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| I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by OMOJOHN001: 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
I opened a thread sometime ago that I want to break up with my Gf due to some reasons best know to me and which I shared here too. I finally broke up with her last week, since then this babe has refused to eat, she keeps crying since that last week, She's keeps calling me which I have refused to pick her call. This morning on my way to church I got a picture and message on my phone, and what I saw surprised me, I felt like I have damaged someone beyond reparation. This babe was rushed to hospital because she used overdose drug with intention of committing suicide. Thank God for hospital,she would have been dead by now according to her sister and the doctor I spoke with. I shall thank God she didn't die ooooo Now she keeps threatening me that if I refuse to accept her then she will rather die than see herself marrying another man or me marrying another woman.. She's 23 years old we started dating when she was 20. Please house, I am seriously troubled, I don't want to visit the hospital nor see her, yet I don't want to take her threat as play, because this babe has put all her life in me, I won't lie, she was loyal throughout our relationship and I never caught her in any cheating stuff. Please Guy's, I don't see myself getting married to this babe, I don't know how to handle this issue now. 1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by OMOJOHN001: 12:56pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
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| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Zonefree(m): 12:57pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
All these are mere and cheap manipulations. Stand firm on your decision. Do unto others before they do unto thee. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Jack005(m): 1:01pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
What did she do to you that warrant you needing to break up with her? Is it that bad that you guys can't get back together? 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Jennyclay(f): 1:01pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Can you briefly tell us the reasons why you broke up with her? Because from your write up you claim she is a good girl. "won't lie, she was loyal throughout our relationship and I never caught her in any cheating stuff" So what else do you want? Why don't you see yourself getting married to a good girl? Bunch of confused men!! Sir, you're just a player and a potential randy man. I pray God give you a lady who's wild like anaconda. Since you don't like good girls. Randy men!! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Abfinest007(m): 1:16pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Don't marry anyone out of pity |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by LINSAR: 1:21pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
OMOJOHN001: She will get over you with time. She is doing that because you're the one financing her and her family. If you go broke, she'll leave you. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by diogo23: 1:22pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Jennyclay:Prayer of a sinner don't go anywhere 1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Zonefree(m): 1:33pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Jack005:She's a manipulator... That's enough reason to break up with her. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Rosaline5000: 1:42pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Dont visit her, stand on your ground, her family have seen what she did so they will put her on a suicide watch. This is the only option, someone like that is dangerous to you, if you take her back, she will keep using Suicide as a means to keep you and might even grow into murder-suicide by killing you then herself if she feels she cant have you anymore. She must be a very emotional person or a manipulative person and those types that feel they must get what they want, either way she will get over you and learn a lesson that we can't always get what we want even if we threatened suicide. So let's her be, don't even visit her, send her a best recovery message and tell her it's still over you guys then block her number, heartless it's might seems but in the long run, it's the best decision, you are saving your life and her life 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by OMOJOHN001: 1:42pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
[quote author=Jennyclay post=115469803]Can you briefly tell us the reasons why you broke I will ignore your prayer The reasons I broke up with her are these. 1) Her family is not where I can marry from 2)My mom didn't want me to wife her, Thou that's does not mean but still need to be considered. 3) She's not educated enough, I have helped her to pay for her O,level, paid for her apprentice work(tailoring) I still do freedom/graduation for her, she has a Sweeing machine now sef. 4) I have been the one feeding her and her family aslo feeds from her through my money and all her expenses since we started dating 5) I asked her mom to let us send her into higher institution, Her response was I don't have money, since she has handwork already, that's enough and I will never single handedly sponsor a lady to Uni,poly,or college 6) Her need does not use to end, If I sought out something for her today and we seems relived, tomorrow she will fall sick or sha have another reason to make me spend money. 7) My responsibilities is getting too much now, As two of my sisters gained admission this year and half of their billing is on NY neck  keep improving myself, doing all I can to improve her too, but her family aren't ready to show any sign of support9) other reasons which I may not be able to disclose here. 8 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by sulorog(m): 1:45pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Oga, please forgive her of whatsoever she has done and accept her back. Nobody is perfect, try and visit her in the hospital. Please try and resolve anything that is causing this current problem between two of you. God Almighty will help understand her better, she is good wife material. It is better to marry the woman that love you more than you love her. A word is enough for wise. Remain bless my brother. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Nobody: 1:48pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
OMOJOHN001:Your number 9 I guess is the main reason which you want to break up with her , she can go for part time program , since she has a hand work at least she will use that want to sort things out for her self. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Jeromejnr(m): 1:55pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Do not stir up nor awaken love until it pleases.- King Solomon |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Carcholce: 1:56pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
6) Her need does not use to end, If I sought out something for her today and we seems relived, tomorrow she will fall sick or sha have another reason to make me spend money  1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by tayo60(f): 1:58pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Since you have stated d reasons why you can't go ahead with her, stand your ground. Don't marry anyone with pity, she will get over you with time. Don't allow her manipulate you, she won't die. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Offpoint1: 2:02pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
Kindly reconcile with her and continue the relationship until she's 30 years. By that age she'll understand life better and she will handle breakup maturely. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Dizzyyish: 2:05pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by tee59(f): 2:09pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
I laugh in Swahili. . She can't do anything. The reason for all this drama is not because of love but of the benefits. Which she has lacked since you broke up with her. She will get over it with time.2 Likes |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Tboymessiah(m): 2:10pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
LINSAR: NasoLifeBe!!! |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Lapilolo: 2:15pm On Aug 07, 2022 |
[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=115471027][/quote] If all this give-aways you've alighted cease will she still have equal feelings and Love for You? Zero your mind if you can't go On. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:21am On Aug 08, 2022 |
OMOJOHN001: never pity people and if you think that you were right to break up with her, then no amount of tears or BS pity should change your mind. yes it is unfortunate what happens to her by LIFE GOE ON! |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Nobody: 11:36am On Aug 08, 2022 |
That's enough reason to break up, but do it subtly. Show less interest, give excuses, even if she carry kponyor give you tell her you are doing spiritual exercise |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by rickleye: 11:47am On Aug 08, 2022 |
OMOJOHN001: Someone beat me to the punch - manipulation Stand firm and hold your position. Are breakups new ? She’s immature. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by TheZeezle(m): 11:51am On Aug 08, 2022 |
Ask her the time she'll be taking more poison and you would like to die and meet her over there by the taking the same thing. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Autobot05: 12:46pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
OMOJOHN001: Sorry but flip the tables around like you’re in her position and she’s in your position Do you think she will give a damn ?? NB : what you make out of this scenario is left to you Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️ 1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Autobot05: 12:47pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
[quote author=OMOJOHN001 post=115471027][/quote] You don get big investment for their family o Jesus is the ONLY way ❤️ 1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Dreey(m): 12:55pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
She dey kid herself... i hear that punchline taya sef las las dem go resupply your own breakfast. you sef go shock say no be the same babe way wan commit suicide be dis.  |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by satandeterrible: 3:04pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
sulorog:Mumu 1 Like |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by Nyascobar1414: 4:18pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
sulorog: Comrades In the house.. Should we tell this one? |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by HltSong: 5:13pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
Nyascobar1414: Shut up with your mouth odor. |
| Re: I Hope I Don't Destroyed My Life, Sadness In My Heart. by SlayerOfSatanst: 7:27pm On Aug 08, 2022 |
satandeterrible:Rocktation Farano rule 2 insulting a nairalander. |
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