Rememeber "Ebami Eda", the Afro Legend? You know that he had many wives. So in terms of women issues, he can be regarded as an authority. In one of his popular piece title 'Yellow Fever', he did say women will always mean the opposite of what they say when it comes sex-related matters; that they are great pretenders. According to him, "if a women says, i no wan do, she means i wan do". How true is this view/perception of women? This further resurfaced an issue which has been treated somewhat in this forum. Despite their (women) claim that they are not, can we take Fela's perception seriously?
Please let us be objective; and the ladies will do us a lot of good by their sincere responses. Thanks.

Thats nonsence!May be your so called legend should say the women he knew,
not everyone else!

Whats that?

*Drops dead*

Am yet to meet a lady that sticks to her word. The old man (Fela) was right anyway.

Fela has said it all, but when they say yes they mean it and when they say no na yes they mean. Expecially afro girls.

Crazykid and Presido get a life!

of all d people ,fela?
@ basetsana please dont mind dem imagine dem using fela's talk 2 judge women.

Well ,
I do not even understand again o
if you have been hanging out with the wrong kinda girls does that mean that you should now conclude that all girls are like that
Well im sorry to shock you with the truth which is that you will only attract who you are and that means that you too area toeteller
na so now

godslead and croft ,you said it all!

presido1:

Fela has said it all, but when they say yes they mean it and when they say no na yes they mean. Expecially afro girls.

Guy, does it mean girls never say no?! commonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn!

@ Joey82
thank you o jare. beta person!

Quote from iice " people generally are pretenders".

count me out! I don't say yes when I mean to say no.

quote from basetsana " may be your so called legend should say the women he knows"

But he had dozens of them. Was that not enough to understand them?

McDoe:

But he had dozens of them. Was that not enough to understand them?

perhaps never really had time to study them to draw such a controversial conclusion.

@ Crazykid,

Dont believe the shizzy.
When a gurl says no in UK and u go ahead . . . . . . . . .
Then its 6 years imprisonment plus ur having ur name engraved on the SEX OFFENDER'S REGISTER for LIFE.
Fela is a twisted soul . . . . .Sometimes NO means simply NO.

Joey82:

perhaps never really had time to study them to draw such a controversial conclusion.

Is it true that you can live with someone for donkey years without understanding the person and 'her' behaviour?

to a great extent true

For goodness' sake! Why would a woman lie to her husband or boyfriend if she really wants sex? What kind of girls d'u meet?

Fela?

Fela had some rolls of weed before singing that song.
Why would anyone take a woman's NO for a YES?
Fela was not in his correct mental state when that song was produced, trust me.

Are u saying Fela had a terrible mental case (kolo) at dat period, i suppose so


& we can obviously see d followers on this thread.

I mean, someone who judges women by what Fela and his cohorts have to say about women is way gone and lost.

Jackal:

Fela had some rolls of weed before singing that song.
Why would anyone take a woman's NO for a YES?
Fela was not in his correct mental state when that song was produced, trust me.

Do you mean, the Afroking did not understand women enough to draw a conclusion on what affects them? C'mmon men, where are the apostles of the legend!

moondust:

to a great extent true

Can you expantiate?

Final Answer to this thread before we decide to end it,  U dont judge women by the words of FELA ok, cos if any chick says sum nasty stuff about guyz also betta be ready to Judge urself.

emmeno:

Final Answer to this thread before we decide to end it,  You don't judge women by the words of FELA ok, because if any chick says sum nasty stuff about guys also betta be ready to Judge yourself.

Sounds a bit unclear. Could you be more explicit please?

McDoe, the fact that you started this thread don't mean you should go on dissipating your ignorance. Nuff o' this shit!

@tnaidaR, what is my offence now?

Fela!
Never really like he's song for once.
Weed head!

@Topic
No from a woman means no, rapist are the ones that don't know the meaning of NO.

Is it every woman that will mean no she means to say yes?

Girl: Nooo, I say I no wan do. . .

Boy: (Edoho style) . . . Is that your final answer?

_{As if boys ask in the first place. . . Just start touching. . .}

@poster: You cannot use one or few to judge all. At least,women are human beings just like men. Every one has his or her own attitude and behaviour. Therefore, for the fact that one or two persons said no when they were to say yes dsoesnt mean that all of are the same. Fela's piece or what u call it is a personal thing and i don't think he's right.