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You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Umbrateeth04: 1:58pm On Aug 30, 2022
Love as we all know is an UNCONDITIONAL DEEP AFFECTION towards a person
When you are romantically and sexually head over heels in love with someone, you love that person completely irrespective of whether the person is your opposite sex or your same sex

That you are a biological female at birth doesn't mean that you are conditioned or compelled to fall in love with your opposite sex(male) against your will and also because you are a biological male at birth doesn't mean that you are conditioned or forced to fall in love with your opposite sex (female) against your will
You are not obligated to love a man because you have a pussy and you are also not obligated to love a woman because you have a penis
You choose who you decide to share your love, sex and deep feelings whether it is your same sex or your opposite sex....society and family doesn't have the right to do that for you

Essentially, TRUE LOVE means that you have an unwavering, unbreakable and unparalleled fondness and devotion for your partner. It's also defined by an emotional as well as physical connection with him or her that runs immeasurably deep, and life without your significant other would be practically unthinkable.

Which now begs the question how many HETEROSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP experience TRUE LOVE as compared to HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP?

SEX IS NOT LOVE
THE HETEROSEXUAL PRIDE IS SEX
THE HOMOSEXUAL PRIDE IS LOVE
As a biological man can your girlfriend still find you attractive or love you,paraventure you got castrated or your manhood is no longer functioning?
As a biological man can your girlfriend still find you attractive or love you if you are permanently infertile and no longer capable of getting her pregnant?
As a man can you be bold enough to approach a lady if you find out your manhood is dead?
That's the questions begging for answers

As a man if a woman is only interested in your manhood and not in you particularly doesn't really love you she is just using you as her intimacy gadget because unfortunately for you, you become castrated there is 100percent possibility she will dump you and pick the next available he-goat with a bigger manhood that will satisfy her sexual orgies

Your partner should love you from head to toe
Love everything about you from your personality, physical look, your character and your thinking faculty

To be honest HOMOSEXUAL RELATIONSHIP IS A KIND OF RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU FIND GENUINE UNCONDITIONAL TRUE LOVE

In conclusion there shouldn't be a barrier on who you decide to love or share your happiness and affection with
Love knows no sex or gender when you fall madly in love with someone you fall in love with the entire being of that particular person irrespective of whether your partner is of the same sex with you or your opposite sex

PS: LOVE IS BLIND

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by AndroidAI(m): 2:14pm On Aug 30, 2022
Exactly!!! Love knows no gender!

Edit# For those comparing gays with paedophiles and Beastality, ever heard a thing called 'consent'?

Homophobes are indeed dumb dimwits!

By the way, homophobes are just closeted homosexuals with internalised homophobia.

We know them smiley

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:23pm On Aug 30, 2022
WHAT A PILE OF GIBBERISH YEYE GAY NONSENSE!!!!

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Gromilla010: 2:28pm On Aug 30, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
WHAT A PILE OF GIBBERISH YEYE GAY NONSENSE!!!!
as I dey look you, you are nothing but a roach poo

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by AndroidAI(m): 3:22pm On Aug 30, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
WHAT A PILE OF GIBBERISH YEYE GAY NONSENSE!!!!

We know your type. Closeted homosexual grin

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Flamemignon1(m): 3:51pm On Aug 30, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
WHAT A PILE OF GIBBERISH YEYE GAY NONSENSE!!!!
Actually it's not nonsense,true love knows no colour,gender, sexuality or sexual orientation but since you haven't experienced it as physical attractiveness awakens the "love" in you, it's valid but don't shame others for having true love

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by EmiDon11: 4:15pm On Aug 30, 2022
AndroidAI:
Exactly!!! Love knows no gender!

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by AndroidAI(m): 6:35pm On Aug 30, 2022
[quote author=EmiDon11 post=116199560][/quote]

Thunder fire you there
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 7:53pm On Aug 30, 2022
If you like use Jesus do example....na still trash take.

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Dynoz01: 8:09pm On Aug 30, 2022
I am a lesbian
OP imagine me drooling over a man's hard flat ass and hairy balls cheesy
The scent, warmth and softness of a woman is something to kill/die for. How can I leave all of that for a man that look like king kong grin

Omo straight women dey tryoooooo grin

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 8:21pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:
If you like use Jesus do example....na still trash take.
you na trash yourself, how you go take understand the thread when the yama yama and the yeye wey full your head and body no go allow you understand the thread

Go treat yourself first then you go see clear understand the thread

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 8:36pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
you na trash yourself, how you go take understand the thread when the yama yama and the yeye wey full your head and body no go allow you understand the thread

Go treat yourself first before you go see clear understand the thread

Your analogy is flawed, you guys are more flawed than average humans.You guys are sick,something is wrong with you guys.Funny thing is it is something that can't be fixed,like how psychopath and serial killers love blood and we accept that.You guys are just advanced forms of autistic persons or those with special needs.

We accept you guys as you are with your sickness but don't come here and start making the natural way of life seem backward or archaic.Your propaganda is bleeped.

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 9:07pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:


Your analogy is flawed, you guys are more flawed than average humans.You guys are sick,something is wrong with you guys.Funny thing is it is something that can't be fixed,like how psychopath and serial killers love blood and we accept that.You guys are just advanced forms of autistic persons or those with special needs.

We accept you guys as you are with your sickness but don't come here and start making the natural way of life seem backward or archaic.Your propaganda is bleeped.
you be confirm Weyrey of all weyreys
You are extremely sick in the brain and you are not aware of it

Homophobes like you are Suffering from PHOBIA that is severe ANXIETY DISORDER
You are a dumbwitted, scatteredbrain, garbage, landfill homophobic loony simpleton

Wow I will advice you to go through the thread thoroughly with a sane mind after treating your trash to understand the theme of the thread

You better liberate yourself from captivity

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 9:25pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
you be confirm Weyrey of all weyreys
You are extremely sick in the brain and you are not aware of it

Homophobes like you are Suffering from PHOBIA that is severe ANXIETY DISORDER
You are a dumbwitted, scatteredbrain, garbage, landfill homophobic loony simpleton

Wow I will advice you to go through the thread thoroughly with a sane mind after treating your trash to understand the theme of the thread

You better liberate yourself from captivity


Baba who even fucking created the word HOMOPHOBE or HOMOPHOBIA.Nothing like captivity my gee,we have been like this since the beginning of time.If two opposite genders don't come together stupid motherfuckers like you won't be given birth to grin.
I hope you are not African.Keep your bullshit to yourself and keep your stupidity to yourself.You people don't have a way of sustaining your population you guys will still die out if you continue like this.

My problem is we know you guys exist but don't start putting it on our faces and not expect negative reactions.

We don't care if you sleep or fall in love with trees,metals,pencils,animals but don't paint it like it is better than the natural way of life. grin grin grin

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by LalastiklaIa(m): 9:38pm On Aug 30, 2022
I am not gay and have never had sex with my fellow man. But I understand what this op is saying. When I was in school I fell in love with a guy that was not in my department. He was a handsome dude and I was staring at him the first day I saw him and he noticed. He came over to me and gave me a handshake grin . I had him in my thoughts Everytime and I had his pic saved on my phone. I just could not explain this type of love Because I am a straight guy and I interact with many fine ladies but I non has triggered this feeling I was feeling for this dude.

We catch each other staring at one another in the library. But I never approached him to tell him anything and he knew I liked him. He wasn't dismissive though or try to act like homophobes. So one day we were in the open outside school and we stood together looking at a notice board and then we got talking. Something happened and he started touching my face affectionately lol . I had to pretend to be dismissive and make a facial expression that I felt uncomfortable with what he was doing so people don't start tagging me gay but his hand melted my heart more. I think my dismissiveness discouraged him from coming closer and someone we parted ways without really sharing that love with one another. I still miss him though

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 9:40pm On Aug 30, 2022
LalastiklaIa:
I am not gay and have never had sex with my fellow man. But I understand what this op is saying. When I was in school I fell in love with a guy that was not in my department. He was a handsome dude and I was staring at him the first day I saw him and he noticed. He came over to me and gave me a handshake grin . I had him in my thoughts Everytime and I had his pic saved on my phone. I just could not explain this type of love Because I am a straight guy and I interact with many fine ladies but I non has triggered this feeling I was feeling for this dude.

We catch each other staring at one another in the library. But I never approached him to tell him anything and he knew I liked him. He wasn't dismissive though or try to act like homophobes. So one day we were in the open outside school and we stood together looking at a notice board and then we got talking. Something happened and he started touching my face affectionately lol . I had to pretend to be dismissive and make a facial expression that I felt uncomfortable with what he was doing so people don't start tagging me gay but his hand melted my heart more. I think my dismissiveness discouraged him from coming closer and someone we parted ways without really sharing that love with one another. I still miss him though


Bro you are gay grin grin grin grin....no dey try dismiss am.If you meet another guy like that you go get erection again. grin grin grin.He touched you and your heart melted grin cheesy cheesy.....NIGGA YOU ARE GAY grin grin grin

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by LalastiklaIa(m): 9:44pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:



Bro you are gay grin grin grin grin....no dey try dismiss am.If you meet another guy like that you go get erection again. grin grin grin
I never had erection for him. Only ladies make me have erection. It was just genuine love I had for the dude. Not that I wanted to have anything sexual with him
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 9:47pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:



Baba who even fucking created the word HOMOPHOBE or HOMOPHOBIA.Nothing like captivity my gee,we have been like this since the beginning of time.If two opposite genders don't come together stupid motherfuckers like you won't be given birth to grin.
I hope you are not African.Keep your bullshit to yourself and keep your stupidity to yourself.You people don't have a way of sustaining your population you guys will still die out if you continue like this.

My problem is we know you guys exist but don't start putting it on our faces and not expect negative reactions.

We don't care if you sleep or fall in love with trees,metals,pencils,animals but don't paint it like it is better than the natural way of life. grin grin grin
LMFAO grin
an enormous amount of horseshit in one comment, like I typed earlier you are sick in the brain
So because heterosexuals end up giving birth to homosexuals and then so fvcking what?
You think sex is only for reproduction between opposite sex?
Well sex is suppose to be fun for the people involved regardless of sex and love knows no gender
Your sense of reasoning is so poor coupled with a debased mindset

Heterosexuals like you are Suffering from extreme phobia that is severe anxiety disorder and it is manifesting in your choice of words
You really need mental help

What is even your base of morality because you are so pointless and senseless

Lastly, I am african and you should keep your shallowness, inanity, vacuity and wackness to your hopeless self
You should also drop the whitemans clothe, education, language, culture, games technology, religion and ideology then I will know you are serious
For now keep Wallowing in your extreme foolishness and blatant Stupidity

Ps: homosexuals don't care about your messed up heterosexual way of life and don't paint it like it is any better or special
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 9:59pm On Aug 30, 2022
LalastiklaIa:

I never had erection for him. Only ladies make me have erection. It was just genuine love I had for the dude. Not that I wanted to have anything sexual with him

No be from that kind level e dey start.Eye contact and body contact den BOOM massive ass fucking grin grin

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:03pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:


No be from that kind level e dey start.Eye contact and body contact den BOOM massive ass fucking grin grin
are you scared of quoting me.... werey grin
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 10:04pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
an enormous amount of horseshit in one comment, like I typed earlier you are sick in the brain
So because heterosexuals end up giving birth to homosexuals and then so fvcking what?
You think sex is only for reproduction between opposite sex?
Well sex is suppose to be fun for the people involved regardless of sex and love knows no gender
Your sense of reasoning is so poor coupled with a debased mindset

Heterosexuals like you are Suffering from extreme phobia that is severe anxiety disorder and it is manifesting in your choice of words
You really need mental help

What is even your base of morality because you are so pointless and senseless

Lastly, I am african and you should keep your shallowness, inanity, vacuity and wackness to your hopeless self
You should also drop the whitemans clothe, education, language, culture, games technology, religion and ideology then I will know you are serious
For now keep Wallowing in your extreme foolishness and blatant Stupidity

Ps: homosexuals don't care about your messed up heterosexual way of life and don't paint it like it is any better or special


Same way a pedophile will tell you he or she fell in love with kids also with those who sleep with animals.Sex is just for pleasure lmao grin grin cheesy...YOU GUYS ARE A SICK BUNCH!!!!.

One thing I have learnt in this life is that even fools have excuses.Men are meant to Bleep pussy that is why we have dicks.....chop your dicks off abeg!!!

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:08pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:



Same way a pedophile will tell you he or she fell in love with kids also with those who sleep with animals.Sex is just for pleasure lmao grin grin cheesy...YOU GUYS ARE A SICK BUNCH!!!!.

One thing I have learnt in this life is that even fools have excuses.
LWKMD grin
you have the IQ of a bacteria.
I mean look at the president is the same i.q from the same empty heads that elected him. If the head is that ROTTEN how will the rest of the body be grin

You need mental rehabilitation to be honest
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 10:11pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
are you scared of quoting me.... werey grin


Scared of what...baba if you are gay accept it don't paint it for us.
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 10:12pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
LWKMD grin
you have the IQ of a bacteria.
I mean look at the president is the same i.q from the same empty heads that elected him. If the head is that ROTTEN how will the rest of the body be grin

You need mental rehabilitation to be honest

Like is said everyone has an excuse,if I have the iq of a bacteria and that is what it takes to be sane in this bleeped up world then I am okay with it.
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:20pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:



Scared of what...baba if you are gay accept it don't paint it for us.
gay or not gay that is not the issue

The issue here is that you don't know anything about love
If you have experienced true love you won't be Typing shit
Put yourself in their shoes experience their sexuality in their own world then narrate your experience with LOGIC and CRITICAL THINKING

People like you are dragging hetereosexuality to the mud making it seem like hetereosexuality is a forced relationship
Give HETEROSEXUALITY some respect

For now you are as blind as a bat and sick in the brain
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:22pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:


Like is said everyone has an excuse,if I have the iq of a bacteria and that is what it takes to be sane in this bleeped up world then I am okay with it.
I swear a mad man doesn't know he is mad

I advise you to take an urgent trip to India for brain transplant
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 10:33pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
gay or not gay that is not the issue

The issue here is that you don't know anything about love
If you have experienced true love you won't be Typing shit
Put yourself in their shoes experience their sexuality in their own world then narrate your experience with LOGIC and CRITICAL REASONING

People like you are dragging hetereosexuality to the mud making it seem like hetereosexuality is a forced relationship
Give HETEROSEXUALITY some respect

For now you are as blind as a bat and sick in the brain


Love between two male friends,mom and dad love their kids but not the extent of fucking them gee.Love between a man and wife.What type of true love is there.Don't twist true love abeg.

Nothing like it is forced my gee,it is natural,it is yours that sound forced.


So you are saying if your homosexual partner eventually lose his private part will you still love him?

Nonsense !!!
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:42pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:



Love between two male friends,mom and dad love their kids but not the extent of fucking them gee.Love between a man and wife.What type of true love is there.Don't twist true love abeg.

What other true love is there?

Nothing like forced my gee,it is natural,it is yours that sound forced.
you are getting it all wrong and you know nothing about true love, absolutely nothing about love
IN YOUR DEFORMED BRAIN YOU THINK LOVE IS BETWEEN A BIOLOGICAL MALE AND A FEMALE?LMFAO grin

Homosexuals are not forcing down their orientations on heterosexuals
It is hetronormativity that is the problem
Homosexuals are carrying out their sexual orientation between members of their community
You can't force gayism on someone who is not gay, neither can you force heterosexuality on a homosexual
You are gay or straight and no one can change your sexuality

What really makes you get attracted to your opposite sex?
What really makes you get instant erection whenever you see an object of your desire?
What makes you wired to the opposite sex?
What if this homosexuals have tried blending to heteronormativity and found it disgusting and repulsive just as you are not attracted to your fellow sex
Think about that
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 10:48pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:






So you are saying if your homosexual partner eventually lose his private part will you still love him?

Nonsense !!!
I was not the one that made that point
But I get what the OP was trying to imply but truth be told the OP is correct
Let's assume your manhood is no longer functioning can your partner still have you or rather dump your dirty ass in the mud? grin

I totally agree with the OP a large percentage of heterosexuals are concerned about sex not actual true love

what you are typing is arrant RUBBISH!!!
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 10:56pm On Aug 30, 2022
Mutant001:
you are getting it all wrong
The OP was neutral in his own perspective

Homosexuals are not forcing down their orientations on heterosexuals
It is hetronormativity that is the problem

What really makes you get attracted to your opposite sex?
What really makes you get instant erection whenever you see an object of your desire?

What makes you wired to the opposite sex?
What if this homosexuals have tried blending to heteronormativity and found it disgusting and repulsive just as you are not attracted to your fellow sex
Think about that

What makes me wired to the opposite sex....because I am a man for bleeps sake.That is how it is supposed to be.Am I suppose to see a man a feel true love.

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Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by Mutant001: 11:07pm On Aug 30, 2022
jimmychang:


What makes me wired to the opposite sex....because I am a man for bleeps sake.That is how it is supposed to be.Am I suppose to see a man a feel true love.
the most stupid answer that I have ever gotten as a feedback in this faceless forum grin

Looking at your answer shows you are mentally ret@rded

What makes you a man?
Re: You don't love the gender or genitals, you love the person by jimmychang: 12:20am On Aug 31, 2022
Mutant001:
the most stupid answer that I have ever gotten as a feedback in this faceless forum grin

Looking at your answer shows you are mentally ret@rded

What makes you a man?


Yes,that is how I define myself.

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