Na mumu dey marry.

Imagine wife cheating while pregnant

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

@op please forget about what people will say and focus on your life. If you die today,God forbid, we will move on including your family. Do DNA for you child to be sure it belong to you. If the baby is yours, take full responsibility of the child and move on. Stop saying my wife, she is not. Don't be fooled. Now she is aware that you know her secret, be vigilant with her, I'm talking from experience. Soro fun obinrin ore

Bro I really feel for you... I will advise you go do DNA test Asap. But wait ooo... What are you still keeping that promiscuous woman in your house for? Send the idiot parking now.

You sure the pregnancy was yours anyway?

May Almighty bless you and hold ur family firmly.... This decision of urs by forgiving her is commendable. Despite having ur babe, she still had d gut to open her legs for another man.... Since you've forgiven her, don't involve ur family or friends. Believe she has changed but next time she try such ...... I support you to send her packing


Meanwhile only God knows what does gender really want

This is real serious o just don't no what to say right now because am thinking if this happened to me how best am I going to handle it. The wife has mess up big time even wth 5 month pregnant she still do such evil act wth her ex boyfriend guy are sure are you that u are the father of those children u av a lot of questions to ask her o

Modern women of this era must be having the best luck of their lives.

The men have been completely emasculated.

How will it be heard in the olden days that an ex -boyfriend is spreading the legs of a pregnant woman still in her husband house.?

Abomination.
Even the gods will get angry upon the land.

Soulflai:


Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage.

you called the guy to beg him to stop poking your very own wife? Very nice and manly of you.
Did he rape your so called wife? or he simply took what she gave to him jejely?
If I was the guy I would make you even pay me before I leave her or we draw up an agreement with a time table because from the look of things you are married to yourself and she is married to the guy. He was even poking your baby's eyes when she was pregnant at 5 months. and he probably came on the baby's face too. This one still be marriage?

Please sit her down and talk to her then forgive her. You can even cry in front of her so she can see how you feel. rubbish

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Women are evil designed for the doom of men. It's practically impossible these days to find a faithful wife anywhere.
You need to send her packing regardless of anything because such a woman can easily kill you if opportunity presents itself.
I once came across such in my life. She was my girlfriend living in Lagos while I live in Osun and unknown to me that she was already married. She paid me a visit one day and we started the process of getting to do " the do" and as I was about laying on her, she cautioned me to be gentle on her for she was some months pregnant. I got shocked and my prick became sobered immediately! It was then she told me she was already married and she shamelessly told me not to get panicked about having sex with her even with pregnancy for she saw nothing spectacular about it. What a gender! That is just one out of countless experiences of such dastardly acts of the BEASTS called WOMEN.

Oga you suppose to die.i pray your wife or her ex kills you motherfvcking simp

Firstcitizen:
Women!! Many calling you names here have wives who have done worse but they know not

Wisest quote here

Channah1:
If you were my brother and still living with such a woman after finding out she slept with another man while already married to you and carrying your pregnancy, I'll give you 4 dirty slaps across your face.

Continue staying with her until she plans with him to get you out of the way.

Send the harlot away and stop calling that thing a wife.

sweetheart u don't like what you hate

Soulflai:
just be careful with words you use with me,you don't know what I am passing through

Bros! She go still do am again, maybe not in the immediate future but she go still go kollect count your loss early and move on. She nor like you reach as she like that guy Gbolah! Cheers

This is the highest level of unfaithfulness and I don't think she deserves any pardon except you want her and so-called ex to send you to your early grave. Someone who failed in her marital vows and stooped so low as to have sex with her ex during pregnancy, and the so-called ex who refused to let go of her after marrying someone else. You don't even know what their plans are at the moment. May God save us from the claws of Delilah.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Mehn bro you for just start to cut ties with her already because they're both going to even cause more damage to your already damaged emotions.

U might die young if care isn't taken
Your best bet is a divorce
Hmmmmm
No matter what U do
U will always come second place

madukaanaya:
Oga you suppose to die.i pray your wife or her ex kills you motherfvcking simp

That his wife hates him secretly.

She hates him for being a simp.

No woman will be happy with having a husband that is aware she is receiving illegal dickkk and does nothing concrete.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

You must be passing through hell right now, but you have to stay strong man.

I will advise you to walk away from the marriage. You can also do a DNA to confirm if the child is really yours or not

Hmmmm May God heal ur heart . So devastating . Know that u are with a heartless woman and endeavor to do the DNA test of ur kids . I don't think u can continue with this woman

Bros you better go do DNA test to actually know if you are the father of those kids.

You asked for my advice and I have just one to give .. send her away or walk away your self ...reason....she won't stop.

Marriage wey you suppose take your hands ruin before the two ends up killing you.

Gaspardd:


Its sad u re making this about you. How wud ur kid feel knowing that an aboki was pouring hot Akamu on his head at that cycle of his life? You sure that kid wud ever be normal?

see big f**l, so! any body wey comot from North na aboki. Op no mind all these girls. just keep her cus of ur children. make she just be like ur house help. that was how my ex wanted me to have sex with her a day to her wedding, and the guy na even pastor. I was tempted to buy, wetin I no fit tolerate from anyone, I no fit do am to others. wetin even surprised me was when she said that, she want her first child with him to come from me. na because of her I even change my sim.

I feel really sorry for you.

You obviously married a woman who just chose you cause you were ready to marry.

The guy is the person she really loves. I just wonder why she had to put you through what you are going through, it's wickedness and you are well within your rights to end the marriage.

It's sacrilegious for a married person to commit adultery, worse that she's pregnant and still committing adultery.

Save up and do a DNA test on that child to be sure she didn't pawn off her lover's child as yours.

I am really sorry you're going through this.

Says who the pregnant is yours?
I doubt it bro...and i doubt if your wife will change...just wise up sir

If I wanted to date a girl, and she told me she has a guy they're currently having sex together and she willing to port to me, I will reject it. Uuh there are many good sisters.

We4all:


I thought as much. In that case, you can just keep her temporarily and double your hustle. Then strike when she least expects. I detest traitors.

Keep on yearning gibberish. I deflowered my ex and few week after I found out that she had sex with her ex after I deflowered her…If actually she was not caught, I will be beating my chest that I deflowered my wife and the child is mine, Mind u she miss her period during that time, I dumped her sorry ass without thinking twice. She later aborted the pregnancy and apologize for almost 6 months, I don’t forgive her except if I wish to give me head, I will call her to satisfy that urge but never will I date her again. Virgin or No Virgin, The lady that will cheat will cheat, Av met with the parents of this lady and her mum called me to start arrange for introduction but God safe me.

Soulflai:


If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

You are an extraordinary simp!!! After all these damning evidence you still keep the LovePeddler at home and be feeding her. How are you sure you are the father of those kids? If you are my brother. I ll borrow boggiemans old kala and blast your left leg till you get sense. Anuofia.

Vikkoh:
What other advice do you want Bros?

She was pregnant and was still collecting from her EX?
That's the height of it my brother.

You can't cope with someone like that and if you decide to manage the situation hoping she'd change, kindly write down your will and carefully allocate your properties to your Child/Children cos she'll lead you to your grave in years to come.

Dump her sorry a$$ and take care of your children the best way you can.
Forget what the society would say. Your life and sanity matters and you shouldn't joke with that.

Meanwhile, don't listen to the Righteousness guy.
Him go start to dey explain how your story is a sign of end time .

I will add, If the children belongs to him.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Sorry bro,
I lived in southern Kaduna for almost 20yrs infact that's were i grew up.
Southern Kaduna women are 90% cheats!
Even right in their husbands house, the women still go out to fork.
I have had so many married of their women that disturb me for sex bt i see it irritating man.
Many of them. They are very very very easily to manipulate!!!!
Anyway way i feel for u bro...
Even jos girls are not left out.

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