I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games.
He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp.
I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist.
I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone.
A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me.
All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her.
He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her.
Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm.
Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.
Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.
Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family

Simps and feminists , over to you

This could be front page, been a while sha. Guy above, i for be ftc na

Who else noticed malacia pocket sallah for 80 minutes straight up.?

Women and being the centre of attention...

i wont date you....but you must not move on..you must keep giving me attention even if you are married...

Reading this gave me migraines

Your story long

Poorly formatted write-up. I quit.

Chnbanc:
Your story long

Asin, the thing long pass Justice League (Synder's cut) and I sure say part 2 go dey.

Wasted 6 precious minutes

I’d have love to read it but I can’t. You fit blind person.

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chocolateme:
I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games.
He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp.
I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist.
I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone.
A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me.
All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her.
He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her.
Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm.
Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.
Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.
Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family

Have mercy on him and give him a chance, you know his love for you is geniue, why stressing him it been 10yrs and you are still giving him the NO attitude pls don't regret your actions towards that guy. Cus time wait for no one,.

chocolateme:
I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games.
He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp.
I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist.
I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone.
A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me.
All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her.
He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her.
Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm.
Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.
Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.
Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family

Are you still single after 10 years of service? Or a single mother?

horlahwaley:
This could be front page, been a while sha. Guy above, i for be ftc na

Who else noticed malacia pocket sallah for 80 minutes straight up.?

hehehe! Abeg off the mic biko!

I know this time u gonna accept..

Then u were still in your prime, u bin dey do shakara..

But now I know for sure u are turning to an evening news paper.. so u need to grab him as fast as u can. I know u are in your mid thirties or heading to 40 already.

I can't waste an advice you don't need

The maths is simple. 26yrs(schooling and nysc plus ASUU strike plus jamb and all that) coupled with 10yrs which is 36yrs and you are telling us you don't need a piece of advice... My sister, you need deliverance and prayer by pastor righteousness and your village people to advise you.

After 10 long years ur friend has abt 3-4 kids
The guy is probably still single,like he told u.Hope u confirmed his informations.
If u guarded ur hearts 10yrs ago,I don’t see any reason y u still need to give it to him currently.
Time they say ripens all things.
I believe u knw what he’s after.wise lady

Op is it that u had no bf b4 and after camp? And 10 years later u still don't have a bf? Maybe u had a bf all along and still do, honestly u not supposed to be talking about that guy at all

So its been ten years that you've finished service,and you still single not to talk of getting married or having kids. You must be in ur late 30s by now.. And from ur write up there is still some elements of sakara in you. I no pity you since you no pity urselve.

I know deep down you're happy as the relationship with ur friend(guy) and d other lady didn't work out and you're also jealous as they dated for a while during service. Cos I no understand ur concern whether the guy loves her or not. Well,I don't think you have a reasonable parents,cos by now,they should have talked sense into ur skull into bringing a guy home and settle down. Ur friend has even have 4 kids while you still forming hard to get at 35 .
Your over bearing attitude has not left you at almost 40! Its ur parents I blame in all of this,cos they really do not put u under pressure

Ten years after NYSC?


Some people can be loyal sha. I will ask you out once and that's it. Relationship should be based on mutual desires make dem no do me wetin your crush do your family friend.


BTW some people will be calling you evening newspaper now and you don't really have the luxury of saying no now

parkervero:


Are you still single after 10 years of service? Or a single mother?

Good question I was just about asking..

I pity simpletons who'd think they're in their right senses 'n still choose réchauffé leftovers ..

Marriage is retirement program for women.
Do not let a wh0ring girl retire into your home; marry a virgin.

A woman who didn't give you her best years (18 - 23) should not give you her worst years (25 and above).

Only a fool marries a woman who another man has slept with before him.

horlahwaley:
This could be front page, been a while sha. Guy above, i for be ftc na

Who else noticed malacia pocket sallah for 80 minutes straight up.?

And the remainder of the minutes that wallah left his pocket damage was almost done.

chocolateme:
I met him in NYSC camp on the second day of camp, and we became friends but he wanted more than just being "friends" I seriously declined because of fear that it may be infatuation and the normal camp brief hookups and games.
He never relented, he persisted, I stood my ground even though I had feelings for him. Just protecting my heart and emotions. And wanted to know what happens when we leave camp.
I have a family friend from home, we are not close but our parents are and attend the same church. Hardly talks with her but we say hi once in a while. Coincidentally, she was in the same camp as me and we met and still say hi once in a while. A few days later, we started talking small talks starting from church stuff to camp gist.
I was supposed to meet my friend (the guy) on the Bonfire night so we sat together, gist, and catch fun that day. I cooked with my platoon members that night, I got tired but I rushed to the hostel to go and bath, freshen up and come back to the campground. I just laid on the bed to rest for a few minutes and slept off, when I opened my eyes, it was last 7 am the following morning lol. Missed calls from him almost banished my phone.
A few days to leave camp, my friend(the lady) kept telling me about meeting someone on that bonfire night, from her gist, it was love at first sight. She was eager to introduce him to me. Fast forwarded to after camp, we all found ourselves in the same city of the state but at different PPAs, we meet at CDs too. She invited me to her house to come and finally meet her guy. Lol. I went and surprisingly it's my friend(the guy) if you see the shock ehhh!!, He was more shocked than I was. All those while after camp, we communicate but not as before because I still refused to date him, just following my heart but he respected that and stopped pressuring me.
All I observed in their relationship is that she loved him way more than he loves her, she sacrifices all to the relationship but he was just not into her. She tells me everything when we talk on the phone or meet, and I encouraged her too. He doesn't cheat on her but he just doesn't feel the same way. I once called him to meet, I warned him to leave her if he couldn't reciprocate her love, he swore that he is trying to love her the same but it's not working but that he is trying to make her happy. She put a lot of energy into that relationship. We all later stopped communicating, life goes on you know. I never met or spoke with either of them since then till now (10 years later) I never told her that I knew him before they met nor did I tell her that he loved me and was after me before meeting her.
He told me then after we met at her house based on that introduction that he was tired of sitting on the grass waiting for me on that bonfire night, that when he knew I wasn't going to come out after not answering his numerous calls, he got angry. He saw a babe sitting on her own and he felt like talking, he walked up to her and initiated a conversation, then next thing she started calling him nonstop and all that, that he never knew she would fall this much in love with him. She told me the same thing about how they met. She said it was love at first sight for her.
Last year, a number chatted with me on WhatsApp but refused to disclose his identity, about three times. This month, the same number came again with checking up on me, I insisted and he opened up and it is him (the guy) hmmm.
Like 10 years later wow! I inquired about her, he said it never worked and that she is now married with about 3 or 4 kids, wow!! Cool.

Now he has come again. He still loves me and wants me forever. Years have passed you know. I don't know what to make out of this.

Posted for you guys to read and enjoy. I don't need any advice, I know the right decision to make when the time comes. Thanks, family

Question is... Can you identify the true love of a man when you get to see it? A lot of women can't, because of overanalyses, so they stumble hard...real hard. *smirk*

Just my thoughts.

After 10yrs ur mates are married with 4kids and u re still single.
10yrs digging, the bore of the hole must have been bored.

iLegendd:
Poorly formatted write-up. I quit.

I swear I don't even know writing rules but that write up was infuriating.

First thing first, pray about it sincerely and when you found peace embrace it. Any other things is to ask basic questions about and let him be sincere and opened and you also.
Any secret he’s hiding or you also, genotype, general health history, then keep it cool n calm as God help you to settle down.
Other things will taught at the counseling session. Happy married life in advance if the ticket no cut. Cheers

This your post is giving me migraine,,,I quit

Everyone saying this post gives me migraine and YET, they've not written up to a thousand word story before.
ONLY but a few knows how to make a good interesting story... Just say you don't want to read a long post walahi

What more can i say than Jehovah noni