the time to cook. The company I was working was owing us since November, 2021, same company was liquidated late January, 2022 and we were ask to stay at home by March by the liquidators due to financial constraint.
As you can see, I have all the time to cook.
She eats well prepared balanced diet everyday. I only allow her eat junks (Ice cream, sweet, biscuits) twice in a month.

A viable gestation
Fast forward to our next appointment, already Seven (7) weeks old pregnancy. Routine Ultrasound Scan was carried out. A viable result says the UT scan.

News of Twin Gestation
Something happened on the next routine UT scan. It's already eleven (11) weeks old pregnancy. It's a twin gestation says the diagnostic medical sonographer. It was double joy and blessing. We were more happy. We went home joyful.
We had planned to give birth to only 3 children. This one and one more in 6 years time. She's in her mid 20s and I'm in my mid 30s.

News of Twin Boys
Another banger was the 18th week of pregnancy when we went for Anatomy Fetal scan. This scan was able to tell us the sex of the foetus if we so desire to know. After the scan we were told that everything (Fetal Anatomy) is perfect. But for the sex, he said, both are males. My fiancee was very happy, though I was happy but I still prefer female child anyday, anytime as my first child.
So, my fiancee is carrying twin boys. We did not for once derailed from the laid down 'do and don't' by our Obstetrician.

News of Threatened Abortion
Another thing happened in the 22nd week of pregnancy. On and off cramps around the abdomen. We visited our Obstetrician. We later had to go for UT scan. After the scan, we returned to see our Obstetrician. To our surprised, he told us it's 'Threatened Abortion'. He gave us medication. The cramps stopped midway into the mediation and until after the medications.

Vaginal Bleeding
It was sorry, tears and blood on the 26th week of pregnancy. Around 1am my fiancee noticed bleeding. Up to 20ml of blood. Though the bleeding stopped immediately. First thing 7am, same day, we visited our Obstetrician to complain. After series of UT scan, blood and urine tests, we were given medications.
Next day almost same time when the previous bleeding started, the bleeding started again. This time it'd not stop. I hurriedly rushed out to my neighbour in the next flat. We immediately took my fiancee to the hospital. The bleeding later stopped in the hospital. Our Obstetrician, later in the day refered us to a Teaching Hospital.

At the Teaching Hospital
At the Teaching Hospital, after series of tests and UT scan, no fault was detected. My fiancee bled several times there. The bleeding was on and off. Babies were kicking normal, Packed Cell Volume (PCV) was normal, the cervix was closed and no pains of any kind, just bleeding. Then what was wrong? Medications and treatment did not totally stopped the bleeding. Six (6) days in the hospital no improvement. Now the pregnancy was 27 weeks old.

I went to get some supplies for my fiancee, I entered the Labour Ward where she had been all these while, but she was not there. I was told she had been taken to the Gynaecology Theater for emergency C-section. Our 27 weeks old twin boys were brought out, bathed (they were crying), clothed and transferred to incubators.
We, the hospital management and staff tried our best to make everything successful.
It was unfortunate that our twin boys died the next day but we were fortunate that my fiancee is fine.
Dear readers, during my time in the hospital, I saw women go through pains and agony to bring new souls into this world. My experience in the hospital elevated my respect, adoration and love for mothers.

I was drained emotionally and financially. I spent a a little above #500,000. Her dad was very supportive. My buddies too. I only burrowed about 150k.
I'd not hesitate to reach out to my landlord to give more time to pay my rent. God bless my landlord. He knows I've never defaulted. He understands the situation.
The company I worked are still owing as the expatriates (Indians) have all left the country.

God bless all mothers worldwide.
I cherish you all

Thank you all for reading.
God bless you all.
I wish you all good health.

Oh sorry for your loss..

The Lord would comfort your family and by this time next year the Lord would have settled you.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 7:24pm On Jul 21, 2022
madprophet:


Oh sorry for your loss..

The Lord would comfort your family and by this time next year the Lord would have settled you.
Amen. Thank you
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by 234GT(m): 11:24pm On Jul 21, 2022
So sorry sir. God will console you with new babies in no time IJN. You did your best.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by Saintmary(f): 12:57pm On Jul 22, 2022
arsenic33:
First of all, I want to use this medium and opportunity to praise all females worldwide. Most especially the mothers. I have seen and witnessed that being a mother is never an easy task. I cherish and adore all mothers worldwide.
There is this particular song we often sing during our primary education days:
'There is no one like mama to me'
'No matter as poor she may be'
'I am travelling round the world, looking for mama'
'there is no one like mama to me'

Though the story is very long to tell here, but I will summarize it as much as I can.

The Good News
It was all good news when my fiancee told me she feels pregnant 3rd week of January, 2022. Without delaying, we hurriedly visited a hospital for confirmation. The result of the pregnancy test came positive. She was already three(3) weeks pregnant.
You can imagine the smiles on our faces. It's her first pregnancy and it's my first child on the way.
Though we'd not planned for the pregnancy, but we thank God it came and we have to keep it.

As expected, we immediately registered for antenatal. All the appropriate drugs and medication were given her. We went back home very happy.

Feeding?
We never for once skipped the feeding regime and other stuff recommended by our Obstetrician. We followed precept by precept all he told us to do.
I always buy 2 whole sharwa fish (it's the only source of animal protein that she accepted including egg and other fish), leafy vegetables, fruits (96% watermelon, 3% orange, others 1%).
5am she'll wake me up for food during the First Trimester. I cooked fresh food everyday.
I had to sell my cassava which was reserved to pay my rent in July to make sure my woman and the babies did not lack a single nutrient and a proper antenatal care.
I prepared whatever she wants to eat except junks.

Her Weird food Combination

Ogbono/Okra soup with bread. A times with rice. E shock me o

Cooking?
I do 95% of the cooking.
I have all the time to cook. The company I was working was owing us since November, 2021, same company was liquidated late January, 2022 and we were ask to stay at home by March by the liquidators due to financial constraint.
As you can see, I have all the time to cook.
She eats well prepared balanced diet everyday. I only allow her eat junks (Ice cream, sweet, biscuits) twice in a month.

A viable gestation
Fast forward to our next appointment, already Seven (7) weeks old pregnancy. Routine Ultrasound Scan was carried out. A viable result says the UT scan.

News of Twin Gestation
Something happened on the next routine UT scan. It's already eleven (11) weeks old pregnancy. It's a twin gestation says the diagnostic medical sonographer. It was double joy and blessing. We were more happy. We went home joyful.
We had planned to give birth to only 3 children. This one and one more in 6 years time. She's in her mid 20s and I'm in my mid 30s.

News of Twin Boys
Another banger was the 18th week of pregnancy when we went for Anatomy Fetal scan. This scan was able to tell us the sex of the foetus if we so desire to know. After the scan we were told that everything (Fetal Anatomy) is perfect. But for the sex, he said, both are males. My fiancee was very happy, though I was happy but I still prefer female child anyday, anytime as my first child.
So, my fiancee is carrying twin boys. We did not for once derailed from the laid down 'do and don't' by our Obstetrician.

News of Threatened Abortion
Another thing happened in the 22nd week of pregnancy. On and off cramps around the abdomen. We visited our Obstetrician. We later had to go for UT scan. After the scan, we returned to see our Obstetrician. To our surprised, he told us it's 'Threatened Abortion'. He gave us medication. The cramps stopped midway into the mediation and until after the medications.

Vaginal Bleeding
It was sorry, tears and blood on the 26th week of pregnancy. Around 1am my fiancee noticed bleeding. Up to 20ml of blood. Though the bleeding stopped immediately. First thing 7am, same day, we visited our Obstetrician to complain. After series of UT scan, blood and urine tests, we were given medications.
Next day almost same time when the previous bleeding started, the bleeding started again. This time it'd not stop. I hurriedly rushed out to my neighbour in the next flat. We immediately took my fiancee to the hospital. The bleeding later stopped in the hospital. Our Obstetrician, later in the day refered us to a Teaching Hospital.

At the Teaching Hospital
At the Teaching Hospital, after series of tests and UT scan, no fault was detected. My fiancee bled several times there. The bleeding was on and off. Babies were kicking normal, Packed Cell Volume (PCV) was normal, the cervix was closed and no pains of any kind, just bleeding. Then what was wrong? Medications and treatment did not totally stopped the bleeding. Six (6) days in the hospital no improvement. Now the pregnancy was 27 weeks old.

I went to get some supplies for my fiancee, I entered the Labour Ward where she had been all these while, but she was not there. I was told she had been taken to the Gynaecology Theater for emergency C-section. Our 27 weeks old twin boys were brought out, bathed (they were crying), clothed and transferred to incubators.
We, the hospital management and staff tried our best to make everything successful.
It was unfortunate that our twin boys died the next day but we were fortunate that my fiancee is fine.
Dear readers, during my time in the hospital, I saw women go through pains and agony to bring new souls into this world. My experience in the hospital elevated my respect, adoration and love for mothers.

I was drained emotionally and financially. I spent a a little above #500,000. Her dad was very supportive. My buddies too. I only burrowed about 150k.
I'd not hesitate to reach out to my landlord to give more time to pay my rent. God bless my landlord. He knows I've never defaulted. He understands the situation.
The company I worked are still owing as the expatriates (Indians) have all left the country.

God bless all mothers worldwide.
I cherish you all

Thank you all for reading.
God bless you all.
I wish you all good health.


I read through your story, every single word.


You went through a tough experience, I cannot begin to imagine how much pain you felt, but I can only pray that God will bring a smile to your face soon.


My regards to your fiancee, I pray for her strength too.


Have a restful weekend.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 1:34pm On Jul 22, 2022
Saintmary:



I read through your story, every single word.


You went through a tough experience, I cannot begin to imagine how much pain you felt, but I can only pray that God will bring a smile to your face soon.


My regards to your fiancee, I pray for her strength too.


Have a restful weekend.
Amen. Thank you very much.
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by Tina001(f): 1:56pm On Jul 22, 2022
So sorry for your loss. This is very painful even to me, now I can't imagine the kind of pain you and your fiancee will be going through. I pray God heal and comfort you. Other Children will come and stay by His grace.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 6:48pm On Jul 22, 2022
Tina001:
So sorry for your loss. This is very painful even to me, now I can't imagine the kind of pain you and your fiancee will be going through. I pray God heal and comfort you. Other Children will come and stay by His grace.
Amen
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by Gandollar(f): 8:05pm On Jul 22, 2022
Op take heart! It is well with you and your family.
The best is yet to come.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 8:21pm On Jul 22, 2022
Gandollar:
Op take heart! It is well with you and your family.
The best is yet to come.
I'm optimistic. Thank you

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by Fahdiga(m): 8:17am On Jul 23, 2022
arsenic33:

I'm optimistic. Thank you
Bro it is well with you. You'll never experience such loss again. God will reward you abundantly with triplets. Stay strong and look after your woman well.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 10:19am On Jul 23, 2022
Fahdiga:
Bro it is well with you. You'll never experience such loss again. God will reward you abundantly with triplets. Stay strong and look after your woman well.
Triplets? shocked
Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by chival(f): 11:57am On Jul 23, 2022
arsenic33:
First of all, I want to use this medium and opportunity to praise all females worldwide. Most especially the mothers. I have seen and witnessed that being a mother is never an easy task. I cherish and adore all mothers worldwide.
There is this particular song we often sing during our primary education days:
'There is no one like mama to me'
'No matter as poor she may be'
'I am travelling round the world, looking for mama'
'there is no one like mama to me'

Though the story is very long to tell here, but I will summarize it as much as I can.

The Good News
It was all good news when my fiancee told me she feels pregnant 3rd week of January, 2022. Without delaying, we hurriedly visited a hospital for confirmation. The result of the pregnancy test came positive. She was already three(3) weeks pregnant.
You can imagine the smiles on our faces. It's her first pregnancy and it's my first child on the way.
Though we'd not planned for the pregnancy, but we thank God it came and we have to keep it.

As expected, we immediately registered for antenatal. All the appropriate drugs and medication were given her. We went back home very happy.

Feeding?
We never for once skipped the feeding regime and other stuff recommended by our Obstetrician. We followed precept by precept all he told us to do.
I always buy 2 whole sharwa fish (it's the only source of animal protein that she accepted including egg and other fish), leafy vegetables, fruits (96% watermelon, 3% orange, others 1%).
5am she'll wake me up for food during the First Trimester. I cooked fresh food everyday.
I had to sell my cassava which was reserved to pay my rent in July to make sure my woman and the babies did not lack a single nutrient and a proper antenatal care.
I prepared whatever she wants to eat except junks.

Her Weird food Combination

Ogbono/Okra soup with bread. A times with rice. E shock me o

Cooking?
I do 95% of the cooking.
I have all the time to cook. The company I was working was owing us since November, 2021, same company was liquidated late January, 2022 and we were ask to stay at home by March by the liquidators due to financial constraint.
As you can see, I have all the time to cook.
She eats well prepared balanced diet everyday. I only allow her eat junks (Ice cream, sweet, biscuits) twice in a month.

A viable gestation
Fast forward to our next appointment, already Seven (7) weeks old pregnancy. Routine Ultrasound Scan was carried out. A viable result says the UT scan.

News of Twin Gestation
Something happened on the next routine UT scan. It's already eleven (11) weeks old pregnancy. It's a twin gestation says the diagnostic medical sonographer. It was double joy and blessing. We were more happy. We went home joyful.
We had planned to give birth to only 3 children. This one and one more in 6 years time. She's in her mid 20s and I'm in my mid 30s.

News of Twin Boys
Another banger was the 18th week of pregnancy when we went for Anatomy Fetal scan. This scan was able to tell us the sex of the foetus if we so desire to know. After the scan we were told that everything (Fetal Anatomy) is perfect. But for the sex, he said, both are males. My fiancee was very happy, though I was happy but I still prefer female child anyday, anytime as my first child.
So, my fiancee is carrying twin boys. We did not for once derailed from the laid down 'do and don't' by our Obstetrician.

News of Threatened Abortion
Another thing happened in the 22nd week of pregnancy. On and off cramps around the abdomen. We visited our Obstetrician. We later had to go for UT scan. After the scan, we returned to see our Obstetrician. To our surprised, he told us it's 'Threatened Abortion'. He gave us medication. The cramps stopped midway into the mediation and until after the medications.

Vaginal Bleeding
It was sorry, tears and blood on the 26th week of pregnancy. Around 1am my fiancee noticed bleeding. Up to 20ml of blood. Though the bleeding stopped immediately. First thing 7am, same day, we visited our Obstetrician to complain. After series of UT scan, blood and urine tests, we were given medications.
Next day almost same time when the previous bleeding started, the bleeding started again. This time it'd not stop. I hurriedly rushed out to my neighbour in the next flat. We immediately took my fiancee to the hospital. The bleeding later stopped in the hospital. Our Obstetrician, later in the day refered us to a Teaching Hospital.

At the Teaching Hospital
At the Teaching Hospital, after series of tests and UT scan, no fault was detected. My fiancee bled several times there. The bleeding was on and off. Babies were kicking normal, Packed Cell Volume (PCV) was normal, the cervix was closed and no pains of any kind, just bleeding. Then what was wrong? Medications and treatment did not totally stopped the bleeding. Six (6) days in the hospital no improvement. Now the pregnancy was 27 weeks old.

I went to get some supplies for my fiancee, I entered the Labour Ward where she had been all these while, but she was not there. I was told she had been taken to the Gynaecology Theater for emergency C-section. Our 27 weeks old twin boys were brought out, bathed (they were crying), clothed and transferred to incubators.
We, the hospital management and staff tried our best to make everything successful.
It was unfortunate that our twin boys died the next day but we were fortunate that my fiancee is fine.
Dear readers, during my time in the hospital, I saw women go through pains and agony to bring new souls into this world. My experience in the hospital elevated my respect, adoration and love for mothers.

I was drained emotionally and financially. I spent a a little above #500,000. Her dad was very supportive. My buddies too. I only burrowed about 150k.
I'd not hesitate to reach out to my landlord to give more time to pay my rent. God bless my landlord. He knows I've never defaulted. He understands the situation.
The company I worked are still owing as the expatriates (Indians) have all left the country.

God bless all mothers worldwide.
I cherish you all

Thank you all for reading.
God bless you all.
I wish you all good health.
I can relate. I lost twins as well. All in all, I lost three babies. The pain and grief can be heart wrenching. I pray God blesses you with healthy babies as soon as possible. Your fiancée needs you now more than ever to deal with the emotional trauma from the loss.

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Re: How I Lost My Twin Boys by arsenic33(m): 12:13pm On Jul 23, 2022
chival:

I can relate. I lost twins as well. All in all, I lost three babies. The pain and grief can be heart wrenching. I pray God blesses you with healthy babies as soon as possible. Your fiancée needs you now more than ever to deal with the emotional trauma from the loss.
I can imagine what you went through.
God be with us

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