I needed money, I needed it badly and I had a man that could give me but it came with  price tag; sexual relationship. On top of that, he was a married man! What do I do?

"He is so caring, he attends to my needs when I'm in need, he is not jealous but the only thing is that he is married. I don’t want to lose him, he is God-sent to help me through this financial hard time."

Really? I know financial issues can be frustrating. The problem most times, is that we love the key holder than the 'key owner'.

Philippians 4:19 says: "And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus."

God owns (and holds) the key to prosperity and yes, He has placed the key in the hands of men, and women too!

If God is leading men to help you, it will not come with a demand for any form of sexual relation, otherwise, he is not the man for you.

If He will use a married man for you, his wife will know about it and nothing will be hidden. If he's helping you out financially and you 'compensate' him with your body, he is not God-sent and you're not in love, you're in lust. No more, no less!

Oh you think you're smart? Everyday is for the thief, one day is for the owner like Yoruba will say.  I was comfortably loitering around sin, collecting everything I could but wouldn't open up. I was acting like a smart girl but the day someone got to know; before they waited to hear I never opened up my laps ehn, I had suffered embarrassment no be small. Say no to men and their gifts - laced with sexual gratification. Don't perceive what you won't eat. 

Please, don’t be a reason another woman cannot sleep in her house because you are a prayer point for her. Among the great things to add to a resume, do not add a 'home breaker' to it.

Give the man some sense to return to his home to take care of it, his home needs the love and money too.

I learnt the hard way before bracing up to earn a living, do something for yourself, don't wait for anyone to be your ATM. This is also applicable to men. Those of you that milk ladies because of their vulnerability, desist biko!

If he is asking for sex or inappropriate touches, even if he is a "Man of God/Papa", run way from such, place value on your worth more than the present need.

God will surely make a way for you!