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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by DatNaijaGuy: 5:18pm On Aug 17, 2022
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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by Ennychummy(f): 5:29pm On Aug 17, 2022
Regardless:
Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak sad ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

this is serious...I am speechless.

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Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by SlyFoxx4Life: 1:08am On Nov 03, 2022
1stGenAmerican:


How do you know that he isn’t the father? Because she looks like the friend doesn’t mean anything.

You are the most beautiful woman in the world
Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by SlyFoxx4Life: 9:57am On Nov 14, 2022
1stGenAmerican:


How do you know the child is his when the mother was sleeping with at least two men at once, one being her husband?


We can agree to disagree on politics and just let it be. I will delete every comment I said anything negative about you. Whatever it takes; just fvcking talk to me babe!

And I don’t actually jerk off to your pic that was a joke lol. You are very beautiful though and I’ve always told you that.
Re: Her First Child Belongs To My Friend! Should I Tell Her Husband? by SlyFoxx4Life: 10:00am On Nov 14, 2022
1stGenAmerican:


How do you know the child is his when the mother was sleeping with at least two men at once, one being her husband?

This all started because you lied to me about e-mailing me when you knew darn well you did not. That was not nice. We were cool at the time and I just wanted know you better.

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