Redpillers, avoid this thread

Just wondering how people break up?

Im in the middle of breakup now but i don't even know how to go ahead. It started this morning, The guy blocked me though,that's the only reason im not communicating with him

I keep checking my phone if he will message me,i keep blocking and unblocking.

I funningly wishing he's not in pains and happy even though im the one that is hurt and the breakup would hurt,and wishing he meets a good person that would make him happy, even though my chances of getting that is 1%

In all honesty, im tired of the relationship because he doesnt make me happy and only cares about himself since more than 5years we have been together, and no plan for US,and would always say all sorts of abuses to me,with excuses upon excuses why he cant marry or hasnt marry

Anyways,i know I will be happier single than being with him, i just need to be strong but its very difficult after not upto 4hours of breaking up.
Whenever we break up,im the one that usually beg him back, maybe because i hv never broken up with someone before

We started dating when i was 22, im now 30years and breaking up with him. I know I will accept him back if he comes back,but I pray he doesnt, I also told his friend to tell him not to unblock me and he should introduce a good girl to him. All his friend said was hmmnn, I always know the guy is a hypocrite, he once told him the reason i complain about something is because I have seen another man, I dont even keep friends(Male or Female),or go out,maybe na for my dream I go dey see men

Goodbye my love,i will miss you

Redpillers,pls do not comment

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Antyxx:
Redpillers, avoid this thread

Just wondering how people break up?

Im in the middle of breakup now but i don't even know how to go ahead. It started this morning, The guy blocked me though,that's the only reason im not communicating with him

I keep checking my phone if he will message me,i keep blocking and unblocking.

I funningly wishing he's not in pains and happy even though im the one that is hurt and the breakup would hurt,and wishing he meets a good person that would make him happy, even though my chances of getting that is 1%

In all honesty, im tired of the relationship because he doesnt make me happy and only cares about himself since more than 5years we have been together, and no plan for US,and would always say all sorts of abuses to me,with excuses upon excuses why he cant marry or hasnt marry

Anyways,i know I will be happier single than being with him, i just need to be strong but its very difficult after not upto 4hours of breaking up.
Whenever we break up,im the one that usually beg him back, maybe because i hv never broken up with someone before

We started dating when i was 22, im now 30years and breaking up with him. I know I will accept him back if he comes back,but I pray he doesnt, I also told his friend to tell him not to unblock me and he should introduce a good girl to him. All his friend said was hmmnn, I always know the guy is a hypocrite, he once told him the reason i complain about something is because I have seen another man, I dont even keep friends(Male or Female),or go out,maybe na for my dream I go dey see men

Goodbye my love,i will miss you

Redpillers,pls do not comment

Good one baby girl, u go girl..am proud of u

Unzerious:
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Motto: Better a Broken Heart than Dreams

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Please rate our Customer Service

Not interested in relationships anymore, just need a sperm donor for a beautiful baby,im good.
Also,he didnt break my heart(through saying hes no more interested in the relationship), he only broke my heart that for a longtime he didnt mke me exactly happy and if he had listened to me, we would have been the sweetest couple

Antyxx:


Not interested in relationships anymore, just need a sperm donor for a beautiful baby,im good.
Also,he didnt break my heart(through saying hes no more interested in the relationship), he only broke my heart that for a longtime he didnt mke me exactly happy and if he had listened to me, we would have been the sweetest couple

Ok??

We wish You all the best though *sighs*

Unzerious:


Ok??

We wish You all the best though *sighs*

Thank you

HRHQueenPhil:


Good one baby girl, u go girl..am proud of u

U no go invite her to Enough is Enough service tomorrow?

HRHQueenPhil:


Good one baby girl, u go girl..am proud of u

Thank you

cadet222:
U no go invite her to Enough is Enough service tomorrow?

Sure thing...just like Hannah, her spirit will be lifted up again and depression will fly away

cadet222:
U no go invite her to Enough is Enough service tomorrow?

What is enough is enough

cadet222:
U no go invite her to Enough is Enough service tomorrow?

Lol

You both dated from when you were 22 to 30
What were the both of you discussing all this while?
Was it only sex, money, shawama, ice cream, birthdays and other irrelevant things..


I would love to know o

Divay22:
You both dated from when you were 22 to 30
What were the both of you discussing all this while?
Was it only sex, money, shawama, ice cream, birthdays and other irrelevant things..


I would love to know o

No,I was busy schooling and making money, Im currently more than 5m richer.

Persephone1:
You gave 8 years of your life to someone who is not worth it, its a good thing you finally let go. However i will tell you this, it wont be easy at first. Breakup isn't always a palatable experience but most times it is needed to meet a better person. There would be lonely nights, lingering memories, you will miss the laughs, teases, talks etc. You will miss his voice, his looks, his smell, his hands ,everything you are used to about him.

These thoughts will come, you will doubt your decision but always remember the reason for the breakup. Another thing that helps is never hate him. Hate is a very big burden you dont want to bear for an inconsequential thing. It attaches you to the person you feel it for, smile whenever you remember him and always conclude that it was good while it lasted. That way you heal quickly and move on. Be happy, make money, eat good food, meet people. Life goes on.

People will surely show up and go at appointed time. Known this and you will smile through it all.

Hmmn, thanks alot
Its so difficult because i like this person very much before i even met him,before we started dating,i was so anxious to meet him bcx we were introduced to each other by a friend. Im the type that do not request for anything in a guy than hv a kind heart, do not smoke,drink etc and we are good. Im very understanding and do not have interest, I made all his interest mine, all his TV shows,musics, foods, colour, etc. What I asked for is so simple, butt nah, I asked for 8years with nothing in return but excuses over excuses

I'm sorry but you gotta move on and hope for the best to come.

NaturalKinzzy:
I'm sorry but you gotta move on and hope for the best to come.

How do you ppl move on,nvr brok up befr

Antyxx:

How do you ppl move on,nvr brok up befr

It's hard to move on my dear, That I know.

Get a new friend you can talk to 24/7,
Listen to cool songs to relax your mind,
Hang out with friends and make friends too.
I can be a friend that helps forget your worries and make you smile always.

NaturalKinzzy:



It's hard to move on my dear, That I know.

Get a new friend you can talk to 24/7,
Listen to cool songs to relax your mind,
Hang out with friends and make friends too.
I can be a friend that helps forget your worries and make you smile always.

I dont have a single friiend and i have no interest in friendship

One day we will have a discussion about how someone can love you but isn’t willing or ready to settle down. These things aren’t mutually exclusive. Now you are looking for a sperm donor to just have kids and be happy, did you offer him this option? he’s not good enough to have kids and still be single?

You will never understand why a man would not want to settle down as the average man would never understand why a woman is always ‘desperate’ to get married.

To you what you have asked for is very simple, to him it’s not, it’s too much of a sacrifice and he chose his happiness over yours. You don’t have to worry about him, he’s definitely in a better space, nobody to nag him to death over getting married anymore.

Good on you that you made the decision to leave because your goals did not align. He will miss you too but the decision you made is best for the both of you.

eazzzy1:
One day we will have a discussion about how someone can love you but isn’t willing or ready to settle down. These things aren’t mutually exclusive. Now you are looking for a sperm donor to just have kids and be happy, did you offer him this option? he’s not good enough to have kids and still be single?

You will never understand why a man would not want to settle down as the average man would never understand why a woman is always ‘desperate’ to get married.

To you what you have asked for is very simple, to him it’s not, it’s too much of a sacrifice and he chose his happiness over yours. You don’t have to worry about him, he’s definitely in a better space, nobody to nag him to death over getting married anymore.

Good on you that you made the decision to leave because your goals did not align. He will miss you too but the decision you made is best for the both of you.

Thats not the only reason i left him
He gives too much excuses why things cannot work,and same person wants that thing
For instance, lets say he wants a ball sold for 10k, he will be telling me,disturbing me how much having it would take his sadness away, then i give him "oh you can have this ball if you go volunteer for ball sellers" he will say,it cnt work, if i say, what if you hustle and i add this amount and we combine, he will still say it cant work, now my suggestion is bad,, at least you will have a suggestion or a plan, still he has none. Then dont talk to me about it that you want it anymore, then he will say, im not caring or if hes telling me he wants it next time and I dont lissten,he will be angry and turn it to fight.
Also,since we met,I have grown so high through upskilling, learning, schooling, as for him, he did not do anything. I once brought it here but redpillers insulted me, i should leave him alone,face my own life,how much do i own bla bla bla, 5years later, im 5million richer than him, he is also thesame person that wants to gumble with me how he hates not to be rich,i should borrow him this and that

Antyxx:

Thats not the only reason i left him

Good for you then! I dislike entitled people too. You feel sad for him because you care, you love him and that’s ok, nobody stays for 8 years if the love wasn’t there. As long as communication has stopped, moving on will be easy. Just give it time. You don’t have to do anything to get over him, just keep on living without him and you will adapt to your new way of life with time.

Antyxx:
Redpillers, avoid this thread

Just wondering how people break up?

Im in the middle of breakup now but i don't even know how to go ahead. It started this morning, The guy blocked me though,that's the only reason im not communicating with him

I keep checking my phone if he will message me,i keep blocking and unblocking.

I funningly wishing he's not in pains and happy even though im the one that is hurt and the breakup would hurt,and wishing he meets a good person that would make him happy, even though my chances of getting that is 1%

In all honesty, im tired of the relationship because he doesnt make me happy and only cares about himself since more than 5years we have been together, and no plan for US,and would always say all sorts of abuses to me,with excuses upon excuses why he cant marry or hasnt marry

Anyways,i know I will be happier single than being with him, i just need to be strong but its very difficult after not upto 4hours of breaking up.
Whenever we break up,im the one that usually beg him back, maybe because i hv never broken up with someone before

We started dating when i was 22, im now 30years and breaking up with him. I know I will accept him back if he comes back,but I pray he doesnt, I also told his friend to tell him not to unblock me and he should introduce a good girl to him. All his friend said was hmmnn, I always know the guy is a hypocrite, he once told him the reason i complain about something is because I have seen another man, I dont even keep friends(Male or Female),or go out,maybe na for my dream I go dey see men

Goodbye my love,i will miss you

Redpillers,pls do not comment

Nice one. Yassss queeeeeeeeen, go girl.you rock baby. Let him bounce, he's a real loser, it's his fault for not recognizing that you're a wonderful person especially after spending 8 years together. He's not a real man. Better a failed relationship than divorce. Even if he runs back begging never accept his cheating a$$ back. He's a seriel looser.

Never forget you're the table infact you own the modafurkin table. He doesn't deserve a woman like you, its his loss. You don't need a man at all, what you need is a dog, sperm donor and a good clinic for artificial insemination. Men are scums, men are evil, men are destructive, men are cheats, men are self centred, men are wicked, men are useless, men are...............


Na this kind advice i wan the give women now.

I am loving your personality right now. You can be committed and stay faithful to your spouse

Antyxx:
Redpillers, avoid this thread

Just wondering how people break up?

Im in the middle of breakup now but i don't even know how to go ahead. It started this morning, The guy blocked me though,that's the only reason im not communicating with him

I keep checking my phone if he will message me,i keep blocking and unblocking.

I funningly wishing he's not in pains and happy even though im the one that is hurt and the breakup would hurt,and wishing he meets a good person that would make him happy, even though my chances of getting that is 1%

In all honesty, im tired of the relationship because he doesnt make me happy and only cares about himself since more than 5years we have been together, and no plan for US,and would always say all sorts of abuses to me,with excuses upon excuses why he cant marry or hasnt marry

Anyways,i know I will be happier single than being with him, i just need to be strong but its very difficult after not upto 4hours of breaking up.
Whenever we break up,im the one that usually beg him back, maybe because i hv never broken up with someone before

We started dating when i was 22, im now 30years and breaking up with him. I know I will accept him back if he comes back,but I pray he doesnt, I also told his friend to tell him not to unblock me and he should introduce a good girl to him. All his friend said was hmmnn, I always know the guy is a hypocrite, he once told him the reason i complain about something is because I have seen another man, I dont even keep friends(Male or Female),or go out,maybe na for my dream I go dey see men

Goodbye my love,i will miss you

Redpillers,pls do not comment

Antyxx:

I dont have a single friiend and i have no interest in friendship

I guess you're an introvert.
Go to the introvert and join there group chat
https://www.nairaland.com/1830091/introverts-lounge-extroverts-pls-keep/283#111036681

ok!

JOACHINpedro:

I guess you're an introvert.
Go to the introvert and join there group chat
https://www.nairaland.com/1830091/introverts-lounge-extroverts-pls-keep/283#111036681

Yes,strong one and workaholic

I still dey try understand the essence of this post like this.